My wife wants went to a bar last weekend and she is planning to go again next week or two. Is this the beggining of the end, or should I trust her. Why are you divorced or separated was it because she started to do her own thing or something else?
2007-08-06 09:37:32 · 8 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey, I wouldn't look too far into it maybe she just enjoys a night out with the girls.
My first marriage ended because we didn't make eachother happy, I worked 2 jobs and she spent all my money and cheated because I wasn't there to spend time with her.
My marriage now is great because even though we may not have all the material things we want- we have each other!
Good Luck and don't get worked up- she probably just needs to let loose a little.
2007-08-06 09:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by billy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separation and divorce usually happens when the husband and wife have a big disagreement that they cannot resolve. And in such cases divorce can happen even if the wife stays home all the time and doesn't go to bars.
If you have some a big disagreement with your wife that you haven't been able to resolve for some time. Then I suggest that you and your wife go to a marriage counsellor.
A counsellor often can help to resolve disagreements that people cannot resolve on their own.
2007-08-06 09:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can response as the wife part. This is my opinion, but I don't know if it is her situation.
Lately I feel like I have dedicated all my marriage to my husband, which I don't mind 'cause I love him. But there are times where I just want to get out. I just want a little bit of freedom form the marriage just to hang out and have fun with out him questioning my every move. Here is the thing. I don't got out because he does start questioning my motives HUH...
But in actuality it all comes down to, how much do you trust your wife. If you don't trust her why are with her. Or why don't you go out with your friends when she goes out. It would be like your night Off.
2007-08-06 09:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ale.SP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a divorced and re-married woman. I did the going out thing, because I was tired of sitting at home waiting for some love and attention from my husband if he wouldnt talk to me I would find someone that would.
2007-08-06 09:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you boring? Have you tried taking her out? Why is she going out with her friends instead of with you?
Unless she gives you a reason not to trust her, I wouldn't go there.
Think about taking your wife out on dates instead. She is probably doing her own thing, because she can't get you to do anything with her.
2007-08-06 09:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by teritaur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good for her to do her own thing. All of us need some space from out partner. As long as she isn't trying to hide her going out or who she's going to be with then I'd say you have no worries. My divorce had nothing to do with her going out.
2007-08-06 09:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go with her, if she dose not want you to well look out the end is coming..
2007-08-06 09:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out you might get "lucky".
2007-08-06 10:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋