What should i do about that?
2007-07-17 09:59:22 · 50 answers · asked by ambersmomma07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you his counselor? If so, I think you should fully support his treatment plan. If not, I think you should reconsider what kind of man you are marrying.
2007-07-17 10:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Unless by "BJ" you mean "broken jaw"...then I would call off the wedding. I know it's easy for me to say that because I'm not in the middle of it, but honestly, do you want to go through life always wondering if he's thinking about doing things with other women (or men, you didn't specify)? I know I wouldn't.
Not to mention, he's alREADY in counseling?!?
Best of luck to you...
2007-07-17 10:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without fully knowing the type of relationship you have, I'd say that was quite a stupid question and you should treat it as such and let him know how you feel about it. That being said, the answer could be completely different if you guys have an open relationship that lets you guys do certain things with other people.
2007-07-17 10:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of counseler (sp?) offers BJ's?
Not trying to be smart, am honestly curious.
I also don't understand why is asking you this, unless he is trying to find a way to break off the engagement.
2007-07-17 10:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Melly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to reevaluate exactly what you are willing to spend the rest of your life dealing with and please know you do not need to settle...there are aprox. 6.5 billion people on this earth and almost half are men, so excuse the cliche but he is not the only fish in the sea and you deserve someone who will be faithful, loving, and considerate to you.
Frankly, that would have set off a million alarms in my head and made me reconsider the entire idea of marrying a man who would ask someone else for sexual favors.
2007-07-17 10:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.G's wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not even have to ask what you should do about that. The good thing is he asked BUT that's not the point. The point is he is not ready to get married and why would you want to marry him anyways if he just proved to you how unready he is to commit to one women. I would get rid of him and quick.
2007-07-17 10:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're into 'open relationships', that's your choice. Otherwise, dump him for the bad loser he is and find someone who'll be faithful and treat you respectfully.
What he must think of himself! What did he think you'd say? Oh, sure, can I watch? Sounds like he's a pompous a**!
2007-07-17 10:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by dynonugget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He actually had the nerve to ask you that?????? Wow! I'd take that as a hint of what kind of person he really is. Do you want to marry a person that would disrespect you like that?
2007-07-17 14:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by hungryeyes001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if I am thinking BJ means what I think it does (sexual) and if I understood you right he asked you if he could get one from his counselor. I would say no. Tell him you wouldn't want another man touching me so I don't want you touching another woman. or she touching you.
2007-07-17 10:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Msbearr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the engagement. You don't want to marry him. Thank him for asking, but no. it's not going to work. Remember this: This is as good as he will ever be.
The score as I read it is Bride- 24, Groom- ZE-ro.
Game over.
2007-07-17 10:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope that this is just one of those dumb not serious questions. But if it isn't then i would tell my bf no and break up with him for asking such a stupid question and go see his counsler and beat her a$$!
2007-07-17 10:04:04 · answer #11 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋