Why is it that men who say they are happy in a relationship still want to play away from home?

Answer 1

Tell me about it..............so wanna laugh at this.........but end up crying........lol:((

Answer 2

I wish I knew as well.
We have been married for 23years and recently have found out my husband had had 2 affairs that I know of ( they were 18 yeras ago) but I suspect there has been more.
He says he is happy in our relationship but how can he as he has been playing away from home.
Feel quite hurt at present and he knows the only reason I have not left is because we have a 10year old and he has been quite upset over all the argueing between us. Stayimg with him at present to try to keep our family together...but for how long |I do not know

Answer 3

They think it's normal to go out side the marriage because they are men and that's what men do. Just ask his father and his father before him it's past down from father to son. This is what they are told to do in order to be happy. One woman for the rest of their life isn't an option. You will never get a man to admit to this remember men stick together it's a code they live by.

Answer 4

those men have diffrent values from many (perhaps most) other people - values that would place sex and a relationship in diffrent catagories

I was with a woman who was like that - and she didnt seem to be able to understand why I had a problem with it - however she did seem to have a problem when in that argument I suggested that I try the same, Im guessing, if you have been in a similar situation you may have had a similar experience.
What i have heard from others (regardless of gender) the story is seldom much different. as long as it hurts them naught, ofc they are happy.

Answer 5

They don't all want to. I am sure equal numbers of women and men would love the excitement and thrill of it but not everyone carries it out. I guess men probably have more opportunity than women but playing away is really just an admission of boredom - they are happy with their lives in general though and wouldn't want to ruin it!

Answer 6

I think men are on a permanent ego trip and the only way to cure them is to make your self so appealing that all their friends fancy you not just sexually but be fun to be with keep your misery locked away....then he will be satisfied that he has the best and need not look any further than his own front door. Sadly we all play games with emotions but if we dont it gets very boring

Answer 7

if a man plays away from home then he cannot be fufilled or happy in his present relasionship and some men are not content with one woman and the women involved should not accept this behaviour. any man that cheats should be flung out the door .then kicked where it hurts . from felix x

Answer 8

I truely do not believe all men are like this. The ones that are have no sense of boundaries, respect, or morals and are incapable of true love. Same goes for attached women who play the field

Answer 9

I cheated on my ex about 5 years ago and the only reason i cheated (and the only reason i think you could) is because you have genuine feelings for the person you are wanting to have a affair with. If you just want a leg over, get a hooker!

Answer 10

well we have to be carefull on this matter!! And even if movies and stuff will always show men and women as cheater, this does not happen as often as it seems...

Cheaters(men or women) are unhappy but afraid of losing comfort, and love.

Cheaters are kind of cruel to themselves as well cause they always finish their games in tears for forgiveness..

Weaknesses and lack of responsability is a true psychic failure and these come from both partners...Why most of people do forgive? Same fears : love and comfort....

If i do believe in love i do not believe in a cheater's tears

Answer 11

Because they're men!
They dont speak about their feelings like women do and sometimes do it as a way out of a relationship.