A week ago I did something that I feel horrible about, something so bad I can't look at my husband. We had a party for several friends that got very out of hand, with lots of drinking. Before everyone left for the night, I was spinning but managed to make it up to bed where I brought out my pocket rocket to help get me to sleep. A man who I thought was my husband entered the dark room looking for the bathroom, saw me there and I called him over, again convinced it was my husband. I was so drunk I couldn't tell. To make a long story short, his pants were off in no time and I performed oral sex on him, and he on me. When he entered me I began to realize to my horror this was NOT my husband (his penis was much larger and he was rougher). I told him to stop, he didn't and quickly climaxed inside of me (my husband is fixed, I am not on the pill). I am ashamed to say I climaxed too. He got up, said nothing and walked out. My period came two days later so I am safe, but feel awful.
2007-07-17 05:39:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't expect this "you cheated" pious BS response. I was very drunk... you never drank too much? And yes, I do know who it was now. A guy named Darryl who works with my husband (a manager) who has had the hots for me since we met. He is black (we are both white) so my husband would f'ing freak out even more. I wanted support here, not damnation.
2007-07-17 05:59:26 · update #1
You had it in your mouth and didnt realize it wasnt your husband?? Yeah right!!!
2007-07-17 05:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The probabilities that he is cheating are very high given what you have said. However, I would ask you to think about one thing. Just what kind of relationship or feelings do your Mom and the other person have toward your hubby? Have they disliked him and do they dislike him? Are they upset that you two married? You see, there is a possibility that they may be setting him up. While that is less likely than him cheating, you can never underestimate what women will do when they do not like someone. While that may sound far fetched to you, you also know just how coniving and mean some folks can be. Do not wholly discount this possibility.
2016-03-13 16:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-16 05:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by matushevskiy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 17:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This story is not entirely true - at least as far as you say you were an unwilling participant but you climaxed. Shame on your for portraying your story this way.
Stop lying to yourself. If you cheated on your husband, there is a reason. Time to figure out why and then you will know how to fix it.
In the mean time, get yourself to a doctor to make sure you are still clean and stop drinking.
2007-07-17 06:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by banana6464 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You wanted someone to make you feel better about doing something wrong?
I get that you are remorseful. That is a good thing. But that doesn't mean that you didn't make a mistake. Actually, it reinforces the fact that you made a mistake. We all make mistakes. The proper response isn't to look to strangers for retribution. The proper response is to admit that it was your mistake and your fault. Not that he doesn't deserve a lot of blame. He knew who you were and he knew your state, he should have been a real man and walked out.
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2016-04-01 08:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously do NOT know your husband.
I know my gf so well that I know could tell who she is. I know how she smells, how she tastes, how she moves, how she fits in my arms, her curves, her hair, and her body language. I know her well. I can NOT see how a thing like this could happen....even stone-cold drunk I could not mistake my gf. How could you lose your mind THAT easily?
Sheesh
So you do something like this and then decide to come here and announce to the world what kind of a fool you are? It's funny that people like you are too stupid to do the right thing(s) when it counts, but smarten up after the fact.
You cheated, despite your excuse. If you were.....well....I'll just say it like this...'irresponsible' enough to get so freaking tanked that you couldn't tell how big a stranger's DICK was in your mouth.....well then I don't know what you'd call it.
Fvcking dumbass.
2007-07-17 06:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you must have really been drunk. I would think you'd want to tell hubby about this because his boss kind of took advantage of you when you were drunk, unless he was just as drunk as you and you asked him to; who knows what you told him to do to you. I'm not sure how fair it is to your husband to go into work every day and have to work for the dude and not even know. And, what if this guy has blabbed this all around work and your hubby doesn't even know. And what if you get an STD or something. You need to lay your cards on the table and ask for forgiveness.
2007-07-17 07:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but, yeah it is cheating.. Do you know who this man is? I am not sure what to tell you. You might want to go talk with a counselor before you do anything. Guilt is not an easy thing to live with. I wouldn't let myself get that drunk again....You made a mistake and now have to deal with it.
Hope it all works out for you.
2007-07-17 05:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see here. Your husband let you wander around so drunk that you could not tell who was who. You mistakenly had sex with the wrong person, but did not mean to. The guy who had sex with you assumed it was ok since you invited. I'd say it was a victimless crime. No harm done. Just be more careful next time. Perhaps ask your husband to keep closer watch over you if you happen to drink a lot.
2007-07-17 05:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your kidding ...right? Are you sure this is not my wife writing this? Oh...she would have known it wasn't me and still have gone for it!!!! Slut!!!!
I believe in any condition you are in... it's still cheating. Like the other girl said, you had him in your mouth and didn't know it was your husband...being that you were drunk, I am sure you would have known! I think as you were drunk a new experience is what got you off. Did you like the oral on him and did he do a good job on you?
Tell your husband...I am sure he will understand...ha ha ha
2007-07-17 06:57:24 · answer #11 · answered by Get Even Steven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋