My sister and her husband have been married for over a year now. My parents cannot stand him. They have hated him from the very beginning and warned her against marrying him. Several people have told my parents that he cheats on her with many different men and women in our town. My parents are fed up with her marriage and want it to end quickly.
Yesterday when I got home from work, my parents and my husband were all having a family meeting on how to get rid of him. They all feel that I should sleep with her husband to show her that he is no good. They want me to sleep with him while my parents stand in the closet videotaping the entire affair so that they can show her what a dog he is. My husband even agreed with this. He says that I should be willing to do whatever it takes to show my sister what a dog she is married to. Is this right? Should I really have to sleep with my sister's husband to proove that he is no good?
2007-07-17 07:16:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to wonder, who has the real issue here, your parents or your husband.....I don't care what he's doing they sound like a bunch of pervs to want to hid in a closet while you sleep with your brother in law......if he's that much of a dog why don't your husband or parents sleep with him since he's into everyone.
2007-07-17 07:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by lovely 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I doubt very seriously that this will prove anything to your sister about her husband if the rumors and talk (and ample evidence at home, I am sure) have not. It WILL, however, prove to her that you and your parents are plotting against her husband (and you are)... that you wanted to sleep with her husband (and you do, regardless of the reason)... and that perhaps her parents are a little disgusting (cause they videotaped the whole thing).
All it might serve to do is to convince her that she can't trust any of her family, and to drive her completely away from you, and to the only person she feels (however misguidedly) that she can trust - her husband.
It's just a thought though... I could be wrong. At least you could get on Springer if you go through with it.
2007-07-17 07:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lafiite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even more strange than this guy cheating on your sister, your parents want to tape a porno with you and this guy. WTF?!? If your sister doesn't listen now, do you really think she will listen later? Even if she did, she will still be emotionally messed up because her husband cheated on her with her sister of all people, and even worse her family plotted the whole thing. Don't do it, for these reasons and also the sake of not catching any diseases.
If everyone is so sure that he is cheating, you must have some kind of evidence. Try using this evidence instead. Or better yet let her find out on her own. That seems to be what she wants anyway.
2007-07-17 07:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you all should catch him with someone else. How is your husband in the right mind to let you sleep with another man and at that your sisters man. And your sick parents to videotape in the closet! Come on this sounds sick. AND if he is sleeping around with lots of women AND men dont you fear for yourself getting some type of disease. I think all of you are all messed up in the head but your sister but who knows she could be sleeping with your man!
2007-07-17 07:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Launycaspot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough situation to be in and i know you don't want to lose your sisters, but if you really love her you need to tell her the truth. I would confort the older sister and tell her shes wrong and inform the younger sister about whats been going on.
2016-05-20 15:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think your sister doesn't already know? Every woman knows what her man is doing and you all should mind your own business. If you want to push your sister out of your life forever this is the plan to go with. You should sit your husband and parents on the couch and give them all one big slap like the three stooges they are.
2007-07-17 07:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by crystalonyx3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! AND NO! You do NOT touch your sisters husband! That is a NO NO! BAD! BAD SISTER! Shame on you and shame on your family! Let your sister figure it out on her own. At least tell her that she is welcomed at your house, but her husband isn't. She will probably ruin her life now just to spite you. No wonder she married, to your standard, a horrible person. I wonder where she learned her standards?(You know it's you and your family)
2007-07-17 07:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That sounds like something off a sitcom. I don't know if your sister would really be too happy with you if you were the one to sleep with him. I can't believe your husband is even on board. You should hire a hooker to seduce him or something and record that!
2007-07-17 07:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Alli 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with your sister's husband, there is more than 1 person who is a no-good-dog. Sorry! She'll realize in time, but let's not hurry that along by destroying her!
2007-07-17 07:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you're kidding, right? You aren't seriously considering this?
your sister knows he's a no-good dog. She's just in denial, or otherwise has her own issues making her stay. If you sleep with her husband, she will hate YOU, not him.
2007-07-17 07:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Janelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋