Marriage & Divorce - 17 July 2007

He was my first boyfriend. I really don't know what it would be like to be on my own. We have nothing in common. He is jealous of my kids. Help!

2007-07-17 08:18:55 · 20 answers · asked by marcia1459 1

My husband and I have been together for 3 years, married for 2. Before we got married I knew he wanted children. I agreed to have at least one. I just turned 34, and I am in no hurry to have a baby. But, he is. He is 39. He is afraid that I will put it off until it's too late. How do I get him to not pressure me any more about it. It's becoming quite annoying. I am just starting a new career, and we need 2 incomes to survive. Guys sometimes just don't get it. Being pregnant makes you moody, tired, sick. Working is hard enough, add to it being pregnant, impossible!

2007-07-17 08:17:07 · 52 answers · asked by Confused Chick 1

It has been 2 years since the divorce and whe have been separated for almost 3 and I have dated two men and I cant seem to feel much but like and I have no trust at all.

2007-07-17 08:16:23 · 6 answers · asked by mommybird64 2

Everything was going well until a couple of months ago. My parents didn't want me to work in highschool and said they would pay for my first year of college. Now college is less than a 2 months away and everthing is falling apart. My parents are getting divorced as soon as possible, and they say they need my school money for the divorce and moving on with their lives and that they can't pay anymore. So I have no money for school, but I also have to get out of my house becuase my parents are seling it as soon as possible too. Too much for an 18 year old to handle. I don't know what to do. I have no money and no place to go. Should I just take out a student loan to get away from this madness? or what..I'm emotional upset about the divorce and can't really think clearly right now...plex help...

2007-07-17 08:08:28 · 23 answers · asked by athick.ricepaddie 1

I have talked about recent passion partys I attended which were fun and I have seen stuff I never saw before. The host and some of the other women(me too) were talking about fantasies. I heard one of the women say she would love to host a glory hole party. What is that?

2007-07-17 07:51:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me do you think it is wrong to sleep next to someone everynight, but be thinking about someone else? me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. i love him but i am only 20 and i feel like he is holding me back sometimes. most of the time i cant do all the things i want because i am afraid he will get mad. I havent cheated on him but i do have someone that i might be interested in but i would never cheat. sometimes i just want to end it with him but i dont want to leave him. i dont know i am torn. what do you think?

2007-07-17 07:45:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes he just wants a quick blow like during the football, but when it comes to like saturday nights he just wants me to ride him... he lies there and just wants me to get on, we've probably done it about 100 times in the past month and not once have i won, Lazy!!! What should i do?

2007-07-17 07:20:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and her husband have been married for over a year now. My parents cannot stand him. They have hated him from the very beginning and warned her against marrying him. Several people have told my parents that he cheats on her with many different men and women in our town. My parents are fed up with her marriage and want it to end quickly.
Yesterday when I got home from work, my parents and my husband were all having a family meeting on how to get rid of him. They all feel that I should sleep with her husband to show her that he is no good. They want me to sleep with him while my parents stand in the closet videotaping the entire affair so that they can show her what a dog he is. My husband even agreed with this. He says that I should be willing to do whatever it takes to show my sister what a dog she is married to. Is this right? Should I really have to sleep with my sister's husband to proove that he is no good?

2007-07-17 07:16:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together 2 years, we have a 8 month old son together. We love each other very much. He said he wants to go in steps, which I guess means, live together, than get engaged, then get married. Can any men offer any reasons as to why he would propose and give me a beautiful ring, but then not want to set a date, or not even talk about a wedding. I told him I am not in a rush and do not want anything big and fancy-I'd really like to elope, but that wont happen, because he wants his family there. I just want to have the same last name as the man I love and my son. Men? Any answers?

2007-07-17 07:03:19 · 23 answers · asked by newport3158 2

he went out with friends while we were on our 9 month hiatus.....he got very drunk at a club and there were transexual strippers there....hedecided to be cute and take a dollar bill up to hi/her....he says thier lips barely touched and he was mad....i cannot see him doing this if he didnt really want to...he is blaming it on the liquor.....once he told me i could put eyeliner on him wheni was just joking. whats up is he becoming gay on me....he nevertold me a bout the transvestite thing for 4 yrs....insights anyone.??...why is this bothering me. He has a friend name dale that i used to tease that they were lovers and hed just pretty much ignore me when i said that.....im getting kinda grossed out.

2007-07-17 07:00:18 · 19 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2

My husband of 4 months was convicted of 3 DWI’s (5 years ago) so he has lost his license for 10 years total. I take him back and forth to work; his hours are 3pm- 12am (sometimes he does not get off until 1:30 am in the morning). My hours are from 6am- 2:30pm. Any way I was offered a job and the hours are from 10am- 6pm. Well, I knew before I married him he had these problems, but I accepted him as he was. Now he seems to be very selfish and says I cannot take the job. Yet he can take the bus at least to work, and I can still pick him up. What is a girl to do?

2007-07-17 06:50:39 · 47 answers · asked by ♥Nubian♥ 3

and life in general, dreams, fears? I just like to get on this level with my man, it seems like we are really getting to know one another better when we truly talk to each other. But he doesn't seem to like talking about something that requires him to think.

2007-07-17 06:50:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to have an affair. My relationship isnt very good, there is no communication at all. I have tried counseling, tried talking with husband, but he usually doesnt want to talk even though i've tried everything.. i've tried church, tried praying, tried everything..nothing works..i've tried threatening him to have an affair, nothing works..he just doesnt seem to care.. he had an affair a few years ago, and i cant seem to get over it, but yet i cant seem to leave him either..i just want someone else on the side to connect with.. i know two wrongs dont make a right, but i feel that i have lost hope with things...

2007-07-17 06:48:15 · 55 answers · asked by eliza l 3

my sons father in 96 did not uphold his vsatation rights , paid child support some over the years. 10 years later, comes back in childs life child does not want to see him what are legal grounds father has harrased mother and has criminal rec. please help told mother he was going to remove child from home . child does not even know what father looks like happy with step father. new he had a father but wants nothing to do with him. mother never stopped him from seeing child father did that on own also has problems in the law with other problems mother filed order of protection and back child support court made her..thanks

2007-07-17 06:47:30 · 13 answers · asked by kelemnic 1

2007-07-17 06:43:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-17 06:28:39 · 14 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3

2007-07-17 06:27:46 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer 2

I have a hubby whom I really love.And,whom I trusted.
Now I notice that whatever I feel ,like ,dislike etc..nearly everything is told to my MIL !
I feel really sad nowadays.
I trusted him and he has begun to do this.My mom-in-law is very smart.She asks him such questions that he ends up revealing everything about me.And then later she goes on to ask me the same question framed differently and sees my response.

For example if I say "i dont like abc realted stuff",then she would say "ah...abc related stuff is good right,what do u say".Now i know her pranks and hence I say,"hmmm..depends".

Also,When she says xyz and it hurts me, I used to tell to my hubby that I felt really sad abt it(i admit now i am a fool).And my hubby tells her, and then she says she never "meant" it so and cals me 'sensitive' and changes the whole story.and my hubby ends up beleiving her!I have decided not to talk my heart to him anymore...because this strategy of his would make my MIL aware that I am gettin hurt

2007-07-17 06:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

asked me not to purchase some insurance, and because the salesman was my cousin I did it behind his back. Long story short I got caught, I have apologized the only thing is, the very next day I let the kids do something he asked me not to do. My reasons for allowing the kids to do that is because its summer and they have yet to really go anywhere. I have apologized for that too. But he is hurt and mad. I feel he should understand I was only trying to please everyone (and made a bigger mess) how can I make it up to him? He said he doesn't know if we will make it if I won't listen to him. (we will be ok, I just need him to forgive me, quick) My birthday is this weekend, kidding.

2007-07-17 06:07:25 · 16 answers · asked by Tamm 4

i have been happily married for almost 7 years. lately i have no desire for sex. when i go to bed i want to sleep!! could something be wrong with me?? i love my husband uncondionally and am very happy with our lives.

2007-07-17 06:00:17 · 12 answers · asked by WAG 2

have been married 16 years, have had a rocky marriage, but alot of good times, i know i can not be faithful, should i get a divorce. we have broken up countless times in the past over infidelity on both ends.

2007-07-17 05:51:54 · 35 answers · asked by paul m 1

2007-07-17 05:46:36 · 17 answers · asked by Roxy 2

My soon to be husband says once we are married he expects sex daily several times a day and dont get me wrong i love sex as much as the next person but this seems a bit to much but he says all men need/want sex everyday and its a wife's duty to do this..He also said that if i dont perform my duties daily then our marriage wont last long..I love him but having second thoughts on marrying him cause of this..Like i said i love sex but everyday several times a day seems a bit to much..Any advice on this..We are both in our mid-30's

2007-07-17 05:40:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

A week ago I did something that I feel horrible about, something so bad I can't look at my husband. We had a party for several friends that got very out of hand, with lots of drinking. Before everyone left for the night, I was spinning but managed to make it up to bed where I brought out my pocket rocket to help get me to sleep. A man who I thought was my husband entered the dark room looking for the bathroom, saw me there and I called him over, again convinced it was my husband. I was so drunk I couldn't tell. To make a long story short, his pants were off in no time and I performed oral sex on him, and he on me. When he entered me I began to realize to my horror this was NOT my husband (his penis was much larger and he was rougher). I told him to stop, he didn't and quickly climaxed inside of me (my husband is fixed, I am not on the pill). I am ashamed to say I climaxed too. He got up, said nothing and walked out. My period came two days later so I am safe, but feel awful.

2007-07-17 05:39:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 12 years and have three preschool age children. THE problem.... while cleaning out our basement storage room I found two very graphic love letters from a so called FRIEND. Wish I had not read them, but I did. The letters were dated before we were married, but not much before....like a month (We won a radio contest and were married quickly after dating eleven months) One letter described how the other women didn't want to come between us but... blah blah blah...the second letter described how she wasn't sorry that last night happened and HOW it happend ( It pleased me seeing you gratified as you f***** my mouth). To date I have confronted HER by phone AND mailed the letters to her (she says she didn't remember what she wrote so I wanted us to be on the same page). I also confonted my husband and he just wanted to know why I went through his stuff. TRUE! My question is why did he keep the letters? Can I trust him? Should I trust my gut? Help!

2007-07-17 05:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by luvmy2twinkies*1cupcake 1

We British are extremely gratefully and thankyou for taking Posh Spice away from our shore. I, and many others am sick and tired of her skinny, pouting and irritating media hype.
A word of warning though, we don't want her back now. She will have to stay there forever. A quick question though. Are you sick of her already, if not I bet it doesn't take long.

2007-07-17 05:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by Nelson 2

he has been violent 2 times before when he drinks. i told him he needs to choose his family or his partying with his friends

2007-07-17 05:05:37 · 31 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3

I know I won't get the retail price out of these rings. We were together 15 years, the set was purchased about 8 years ago.

It's still listed on Kay's website for $13, 000. What are your suggestions for a reserve price on eBay?

The ring is well cared for, I've never lost or had to replace any stones.

Here's a link to the ring info on Kay's website:

http://www.kay.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?langId=-1&storeId=10101&catalogId=10001&productId=940023800

Thanks in advance! :)

2007-07-17 04:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by justme 1

what should i do?!!!

2007-07-17 04:44:36 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have noticed a change in my husband lately. He's always tired at night and doesn't have any interest in sex anymore, except sometimes when we have been drinking on the weekend. He's a contractor and always going to people's homes to give estimates so it's hard to keep track of his whereabouts. It's the same with the cell phone. He gets all kinds of calls all day from customers. He doesn't go out at night without me, but he does stop into the pub for a couple of beers on the way home from work sometimes. He is good looking and has a sexy irish accent so I assume he wouldn't have any trouble finding a willing lady. I just have a bad feeling here lately. He has also expressed interest in having a threesome, but that is out of the question for me. I love my husband and don't want anyone else. We have been married now 6 years and have 3 children together. How can I find out if he is cheating or put my mind at ease? Thanks

2007-07-17 04:42:08 · 37 answers · asked by Concerned 2