We broke up while I was still living with him. I was making plans to leave. During this time, he dated a friend of the people next door and slept with her. I don't know what happened between them but they are no longer together and she started dating someone else and they are very happy. He doesn't know I know. But, I have to see her all the time because she is friend's w/people next door and my fiance is over there alot b/c he is also friends w/them. We got back together again. This is bothering me b/c it makes me wonder if we broke up b/c of her and if he is only back w/ me b/c she broke up w/him?I finally told him I know. He denied it and said he didn't date anyone while we were broken up. I pushed. He finally got angry and said ' So what? Do I have to hear this the rest of my life. You could have just moved on w/your life and been happy!'. I was hurt and shocked. (We were only broken up three weeks.) Does this mean he doesn't care or just doesn't want to talk about it?
2007-07-17 15:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow, and your marrying him? hmm....you broke up for only 3 weeks, and he jumped immediately into bed with some girl? wow, he must have been reallllly heartbroken about the breakup....
since you were technically broken up, it doesn't sound like cheating, but if he is THAT quick with his penis, then you need to rethink this wedding thing. plus, he lied about it. this guy is an a ss. hopefully you'll figure it out before the wedding and the kids.
2007-07-17 15:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 23:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time with this guy. If he loved you and was your true one he'd have come clean and been honest. Yes you all were broke up and its really non of your buisness but he should have spoken up when asked. If he really wanted to make life right with you. Its as easy as this. If you are asking these questions he isnt the one. When you find the one there are no questions to ask be cause you have no doughts no fears and you never wonder if they love you cause they show you everyday.
2007-07-17 15:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mad when you get up from your seat at the movies and find someone else sitting there? Or maybe when you loose a good parking spot? You shouldn't have left in the first place then, should you? I'm glad the guy got some nookie while you tread your path of sorrow and then tried to come back to him ad he scorned you!! Kudos to the guy!
2007-07-17 15:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You made a decision to get back together with him even though you knew he slept with someone else. If you can't trust him, why did you bother to get back with him? You have to make a choice here. Not trusting him will only lead to another break-up. I guarantee.
2007-07-17 16:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seens your bothered an he goes to someone else. There are nice people out there without the drama.The trust is gone is every time you have a spat he leaves your mind goes wild.Not go .Your call piece of mind or drama??
2007-07-17 16:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he his heart himself may-bee about it all and dos not want to be reminded of it its no good living in the past the future is the thing but can u live with the future with out that getting in the way its kinda hard and i think it will be a long term argument if you cant forget it i hope you can get on for the both ov you
2007-07-17 15:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get past the fourth line. Find someone new hun. You know better than that. Am I on Jerry Springer?
2007-07-17 15:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
6 billion in the world and you stay with him. Come on! Go find someone else! Does he have a L on his forehead?
2007-07-17 15:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Big D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me. You will never forget. You either need to be nice, never talk about it again or get the heck out of the relationship woman!!!
2007-07-17 15:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋