Yes, get ready to cast your stones! This last weekend I met someone I had corresponded with here for over two months. It was always just friendly, with a few sexual overtones, but for the most part just fun. She was doing business in my area and asked to meet me, and I never really thought about meeting anyone from here. So for grins I met up with her at a great place in downtown. Needless to say we spent the weekend together and had a blast, she has been married for eight years, and has sex with her husband about once a month. It was passionate and very intense, and she held "nothing" back.She lives over 800 miles away and when she left, I even hated to see her go. Look, this is life, right or wrong it was beautiful. So, am I now a horrible person with no morals, and to tell the truth, yes, I would do it again as long as no one gets hurt. Fire away!! I can't wait to hear the reaction. I have found that married women are very passionate and they leave their inhibitions at the door.
2007-07-17 09:18:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow! Unfortunately as you said... this is life... and I can assure you someone will get hurt....most likely her husband. I can also assure you that there are women out there unmarried who are just as passionate and hold nothing back as well. Happen to know this one on a very personal level :-) No stones here... just a conservative thinker with a conservative answer!
2007-07-17 09:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are YOU married? Married women, married people in general are probably more passionate and less inhibited because they hold all the cards. You sound as if you've grown pretty attached, but is she just as emotionally invested? Ultimately she has her husband to fall back on. Usually women, people in general, are more inhibited when they have sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend because they're afraid of doing something wrong and turning the other person off, but with you this woman has no worries as whether you stay or go, she still has someone else. So while im sure you had an amazing time realize that you had an amazing time because in the grand scheme of things, you don't matter.
2007-07-17 09:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by S 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Most people, especially men think that the things that make an amazing wife is by the wife bending over and doing any and everything for the man. What really makes an amazing wife is for a woman to not be a pushover and let a man push her around and be a slave to his every whim. She needs to be sweet and loving but at the same time she should be strong enough to not take any crap off a man. The days of women being slaves to their men are long over. Women who are strong, who can stand on their own two feet, do what makes them happy plus make their partner happy...that's an amazing woman! Hope you find one of these "special" ladies or have one already. Good luck!
2016-05-20 16:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I would like to say it was a horrible thing to do which in a way it is considering she is married but it was her choice to take the step to meet you. No one ever knows what goes on between a couple's marriage except for the two partners. I personally would never cheat on my husband but maybe that is what she needed was to get out and explore something different. You had something in your words that made you appealing to her and then you had an intimate encounter with her. I am sure in a way you might feel a little bad for it but it was her decision as well so just enjoy the moments that you spent with her that weekend.
2007-07-17 09:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kristee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh Mike....hmmm...First off, it doesn't seem like this was your first experience with a married woman, so I'm thinking it wasn't one of those "I knew it was wrong but just couldn't help myself" things. Yikes I don't know... I am certainly nobody to judge anyone, as I have done things I am not proud of. I personally believe there are more unhappy married people than happy, but they are still married...and that should mean that they no longer even consider sleeping with someone else. Are you a horrible person? I don't believe so but perhaps you have a slight superiority complex. (I do too so I'm not being mean) I think you feel like you can please any woman more than who she's with and so you don't see married woman as of limits. Just my thoughts! Do be careful though :)
2007-07-17 10:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not saying what the guy did is correct, but if you people are absolutely perfect and have never ever done anything wrong - never lied, never stolen, never cheated in any way, never swiped a pen from work -- then feel welcome to rant away at this guy.
Otherwise you are nothing more than just another phony-a$s 2-faced fake who is quick to condemn others but wouldn't dream of living by the same rules they force onto others.
Hypocrites the lot of you.
2007-07-17 09:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is the one who’s married and broke her vows, so she alone has to grapple with her own conscious on that one. As far as you are concerned personally, if it was just a one time thing, then I think no harm, no foul on your part. But I’m guessing, based on everything you’ve told us, that she is not happy in her marriage and may be getting attached to you. That is the thing I would be careful of, especially since you said you hated to see her go and would meet her again.
2007-07-17 09:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a "Top Contributor" here, you must be very knowledgeable about the topic of being with a married person, but from the sounds of it, you don't really care what we think. I'm really curious as to why you posted this question.
2007-07-17 09:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was seeing this one woman that would fly all the way across the country to be with me. It feels great to have a woman not only to choose to cheat on her husband with you, but also spend the money to fly out to be with me.
2007-07-17 09:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by clive_beaumont_1957 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can't cast any moral stones at you......or her.....because i'm not any better, but i will suggest that if you are gonna do things like that you should realize that someone is already hurt in this situation....he just doesn't know it yet.....she is married.
2007-07-17 09:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by VW Girl :o) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋