My huband thinks because I have male frens, and If i flirted with them it's emotional infedility. He doesn't want me to have no male fren, last male fren I had he disapprove of, he went as far as to put a software on the computer to see when i speak to him, he reads my emails, check phone numbers i call and the list is long. Personally I beleive if i don't have a sexually realtionship with anyone then there no harm in having frens, once their is a understanding, however had told him about one of my male frens,after he hatched in email, i must sat i hav flired with one and that all it was he even knows that, as he read the email we exchanged so he knows i haven't cross the line. Anyway Im not allowed to have male frens, he doesn't trust me, we have the same dicuss everyday why, i talked to other guys and kept it from him, even thou he knew of one of the guy.. Im very young, my first marriage my husband has been married 2 before, i re-assure him everyday i won't leave him and i love hi
2007-07-17 16:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope I have many male friends they are not as full of ****
as women .....just don't ********* them and its fine.
2007-07-17 16:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by dragonness36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though there is no sexual relation, i guess you might be flirting through words in your email. that's why your husband don't allow you to have male frens. if u want him to trust you, be more decent in your wordings when sending emails to male frens.
2007-07-17 23:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong having male friends. It appears your husband is very controlling. Its often said when a spouse believes that his/her partner is having an affair, normally they are the one having the affair.
2007-07-18 00:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by ldmhuston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see nothing wrong with it. i think your husband is just controlling and jealous. i've had many male friends. my husband has known them all. only once did he have a problem and that time he was right. the guy was hitting on me.
2007-07-17 23:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liar.
You have male friends because you like to flirt. You also want to cheat and you WILL very soon.
I hope he leaves you...
2007-07-18 00:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋