I mean no disrespect to you men out there...but I am very curious when some of you say that all men "have to watch porn." I find myself scratching my head and thinking...then what did people do years ago before porn was ever around?? Sure, cheating was around even then, but...also back then it was really frowned upon. So...come on, do you guys really "need" porn, or do you just want it? A huge difference there. I am not judging or saying you should or should not...just never understood the all men have to thing. It makes it sound like you would die without it or something. Thanks for your input guys.
2007-07-17 09:46:15 · 23 answers · asked by ShineOn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very interesting so far...Keep the good answers flowing everyone. I love opinions.
2007-07-17 09:51:53 · update #1
You all are on a roll! Thanks to those who informed me that it has been around for years...hadn't really looked at it that way before.
2007-07-17 09:53:37 · update #2
Boy did I ever generate some responses with this question, huh? lol...Like I say, I am not judging anyone, have always just been curious. I thank everyone here who has been so open and honest.
2007-07-17 10:03:14 · update #3
Well the idea that "all" men need or watch porn is a stereotype that is not at all accurate. I do not watch porn, nor do I need it. I have a very beautiful wife that provides me with all my eyes need as far as looking, touching and desiring a woman. I do not need to create desires for other women by looking at porn, nor would I want to insult my wife by doing that. My wife is precious to me and all I want.
2007-07-17 10:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
okay now first of all we men do not need porn we just like watching it like if i got married if my wife didn't want me watching porn i wouldn't watch it but i would advice women to let their men watch it because after watching porn and getting turned on by it you are relaxed and when you see a hot chick he still will be looking prob atleast a little but the thought of cheating or sleeping with that chick won't enter his head because he would be satisfied by u and the porn now if hes not getting none from you and he's just watching porn or the other way around he probably would think about cheating because he would be curious. so to some it up let him watch porn once in a while and don't all ways say no to him when he wants it again i said don't all ways be cause guys are almost all ways in the mood so you can say no sometimes just not all the time!!!
2007-07-17 17:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by danyal j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have either been misinformed or you have been a little single sighted as far as your question selections. All guys do not need porn. Nobody actually "needs" porn. Also I find the analysis that you have adopted a bit weird as well. At some point in time, none of our commodities today were available then. Is that to say that we have no need today for drugs, auto's, cloths, houses, manicured lawns and literally everything else that comes with every day life? Porno's are used today by both sex's. (although allot of women wouldn't admit it) for the reason of sexual enhancement, entertainment or maybe just to pass the time away as other movies are used. To lump all men together on such a wide topic has always been a woman's mistake. Just as all women are cronic nags to some men. What you need to do is to differentiate between those questions written by twits and those written by somebody actually using common sense. Case in point.... Had I not thought that you maintaned a certain level of common sense, I would never have answered this question.
2007-07-17 17:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well 1st of all "ALL" men don't watch porn.. I don't !!! The ones who get turned on by porn are pretty pathetic if you ask me.. Give me a woman fully clothed with a good heart any day .. Atleast I know she has some morals and a brain..and not just trying to get by by her sexuality.. Sexy is how you act and being a ( s l u t ) is a major turn off.
2007-07-17 16:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
"what did people do years ago before porn was ever around?? " There never was a time when porn was not around. As long as there have been humans on this earth both men AND women have been looking atheir naked bodies. I suggest you get an education in human history other than what you learned in highschool.
2007-07-17 19:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do all teenagers need cell phones? They didn't have them 20 years ago. All men "Do Not" need to watch porn! However there was porn 60 years ago but it was black market, 8 mm track movies, dirty pictures and porn comic books. Linda Lovelace was making porn movies(Deep Throat) before you were born. But today porn is so prevelant you see it everywhere, hard core porn, soft porn, nothing is left to the imagination and they use sex to sell almost everything. Whats a guy to do!! Lets face it, a mans dick is going to twitch no matter where he looks today. When I was a kid I was lucky to see a womans knee and anything higher turned me on.
2007-07-17 16:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by jackoffjackjr 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
In even TEN years I have seen and documented a decline in MEN in our culture.
I'm a organic, reasonable subject, part of man-kind and when I've been with certain girls, they have actually requested seeing some light porn together at times. I wouldn't make it the norm cause for me, its a little cheep but I had nothing against doing it at those times.
As far as being alone. I'm a MIND. My carear has always demanded lots of mind work at the beginning of my day and at the end of my day. Times when I'm alone in life, like now, I set out to impress MYSELF with my achievements, thus, work becomes more intense when my love life is idle.
I LOVE physical and mental sexuality but when I'm alone, to even, momentarily flip past a soft porn channel on cable, sometimes ruins my mood. I know what staring at sex does to ALL OF US and since there is a LIFE for me to work on,
I don't want the desire of images to interupt that! I get mad at it and its the same as seeing two people, happily holding hands right after a break up. It hurts more than comforts!
Now, to answer your question. 99 percent or more of ALL dudes out there have become more and more MTV oriented, brain faded, savages as the progress of life and time has continue! They are in states of shock, scared to death and instant satisfaction through perversion, drugs and sex has been somehow throttled UP and put on automatic drive!
EVERYONE likes sex. But EVERYONE used to also like music and rest and painting and squeezing sand between their hands but the city boys of today obsess on ONE subject most of all and you know what, MTV and all the others will keep packaging and selling it to them... forever... till the whole, giant, BLUE BALL caves in on itself! (that was good!)
I HATE what I see in our culture for the most part.
I'm PROUD of the way I function, inside and out and if I was the last man on earth and the only DVD's left were all porno, I'd lovingly pack some away for a rainy day and go practice flinging myself in lakes and building elevators out of springs or something.
Simply put, porn would stop my progress and if the Omega Man knows that ... .... ....why don't the rest?
I weep for the future!
2007-07-17 17:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No we dont need porn. When are ladies have us occupied with being a wonderful lady we dont need it nor do we think about it. However there is so much in the media as far as interludes and advertisements that have such hidden within there message we have made alot additied to porn or of such--its a shame that we have went so low........
2007-07-17 16:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It has been around for hundreds or possibly thousands of years. There use to be brothels, and those have been around for thousands in one name or another. If you go back to the greek, they use to have boys that they had, but still were concidered straight and married men. For other history information. So what did men use to do.......we actually just went and had sex with other women, i am sure most women here and everywhere do not want that, am i correct? I am not condoning it or saying that I enjoy/watch it, but you wanted the history.
http://www.xyclopedia.net/Main_Page
http://www.everything2.com/index.pl?node_id=1054183
2007-07-17 16:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Never fear, for I is here....... 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No man has to do anything. Porn has been around since the invention of silent movies (do the research it's true). Before "porn" I bet you had peep shows, and before that open brothels, and before that it was not cheating, it was having a mistress. Monogamy is an invention of the modern age. Men are forced to deny their nature, thus the "need" for porn as an outlet.
2007-07-17 16:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by javelin 5 · 3⤊ 5⤋