and life in general, dreams, fears? I just like to get on this level with my man, it seems like we are really getting to know one another better when we truly talk to each other. But he doesn't seem to like talking about something that requires him to think.
2007-07-17 06:50:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess our communication just sucks, and that's very important to me. When I make him feel disrespected, or when he has something going on, I just like to know about it. If he can come to me with anything, we can work on it, but I don't know if he will not talk. Thanks you all
2007-07-17 06:51:43 · update #1
Try taking him somewhere away from the stresses of everyday life, someplace where he can unwind and relax. The wife and I often go camping, but a quiet weekend getaway for just the two of you should do the trick. Leave the tv, laptop, cell phones, or whatever turned OFF. (the radio is OK) I know personally when the wife and I are camping off the grid and are without life's many distractions, we spend the best quality time together. I can open up and share much more of myself. Hope this helps!
2007-07-17 07:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Dave J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been maried for almost 13 years now. My hubby had a bad child hood. His past gf's were also bad. It took me a very long time for him to trust me and open up. He always felt that I was going to be just like everyone else. But no matter what happened I was the one that stood behind him at all times. We finally can talk about some things. Men are men. They think that they need to figure things out for there selfs....That part will never change. Just let them know that you are there and no matter what they can talk with you. One day they will.
2007-07-17 14:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for two years and I have a good husband and I know he loves me and we have the same problem . So when someone gives you a good answer let me know. I think it would help my marriage alot if I could just figure out how to talk to him ? Or get him to talk! The only time I can get him to talk is if we are on a long trip and the kids are asleep, I just start asking him question. I know he dont have nothin better to do than answer them. I actualy learned alot about him that way now that I think about it!
2007-07-17 14:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate that. Does a lot of silence help him come in. I know a negative or judgmental word is never good for a conversation or a relationship. Or even thinking straight. A course on emotional intelligence. Or how about if you read something on the subject and ask him if he ever used a point in it. How he handle such and such. If he get's into EI he will be ripe for intuition and that's a real changer, it'll flip you both to someplace else good.
2007-07-17 14:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody sais that men are so simple ...but actualy they are the most complicated thing on earth....so good luck
2007-07-17 14:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Juliet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you. Don't waste your time.
2007-07-17 13:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋