Call her again, and accept that she was upset or would you say to hell with her?
2007-08-06 09:22:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd accept that she was mad and give her a day or 2 of space and then apologize sincerely but if she don't take my calls after that then i'll say the hell with her.However it also depends on what i did.
2007-08-06 09:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Top Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I see it like this, if I did something wrong, maybe she has a right not to answer for awhile, but I will tell you that she would get no more than 3 phone calls from me and then it is all in her court to call me back and if she takes more than a few days, it is upwards and onwards(although this assumes 2 things: 1. That I actually did something wrong(in my eyes, not the eyes of someone who is crazy) and 2. that I haven't been dating this person for an extended period of time)
2007-08-06 09:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the goal is to STAY in the relationship - then one needs to accept that people may take a moment to "step away" for a moment (not take calls or speak to the other partner for a little while).
However (and this happens quite a bit), if the guy doesn't know WHY the gal has stopped talking to him - it's at least polite to let him know HOW he "did something wrong" and they can at least discuss the situation when both parties are ready to talk about it. (It's unfair to simply assume he KNOWS that he did something wrong and knows this is why she is upset at him).
2007-08-06 09:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering this is the Marriage & Divorce section. Why would anyone say the hell to her if its only been one day after only one thing wrong?
Wow most of these people have no idea how a marriage works.
If this is not a marriage, I would be peturbed that the girl I was dating is unable to discuss problems. I can understand if she says she needs time to think. But if you are straight up ignoring him, than you are scared to face your own problem.s
2007-08-06 09:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Relax Guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship who cares about doing things wrong? These things always get made up and they make for better sex. Now as for doing things wrong in the early stages. Well there'd be little point seeing as she does all her evaluation in that phase if you screwed up you screwed up no use complaining about it. Shes missed an opportunity and its the best time to remember all the features that made her less than desirable.
2007-08-06 09:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Raphael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have a right to be angry and not want to speak with someone until they've calmed down and had time to think...anyone who blows off a relationship over a day of unanswered phone calls (after knowing their partner was angry) didn't have much of a relationship to begin with.
2007-08-06 09:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation involved. If it is something minor and she wants to make a big deal about it, then it's to hell with her.
2007-08-06 09:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus....what kind of games are you up to?
anyways...it really depends on the girl and the situation.
Most of the time if a guy calls back more than once he has some kind of problems, or is really mad or sorry.
2007-08-06 09:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL works good or waiting room 2 :)
2007-08-06 09:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by NICK A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much i like her, if a little prolly wouldnt worry but if i liked her alot then i'd call back and try to work it out, if we werent fighting over something stupid. wait it prolly is stupid isnt it?
2007-08-06 09:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋