Marriage & Divorce - 17 July 2007

My husband I have had this discussion many of times. Would you be okay with your husband/wife trying to find new friends of the opposite sex? I think it is okay for married couples to have friends of the opposite sex, a) if they are mutual friends, b) if they are friends that went to school with or they have known them for a while. But just to go out and solicit new friends of the opposite sex seems crazy to me. My husband said it would be nice to meet some female friends, but he knows I won't approve of it.

What do you think about this?

2007-07-17 17:19:12 · 23 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

The husband has a second family, the wife wants to move out of the conjugal dwelling but can't because he threatens her to stop the financial support in case she leaves the house. They are leaving separately for 5 years but the husband decides where they should stay feeling ashamed of the situation the wife wants to leave the place but can't because of the husbands threat.

2007-07-17 17:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by tart 2

2007-07-17 17:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

When are women most attractive to you? In the morning? Right after sex? ............or is it some other time? Taking a poll!

2007-07-17 17:02:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I entered into a chili cook-off. I met my husband through my employee (his daughter). He had a propane burner on a tri-pod and kept the flame (to cook the chili) going for me...I guess in more ways than one! He asked his daughter if I might be interested in going out with him. I didn't place in the cookoff, but I met my husband of 17 years. What is your story?

2007-07-17 17:00:06 · 11 answers · asked by BLM 3

I met the greatest guy today, but he's married to a fat, loud-mouthed smoker who has tatoos on her rolls. Why?!?!?

(They've been married 1 year so I doubt she was hot before.)

2007-07-17 16:56:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-17 16:53:35 · 9 answers · asked by Bien Chula 5

One of their houses is in Arizona and the other in Arkansas. They actually live in Arkansas but the wife has moved back into the house in Arizona two months ago. He stayed in the house in Arkansas. They haved lived in Arkansas for a year or so. Are they legal residents of Arkansas or since they own a house in Arizona are they legal residents of Arizona?

2007-07-17 16:42:34 · 7 answers · asked by motherof3 2

I am actually thinking about marriage once again (this will be number 4). The woman I've been dating is a lot of fun and she seems to like me for who I am. problems began when I invited her to my trailer last Saturday for pizza and beer. It seems like all she did was talk about how nasty my house was. There are lots of empty beer cans and pizza boxes everywhere. I also use an empty beer keg for a TV stand that she mentioned and also my kitchen floor is dark brown but only because I haven't mopped it in two years. She also pointed out the trail of Roach proof powder along the walls and the piles of filthy clothes in the bedroom. Thank goodness she didn't spot the racoon blood splattered on the back wall (see my 360 blog for that story). I guess she really snapped when she discovered the dirty dishes in the dishwasher -- it broke down over a year ago and I never took them out. Is she being unreasonable or am I really a slob? Should that stand in our way of true love?

2007-07-17 16:39:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-17 16:37:23 · 11 answers · asked by patel i 1

My husband and I have been married for 4 years and together for 6. Three months ago, he moved out and said that he didn't want to be married anymore. I rarely talk with him now, because I will not call him. He acts as though he has just completely closed me out of his life, but I just cannot seem to do the same. I love him deeply, but I don't know if I should continue to leave him alone or try to communicate with him. When I do talk with him, I wind up crying and whining. So many people have said "look for him to be seeing someone else." I have and I don't see anything. I still have a lot of resources and friends that stumble on things and not one has let ANYTHING slip. I am really trying to be positive, but three months is a little long when we seem to be getting more distant with communication coming to just about nothing. Therapy wasn't for him; he quit. I still go to therapy, but I am to a point that I don't think cognitive help is really helping me. Any suggestions?

2007-07-17 16:34:54 · 11 answers · asked by cathy c 2

My huband thinks because I have male frens, and If i flirted with them it's emotional infedility. He doesn't want me to have no male fren, last male fren I had he disapprove of, he went as far as to put a software on the computer to see when i speak to him, he reads my emails, check phone numbers i call and the list is long. Personally I beleive if i don't have a sexually realtionship with anyone then there no harm in having frens, once their is a understanding, however had told him about one of my male frens,after he hatched in email, i must sat i hav flired with one and that all it was he even knows that, as he read the email we exchanged so he knows i haven't cross the line. Anyway Im not allowed to have male frens, he doesn't trust me, we have the same dicuss everyday why, i talked to other guys and kept it from him, even thou he knew of one of the guy.. Im very young, my first marriage my husband has been married 2 before, i re-assure him everyday i won't leave him and i love hi

2007-07-17 16:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by babe 1

Hey,

I'm at work on my lap top, Iv'e only got about ten minutes before I got to get to my next plane but, no I don't have that pic., I might but it's packed away somewhere. Anyways, all this talk about me and you..... hmmmm.. I can't really say what I think about it, you drive me nuts, It's like I want you so bad but I can't, I MEAN REALLY BAD
. Since we've been talking about sex lately it brings back alot of memorys and ****.But I cant act on those emotions, Im sorry if Ive been a jerk, but im trying do keep my distance. But everyday I think to myself, will she call, in hopes you do. But then when you acctually do, I cant think of things to say..... Then Im busy counting Inventory, or I get a rush, and I hope I dont let you down. Lara your a great woman, and a better lover LOL. But I just cant think of things to do wit u, plus my wife has me on a leash, and then ball and chains. If I didnt have Jr. it would way diffrent, Id proably cheat on her in a second, but everytime I think of it, Jr. pops up in my mind, and im like "I can't do that to him". You'll understand more when yours is born. Your life change SSSSSSSSSOOOOOO much. Anyways, I hope I kinda cleared things up for ya. But maybe I made thing worse. I still would love to come over and cuddle, and stuff but man I only wish. Sex wit you was great, but now it sounds like it would be a hundred time better. BUT........

Anyways, I hope things go ok for ya tomorrow. Let me know if you have her. Oh and bty I know preg. women get REALLY horny in the last few day/weeks LOL.

Love Ya Always

2007-07-17 16:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do!! My hubby is the best!!

2007-07-17 16:21:55 · 25 answers · asked by Amy 4

Agree or disagree ? and plezz explain why it is.

2007-07-17 16:15:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do to extricate yourself without losing face?

2007-07-17 16:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by annabelle p 7

what is the perfect edge for marriage??????????

2007-07-17 16:05:28 · 16 answers · asked by pritam p 1

2007-07-17 16:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-17 15:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by wonger200 1

i have been in a relationship for about 3 years and he has hit me called me stupied and made me fill like a complete trash.
i want to die i love him but i can't seem to move on how do i do it help me please

2007-07-17 15:53:30 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

we went to court today (it was the first court appearancw)and in 1 month we are going to mediation HOW can i make her change her ming she keeps telling me she likes me and she loves me some and that she then will regret it but she will deal with it. she even told me today i will find someone like you or better than you.3 weeks ago we had sex.and she even told me today: WHY i did not wait for here to leave together at the same time in different cars to go to court? is she confused or what?

2007-07-17 15:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by nanuk 1

We broke up while I was still living with him. I was making plans to leave. During this time, he dated a friend of the people next door and slept with her. I don't know what happened between them but they are no longer together and she started dating someone else and they are very happy. He doesn't know I know. But, I have to see her all the time because she is friend's w/people next door and my fiance is over there alot b/c he is also friends w/them. We got back together again. This is bothering me b/c it makes me wonder if we broke up b/c of her and if he is only back w/ me b/c she broke up w/him?I finally told him I know. He denied it and said he didn't date anyone while we were broken up. I pushed. He finally got angry and said ' So what? Do I have to hear this the rest of my life. You could have just moved on w/your life and been happy!'. I was hurt and shocked. (We were only broken up three weeks.) Does this mean he doesn't care or just doesn't want to talk about it?

2007-07-17 15:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She leaves in her car when he leaves, and she watches him get into his car just starring at him....
PLEASE help. I don't how good I am at kicking a@@, but give me some suggestions....

2007-07-17 15:06:07 · 22 answers · asked by Forever Brooklyn 2

lets see what the basic differences are in men and women. what do the guys look for in a relationship/marriage and what do the ladies want? i appreciate all the the answers from security to a home cooked meal :-)

2007-07-17 14:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by not this way 5

Or about your gf / bf? (Fill in the blank)

2007-07-17 14:49:46 · 12 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

I am so upset and confused right now, I have no idea what to do. I have been married for 5 months now, but I am NOT happy. I never officially broke up with my ex-boyfriend of 4 years, we became long distance last June, then I rekindled with an old friend in Sept and after 5 months dating he proposed and I accepted. I guess this was a rebound, I never completely got over my ex-boyfriend...things just happened.
Well, I am not happy, I still love my ex, I miss him beyond belief and I know he loves me too. When he heard I was getting married, he tried to stop the wedding, but it was just too late at that point, too many things had been planned. I am NOT sad, but I am NOT happy whatsoever, I just feel "blah." I think about my ex all the time, love him alot, but I dont know what to do. I miss him.

I dont want to hurt my husband by getting divorced and I dont want to be alone (if my ex wont take me back) I am SOO confused. Will I feel better? Am I in love? It has been 5 months!

2007-07-17 14:43:03 · 16 answers · asked by felicia246 1

All we do is argue, we argue over everything and honestly i'm fed up with it. He's nice to me when he wants something and that's it. I just don't know what to do anymore, it's really frustrating. He leaves every night to go hang out with his friends while i stay home with our 14 month old son as i do 24/7. I don't get to go hang out with my friends or even go to the store by myself. Any ideas??

2007-07-17 14:40:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just love to know the stories, some people have really romantic stories, and I just want to know them !

2007-07-17 14:33:51 · 24 answers · asked by totygoliguez1989 5

I am recently separated after 15+ yrs and will be living on my own for the first time. I am concerned about if I will be able to "start over" again. I make plenty of money but have never managed it well. I am scared I will fall on my face and be forced to come back humiliated. Any help?

2007-07-17 14:00:22 · 24 answers · asked by Aa_Ron 1

2007-07-17 13:51:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous