i have been happily married for almost 7 years. lately i have no desire for sex. when i go to bed i want to sleep!! could something be wrong with me?? i love my husband uncondionally and am very happy with our lives.
2007-07-17 06:00:17 · 12 answers · asked by WAG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Na, theres nothing wrong with you, we all go through slumps at one time or another, i've been married for seven years also and there are periods of time where i just want to go to bed and not be bothered with sex , but after a week or so i get back to where i want to do it, so don't worry so much, there is nothing wrong with you, it's just your body telling you it needs a break from sex awhile and after some time believe me, the desire will come back.
2007-07-17 06:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably waiting to late in the evening to start. Once you go to bed, it is 100% understandable that you are tired. This could be opportunity to make things really interesting if you think about it...
If you are tired once your in bed..where and when else could you do it? Try it before dinner in the kitchen or living room. If you have kids, make plans to send them somewhere like grandma's. Try watching a sexy movie. If your not comfortable watching porn with your hubby, watch it by yourself...this also turns men on!
2007-07-17 06:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been feeling your normal self? Sometimes depression can cause a low sex drive. Also, you could be pregnant. I remember when my wife was pregnant she would come home from work and want to do nothing but sleep.
Also, any medications you could have recently begun taking may cause low sex drive. If it is not anything mental, I would speak to your doctor.
2007-07-17 06:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Eric G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on Birth Control Pills? This was my problem and now I've been off for almost 1 year 1/2. Now i have no problems. I've been married for 6 years and we do IT now more than ever.
2007-07-17 06:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by anitad_1108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is normal for a person to get tired of the same thing over and over. Maybe discuss it with your husband, he might be tired of it too?
2007-07-17 06:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that your body is changing why don't you go see a doctor and tell him the same thing. Good Luck!!!
2007-07-17 06:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by KH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be hormonal, get a checkup from the gynecologist, and she could do some testing.
2007-07-17 10:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you get enough sleep?
Maybe you guys should have foreplay and stuff before getting to bed....
2007-07-17 06:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife is the same way. i hate it. i have a high sex drive. id like to know the answer to. let me know
2007-07-17 08:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can we talk? this is too personal a question to answer with the info you have shared? i am used to counselling people in such situations
tom
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2007-07-17 06:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋