we went to court today (it was the first court appearancw)and in 1 month we are going to mediation HOW can i make her change her ming she keeps telling me she likes me and she loves me some and that she then will regret it but she will deal with it. she even told me today i will find someone like you or better than you.3 weeks ago we had sex.and she even told me today: WHY i did not wait for here to leave together at the same time in different cars to go to court? is she confused or what?
2007-07-17 15:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by nanuk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think she is confused? Why does she want to divorce? Did she cheat on you and she feels guilty or did you do anything wrong to her? Why don't you suggest seeing a counselor before doing anything else?
2007-07-17 15:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stanley the Westie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both confusing, as well as confused. Divorce is so hard it is unbelievable. Staying together is the easy way out some times. "Loves you some?" Don't you think you deserve better than that?
2007-07-17 22:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by deemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex 3 weeks ago and you wonder if she is confused? If she is, she would have a right to be. If you are wanting a divorce, why did you have sex 3 weeks ago? You have to set boundaries and not having sex with your soon to be ex wife is one of them!
2007-07-17 22:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called mine games playing with your head both of them. If you have assets an going to have to divide them than she might have agenda. Keep you thinking an she get more settlement. If not than your lucky she leaving as she has issues.
2007-07-17 23:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to dinner. Something Fancy, and pour your heart out to her. Don;t be prideful. Love is worth fighting for. Tell her you love her and want the marriage to work. Tell her (if you mean it) you are willing to do whatever it take for your relationship to be complete. Good luck to you both.
2007-07-17 23:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋