Why do attractive, smart guys marry nasty women?

Question

I met the greatest guy today, but he's married to a fat, loud-mouthed smoker who has tatoos on her rolls. Why?!?!?

(They've been married 1 year so I doubt she was hot before.)

Answer 1

For ca$h !! or likes Fat Chicks

Answer 2

1. A smile is pretty important, but it doesn't have to be the actual smile itself. It doesn't matter if it's not perfect or huge (although white teeth, please) but it's the attitude that comes behind it. If you can tell a guy is really sweet/genuine/having a good time/etc through his smile, then that's enough. 2. Um it doesn't really matter. Only have earrings if it suits you. In that case, one earring is good. 3. Clear skin is good, but it's not a deal breaker if the guy has bad-ish skin. If he has full on acne, that might be a problem, but then he should just go on medication for it. Some spots are fine. 4. Haha, well. That's a hard one, because most girls like a little of everything. They want a guy that could protect them and stand up for himself (tough and confident) but still be sweet and caring (a little sensitive, not to the point of a blubbering mess though.) Basically for me, it's important to be smart and have good conversations, otherwise things would get pretty boring quickly. Just look for a balance, a little of everything. 5. I'm only 18, so it probably doesn't really apply to me. I'm imagining that it would have an affect though, just because it takes things to a more serious level. But honestly, if there's a real connection it wouldn't make much of a difference. 6. Casual. Good, clean sense of style and wears whatever he's most comfortable in. 7. In between. But it doesn't really matter either way. 8. Dirtiness, like greasy hair or something. Don't like really sleazy smiles either. 9. No, only when it matters. Casual and comfortable unless going to something formal, when it's nice to make a bit of an effort. 10. Toned. Muscle is good too, but not too much. Thin can look good, but not if the girl is fit, because then it would feel like she is more substantial than the rake-thin guy. 11. No. But it's nice to be respectful and not swear too much in front of a girl, like you would with friends. 12. Okay, so money shouldn't matter, and if it does, that's a warning that the girl is shallow. Money is at the bottom of the list. I won't lie, though, looks are important. Even if just initially. It's what makes a guy attractive in the first place. BUT if he has a great personality and you get to know him, it doesn't matter as much. 13. Any race is fine, all races have good-looking and decent guys. But I'm white, and if im being completely honest, i wouldnt look that far out of my own race, so probably not asian for instance, just because im not familiar with their culture. 14. Tattoos are fine but not too many. Any place. I guess arms or chest though. 15. Yeah definitely, it will get you more noticed. 16. Doesn't matter as long as it suits him. Not long though, that hardly ever suits. Wavy is fine, kind of messy and shortish (but clean), and choppy is really hot. Not a mohawk but shaven pretty short is okay (again if it suits.) 17. In between, so that you know they aren't boring but don't make it over the top. Sleazy guys aren't attractive, and won't be taken seriously. There you go :) Woah I just realised how much I typed.

Answer 3

So just how many of you hotties would be attracted to a nice guy? His options were probably limited due to being a nice guy and being stepped on by everyone else. Maybe if some of you babes would think about giving a nice guy a chance, instead of panting after those notorious "bad boys" that give you all a case of chronic screaming thigh sweats, this would not be as tragically common a tale as it unfortunately is.

Answer 4

idk, ask my husband! (lol, just kiddin...right?)

omg, reading the rest of your details, haven't u ever seen those girls that weigh like 98 pounds before marriage and then they balloon up within the first few months of marriage!? that is SO DISRESPECTFUL to their husbands and themselves. as for the loud-mouth and being a smoker....seems to me that this "greatest" guy you met must be attracted to girls who are bad for him! ...and unfortunately, since he IS married, you are bad for him....that sucks!!!! good luck & stay strong!!!

Answer 5

maybe to you she's fat and loud-mouthed, but to him, she's someone who's confident with her apperance and not afraid to speak her mind. Or maybe she's really good in bed and a great cook..

Answer 6

I don't know he doesn't seem so smart to me.

Maybe she's a total freak in bed?

Answer 7

He is in love. He is probably under endowed in his britches and she is probably rich. Actually, she probably is the best piece of .....he has ever had.

Answer 8

ask you husband!!!