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Marriage & Divorce - 17 July 2007

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I'm about 7+ weeks pregnant and happy to be, even though it was unexpected. Now my husband wants to get divorce because he says he's tired of the drama.. Let me explain..

He has been back for a little over two months from Iraq and things have not been going perfectly. To say more, we've been fighting a lot for the last month even before I knew I was pregnant... He's been violent and has broken stuff, including his xbox and my computer, have yelled the worst things that a person can say and push me and even hit my car with the door of his... Last Thursday was our last fight when I told him that his actions weren't normal and that he needed help..soon after he left the house, leaving me with everything, cats, dog, cars..for which I told him I need help with.
Well, he ran away to NY with his friend without telling me and since I wasn't able to take care of the puppy, I went looking for him without knowing where he was..Called even his command and that's how I found out where he was.

2007-07-17 13:44:53 · 43 answers · asked by myliz 3

idealy we should be on the smae page and do it 50/50 buit everyone knows its not lawasy ideal. what's reality for you?

2007-07-17 13:22:49 · 8 answers · asked by girl 3

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When will I find it????????

2007-07-17 13:00:32 · 11 answers · asked by darlin 1

There is a guy (Craig) I know at work and he is really good looking and single, and I have always secretly had a crush on him and I never made a move until last week. We get along well and last Friday he started flirting with me more than he usually does, and then he was sweet talking me, and I couldn’t resist so we went to a Holiday Inn.

My husband doesn’t know about this, and I decided to let it go and pretend it never happened but I can’t forget about it and I feel bad. My husband took me out for dinner to an expensive restaurant the other night and he made it special and everything and the whole night I felt bad because he has no clue what I have done.

2007-07-17 12:28:25 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its going on 17 years together and it hasnt always been good. For many years I tried to get out of the marriege. I got married and became a mother at 18. Anyway, 2 years ago, things were bad and I found out that my husband was having an affair. Since then I forgave him and moved on and we have been doing okay. For the past several months, Our sex life has been very routine or nothing. As a result, I became curious and I began a sexual relationship with another man. It lasted for about 4 months. I dont have feelings for the guy but I think that this guy has feelings for me. My husband has no idea that I did anything. The guilt of my cheating is killing me and I want to tell him, but I dont know how. I know that it will hurt him alot and I know that one day I will have to tell him. If you was in my shoes, what would you do? I tried to end the relationship with the other guy. We havent been together for about 6 months. But, just the other day, he called and I saw him and we slept together

2007-07-17 11:30:45 · 25 answers · asked by its not that serious 2

My husband likes to watch regular porn.I do not approve of him watching porn so i have recently discovered that he does it in the sly. I notice that he opens porn websites almost everyday though I am sure that he doesnt masturbate when I am in the house.

I am sure my husband loves me more than anything in the world so i know my relationship is not in trouble.
Sometimes, we go without having sex for 10 days or more. Infact, this period would perhaps be longer if I did not drop explicit hints for having sex .

We've been married for about a year so I am guessing that boredom must've set in for him cuz I read somewhere that men crave for variety in sex. I am wondering if his not getting aroused by me is a result of watching porn.

Pl let me know ur take on my situation. Is this normal?

2007-07-17 11:22:54 · 8 answers · asked by AskAsk 2

Just watch any news cast/read any news paper, and there is always (not rarely) news about husbands murdering their wives (pregnant or not), their children and sometimes their extended families. Now the Vitter fiasco "going back for years" accoring to his own wife.

The list of these hanous crimes (of law, the Bible & traditional family values) in these straight marriages seems almost endless.

Now wouldn't it seem appropriate to outlaw such marriages, just to save lives if nothing else?

Do you think we should just let gay coupes marry legally, raise their children, work and pay their taxes, and help to truly preserve the sactidy of marriage in the USof A ?

Vitter truly must give an appology to ALL his constituats; heterosexual AND homosexual and then resign.

What d'yall think?

2007-07-17 10:59:10 · 12 answers · asked by Mezmarelda 6

How can I boost my confidence and not worry about what other women my boyfriend may see?
I find that I avoid going to certain places where there may be a lot of people around. I am ruining my own life by living this way, how can I stop worring about these things and just be happy, confident and secure with myself?
Thank you in advance for your help!

2007-07-17 10:57:59 · 35 answers · asked by lookin4hope 2

His been offered a better job and he will be traveling for 2 months with a client, and i'm left behind at home but its for the better of us but still im scared of being alone and that when he comes back its not going to be the same. We are used to being together 24/7. give me some advice!!! Thank you

2007-07-17 10:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We seperated a couple of months ago and we have a 2yr old son together. We are going to start scheduling visitation days(3x a wk-not ct. ordered). I am used to having him all the time and having my mom take care of him while I am at work. I asked him who was going to babysit him while he was at work on his days w/ our son. He said I don't need to know and he will not ask me where I leave our son on my days off. I am very upset because I feel I should know where my son is at if he is not w/ his father. I know he doesn't have a GF yet and I know his mom/sisters work during business hrs AND he can't afford day care on his own. I told him since he will not tell me, our son stays w/ me and he can visit our son that way or take it through court. Am I acting immature?? I don't want to find out he is leaving him w/ just anyone.

2007-07-17 10:48:33 · 16 answers · asked by ??? 1

If someone could explain it from the bible that would be great.

2007-07-17 10:11:10 · 33 answers · asked by spreetray 2

We have decided to stay together for the sake of our daughter. She tends to the home life and I go to work and keep myself busy. My wife knows I'm an active person (runner) and she is not. She knows of at least two of my affairs and has resigned herself to the fact that I need companionship that matches my needs better than her. So why then does she get so upset when set time aside to do my own thing?

2007-07-17 10:03:52 · 37 answers · asked by clive_beaumont_1957 1

My father is in the middle of an awful divorce that goes to court soon, from what i understand she is entitled to half of the house that my mother & father built just because her and my dad were married. She cheated and got caught also drinks and partys while he stays home and works also sometimes just chose not to come home. How can she possibly be entitles to half? Does any one know of any laws that can stop this. Please advise soon?

2007-07-17 10:02:36 · 15 answers · asked by beccaroo 1

My parents divorced at around 6 months. He is supposed to pay child support but barely ever does. So he still owes a lot and Im sure he'll be paying it off until I'm like 30. But how do I get it sent to me instead of my mother? She is using it for other things. I dont live with her anymore because we didnt get along and she would kick me out a lot. Its been really hard and knowing she still gets my money makes it harder. She has a nonprofit job so she doesnt make barely anything sometimes.. and she uses that as an excuse to keep part or all of the money he sends. it doesnt happen often and it isnt that much, so when it does happen I really think I should get all of it. Like if $200 is sent. She'll give me 50 and my (25 year old) brother 50 and keep 100 for herself. I'd understand IF i was living there and benefiting from the money she kept. Like if she used it for groceries.. but she isnt. she keeps getting all this new stuff and saying she's broke.. how can I change this?

thanks

2007-07-17 10:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

It is my job, I mate with all the females including the queen, otherwise there will not be any more workers. What do I do?

2007-07-17 10:00:59 · 8 answers · asked by Josh Fenix 1

What should i do about that?

2007-07-17 09:59:22 · 50 answers · asked by ambersmomma07 1

that the loan is under my husband name but we are both on the deed to the house. my question is can I stay in the house and pay half the mortgage and have him pay the other half until our youngest daughter turns 18 without having to refinance? I live in Florida if that helps. Thanks

2007-07-17 09:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by beba 1

I mean no disrespect to you men out there...but I am very curious when some of you say that all men "have to watch porn." I find myself scratching my head and thinking...then what did people do years ago before porn was ever around?? Sure, cheating was around even then, but...also back then it was really frowned upon. So...come on, do you guys really "need" porn, or do you just want it? A huge difference there. I am not judging or saying you should or should not...just never understood the all men have to thing. It makes it sound like you would die without it or something. Thanks for your input guys.

2007-07-17 09:46:15 · 23 answers · asked by ShineOn 4

Does anybody have any good outcomes from going to marriage counseling? My husband after 4.5 years of marriage doesn't know if he want the responsibility of a family. We do have a 4 year old involved and yes, it's his. He wants to go to marriage counseling, but I haven't heard of any good outcomes.

2007-07-17 09:40:25 · 14 answers · asked by jdecorse25 5

How have you handled things when marriage was not what you expected? Do you find that marriage takes more effort than you are able to give? How do you have a healthy happy long lasting marriage and how are you able to endure the hardships? I just lost my job today and now I have to start all over again. My husband is a great man and I do love him I never thought we would be struggling with job issues and fianaces being married over 13 years. I thought things were supposed to get better and easier with time but it is not getting easier it is gettting harder and harder and tougher and tougher how do you handle when things $uck and are disapointing at times even when you follow God and do the best you can? Thank you for any answers.

2007-07-17 09:34:22 · 17 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

PLEASE SERIOUS ANSWERS! He only lasts about 3 mins. from the moment we begin to the end w/o foreplay. I try not to arouse him before intercourse so that he can last longer, but it doesn't work. Although I'm not sure if this is a good idea.
He is in his 20's and he's healthy. His previous relationship lasted 1 yr. and he mentioned one time that he was able to last longer with her. He refuses to use any kind of enhancers (i.e. sleeves or rings) and he refuses to buy me any toys so that he can relax while keeping me going on. (He won't even accept a "clone-a-willy" type of thing so we're still using "his" willy). Whenever I bring up the subject he just says he doesn't want to talk about it. He only says that he loves me and he's uncomfortable with the subject. I am, sexually, more open and all-around more sexual person than he is. (I ALWAYS have to ask for sex!) So, what could be the problem? **Oh yeah, and I don't think it's P.E. because when I do oral, it takes a while for him to come

2007-07-17 09:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes, get ready to cast your stones! This last weekend I met someone I had corresponded with here for over two months. It was always just friendly, with a few sexual overtones, but for the most part just fun. She was doing business in my area and asked to meet me, and I never really thought about meeting anyone from here. So for grins I met up with her at a great place in downtown. Needless to say we spent the weekend together and had a blast, she has been married for eight years, and has sex with her husband about once a month. It was passionate and very intense, and she held "nothing" back.She lives over 800 miles away and when she left, I even hated to see her go. Look, this is life, right or wrong it was beautiful. So, am I now a horrible person with no morals, and to tell the truth, yes, I would do it again as long as no one gets hurt. Fire away!! I can't wait to hear the reaction. I have found that married women are very passionate and they leave their inhibitions at the door.

2007-07-17 09:18:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We both work full time and he works pm's and I work days. I don't ask him to do much, just to try to do an hours worth of work around the house before he goes to work. Every night, I clean the whole kitchen, sweep the floors, water the plants ect. I just don't want to be the only one who does something around the house, cause it always seems like there is so much to do! I don't want to be that kind of wife that makes lists and asks him to do something all the time. I just want him to figure it out on his own. I'm already feeling like I'm becoming one of those wives. Any suggestions on settle but effective ways to get your spouses to be active when your not around? We already tried a chore list for the both of us, and he went by it for maybe 2 day, then just stopped. He's not lazy, but really likes to do whatever he wants without me telling him what to do and thats relaxing on days that he has to work, which I do to, but can't

2007-07-17 09:16:19 · 13 answers · asked by sun day 5

and when he has to take all this crap to get himself up?? LOL I want to know the same question. why??

2007-07-17 09:12:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not married but my best friends husband said all men need/want sex everyday and if a guy doesnt then there is something seriously wrong with him and needs help and he also said that most if not all men get tired of the same woman after so many yrs...Is any of this true.

2007-07-17 08:58:59 · 18 answers · asked by candy f 1

2007-07-17 08:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he spends most of his time with these friends they call him at any hours of the day and he answers their call when she speaks to him about it he says they are not interested in him that they are just friends

2007-07-17 08:49:28 · 20 answers · asked by carolene r 1

My (ex stripper) wife left me for another man...(Go figure?) Some poor sucker has decided to sponsor her and is going to be her 3rd husband. Good luck man! Anyhow...She has decided to take our daughter and move far far away. Too far for weekend visitations etc... I figure why can't she just rub up on men here. Does it make a difference? Sorry...side tracked....How can I sabotage her plans for my kids sake. Our custody battle was set to 80:20 her favor. I know she does drugs and is obviously promiscuous. Ehem! I'm very stable with a house and my own business. My daughter (age6) loves me very much and cries when i have to take her back to her mother. (I don't blame her...I felt the same way when i had to come home to her too.) It's something about that wedding cake gentlemen...watch out! Well lawyer and lawyer wannabes take a crack at this one. Thanks!

~best dad in the whole world!~

2007-07-17 08:26:59 · 37 answers · asked by moralityisrelative1 1

If a guy goes to one of those Asian massage parlors and has an orgasm at the hand of the topless young lady, is that cheating?

2007-07-17 08:21:26 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

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