She leaves in her car when he leaves, and she watches him get into his car just starring at him....
PLEASE help. I don't how good I am at kicking a@@, but give me some suggestions....
2007-07-17 15:06:07 · 22 answers · asked by Forever Brooklyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like they say if you got it flaunt it.Sounds like your husband isn't interested in her but you know he is interested in you.Use it and use it well Enjoy jealously make people look ugly so make her even more jealously
2007-07-17 15:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by wkemrer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you called her on it? I would tell her that it makes you uncomfortable the way she stares at your husband, if you don't have that kind of communication I would walk your husband out to his car when he leaves and kiss him passionately. Then I would give her a big wave and a smile. Throw in a "Good Morning neighbor!" If she doesn't get the hint after that she's gonna need a confrontation.
2007-07-17 22:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one....if only we didn't have to deal with things like this. Let me put it to you this way....what if the shoe was on the other foot? What if a guy had a serious crush on you? Fighting today is a bad proposition. Americans are nut cases and they settle things with guns. But as a guy, I would have to take a stand and confront the person if it was my wife. You may have to do this, but it will suck big time! If only life didn't kick our a## every now and then. It would be more tolerable.
2007-07-17 22:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jack L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down with your neighbor and tell her you have seen her looking at him and you don't like it. Let her know he is not on the market. If it does not seem to help then talk to your husband and express to him your discomfort and issues with your neighbor. If all that fails you might want to consider moving. I know that's drastic but its better then living with that kind of a neighbor. Its an unfortunate situation. Good luck!
2007-07-17 22:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust your husband ? if he has given you know reason to not trust him , then why worry about your neighbor ? theres more than one way to kick A S S , with out getting physical with her. like one of the readers all ready said go out with him to his car and give that man a long passionate kiss and let him know what's waiting for him when he gets home. your neighbor will get the ideal soon that there is no use flirting with him that he is all ready taken . sometimes honey you haft to fight fire with fire you know what i mean .
2007-07-17 22:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good loving and caring husband that
is committed to you and you only then you will not
have to do anything as he will ignore her and she
will get the message. HOWEVER , if your hus-
band likes her flirting then you need to get him
straight and let him know that you will not tolerate
any hanky-panky. Hopefully your husband is the
first part of this opinion, and if so then you will not
have anything to worry about. I had the same
problem with a lady next door to us but I just ig-
nored her and showed her who was for me as my
wife is always with me when I go out and she saw
that so she just eventually gave up and picked on
someone else. Your husband needs to show her
who he is in love with and wants to be with and she
will let go. Good luck.
2007-07-17 23:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your neighbor and tell her you are uncomfortable about how she acts around you husband. If things get serious the three of you need to work something out.
2007-07-17 22:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by DeltaKilo3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it, these things happen everywhere, there will always be an admirer for your husband or yourself, there is no harm in having a crush on someone. She will give up eventually, you need to trust your hubby.
2007-07-19 13:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by WHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we say psycho? I wouldn't get on your husband about it cuz it's probibly not his fault. My neighbor used to have a crush on my husband too and he never even noticed her so I just let it go.
2007-07-17 23:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Love Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you scared of her? Confront the woman. You can be polite if you want, but you have to say something to her. Your hubby needs to say something to her as well. If all else fails, then you kick her azz! It's bettter to handle this now before her stares turn in to seduction.
2007-07-17 23:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by CrazyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋