he spends most of his time with these friends they call him at any hours of the day and he answers their call when she speaks to him about it he says they are not interested in him that they are just friends
2007-07-17 08:49:28 · 20 answers · asked by carolene r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
better to have lesbian friends than women who may be after his body
2007-07-17 08:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's unusual for a man to have a lot of lesbian friends. One or two, ok. A lot? Questionable. Is she sure they are lesbians in the first place? If they are, I would think her husband is "safe"....but then again, most men do have a fetish about 2 ladies "getting it on". hmmm........is that why she's uncomfortable? You were not clear on that.
As for them calling him all hours of the day, something is not right here. Sounds like they have push beyond the boundary between a man and his wife. As for him to let it happen, that's being just disrespectful to his own wife.
I'm not in her situation, but I do have lesbian friends who I've known since school. We were friends for a long time. I've introduced my husband to them and we have partied together. To me, they are just one of the girls.....who happens to fancy other girls. I never have to worry about my husband with them. I'm glad to say we know where we stand and have respect for each other's lives.
If your friend feels strongly about this situation, don't let him get away with brushing her uneasiness aside. I think your friend and her husband should both sit down and have a proper talk. They should clear the air before it becomes worse.
2007-07-17 11:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Borneo Babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they really are lesbian and they are just friends theres not a problem expect that he doesn't give his wife the time and attention he needs. Boundaries of when friends can call- barring an emergency need to be set. If though she is uncomfortable, in my experience, there is usually a reason- a gut feeling that all is not as it seems- so maybe they are not lesbian!!
2007-07-17 09:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He drops everything when his lesbian friends call? Hmmm... When you sense something's not right it is usually your subconscious trying to wake you up. Think about it: No man in his right mind would spend so much time with his lesbian friends instead of his wife and family. Either he's lying or he's bisexual/gay. If everything were so innocent she would not have this gut feeling. If she really wants to know she should hire a detective to find out for good.
2007-07-17 09:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Periwinkle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should tell her husband to knock it off. He uses the excuse that they are lesbians. Well lesbians have sex too and a lot of men hang out with them for that reason. He is disrespecting his wife and he knows it. She should tell him to stop the communication unless she is around. If he doesn't she should leave him for being disrespectful. Maybe she should start having her guy friends call her all the time that will teach him ;)
2007-07-17 09:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only your friend really knows her husband. Perhaps he has a liking for two women together maybe that's what he wants, for his wife to have a lesbian relationship? Many men like this type of thing.
2007-07-17 10:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Simon Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question?
Well, maybe they are just friends.
Or maybe they are faking a friendship with him just to get to her which is what they are really after. How about the husband and wife get together with these lesbian friends and have themselves a wild time. You should join in too and take pictures and then post them on you tube.
2007-07-17 08:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is she uncomfortable?
Lesbian won't usually jump you and try to hump you, they have manners same as other people.
They most likely won't be going for his manly stuff, except maybe to make a baby.
And are they butch, because if they are, you can pretty much just figure he's hanging out with the guys.
As for the lipstick lesbians, they pretty much just dress up for the butches.
You are going to have to be more specific as to why she's uncomfortable.
2007-07-17 08:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's either lieing, or he's a bit odd to have so many lesbian friends in the first place. Perhaps they're just friends but he tells 'your friend' that they are lesbians so she won't feel threatened. It's unusual for a person to have more than one or two lesbian or gay friends, unless they have a tendency
2007-07-17 08:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what a strange set up that is...if anyone called my home at any hour of the day or night I would tell them to sod off no matter who they were. That husband better wise up and remember who is real friend is...his wife.
2007-07-17 11:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋