Marriage & Divorce - 22 June 2007

to be up beat, positve, affectionate and supportive. He has legal probs and they are causing financial probs. I want to help him, I have been looking for work but to no avail, and now we have car probs to boot. I can't give up on him.. I love him and he does go to work everyday and works very hard, but he only works, eats, sleeps, (he sleeps an unbelievable amount of the time he is at home sleeping) and watches TV. We have no interaction together unless he happens to get up and eat after I have cooked, or he eats later. I feel like I live alone, and he is not interested in me and I am extremely vibrant, attractive, and not lazy at all. I could find something wrong to do... but I do love him and have never even thought about cheating on him in 2 years. It would be nice if I could sleep like him alot but I can't. I have never needed alot of sleep even though I am very active. He is not happy that i don't sleep the same as he does and he also snores & is hot natured and I am opposite

2007-06-22 13:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by victoria c 4

he is constantly bitching about his wife. about how much of a slob she is and how she doesnt do anything. is he just looking for a shoulder to whine on or advice ? what to make of it and how to handle the situation?

2007-06-22 13:04:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do if your husband went out drinking with his friends, came home stumbling, fell asleep on the couch and pee'd on it while asleep? Just curious to know... I'm flying home to be with my family for a while (this isn't the first time it's happened). I want to make sure I'm not overreacting.

2007-06-22 12:50:54 · 37 answers · asked by Christina 3

2007-06-22 12:46:33 · 8 answers · asked by Rosha 1

some great questions and answers all over. could it be the bullies and weirdos have finally discovered beer on a friday night, and realised theres life after pc's. he he.
they really gonna be in for a shock, when they realise there cybre partners dont really look like their avitars lol

2007-06-22 12:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by chris 4

She met him while she was working and he tried to hit on her. Then he hit her. He is a tall black man and my wife says he has changed and wants to bring him to our house for the weekend. I Disagree. What can i do to convince her to keep him the hell out of our house?

2007-06-22 12:32:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse and I are both Mexican and got married in Mexico. Can we get divorced in the U.S. or do we need to go back to Mexico to get divorced?

2007-06-22 12:22:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you respond to the statement below I found on a Christian forum site?

"Jesus tells us there is no other reason to divorce except your spouse cheating. I am an ex-abused spouse. I went through torture. But I have to admit now, that if I was truly trusting in the Lord during that time, He would have handled it for me.... EVEN if that meant my death. I think we humans often forget, when we die, we go to a better place... much much better than anything we know here and now."

2007-06-22 12:16:24 · 42 answers · asked by thundercatt9 7

Think about it family, friends, acquaintances, even strangers always ask couples "so when will you get married?" As if marriage is the ultimate and final step towards happiness. I think too many people focus on the wedding than the marriage itself, is that why in the 21st century we have a high rate of divorce?

2007-06-22 12:15:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-22 11:45:28 · 17 answers · asked by baby_rost 3

I've talked to her about it and she pretty much said I'm not that good at sex and so she doesn't want to do it. It bothers me because it is part of a marriage and if I'm not that good at it then we need to fix that. What can I do? I can't change how good I am at sex but I'm afraid she will end up cheating on me someday if she hasn't already. I trust her but I just can't believe that she NEVER wants sex! She has to be satisfying herself somehow, right?

2007-06-22 11:44:29 · 23 answers · asked by Randomguy 2

I caught him cheating last night and we just had a big argument about it, he threw me against the wall and stormed out of the house like i did something wrong, i have done nothing to deserve this. He also took off with my car keys so i'm stuck in this damn place all alone, i have no friends around here and i'm 5 miles from the nearest anything

2007-06-22 11:29:24 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, My ex husband was released from prison after serving almost 2 years, He had abandoned me and my daughter when she was only about 1.... she is now 5 1/2.....He now wants to see her I have remarried and my husband was planning on adopting her. Well, I know it's better a child knows her biological parents (or as we are told) but my ex is a 7 time felon...(something I didn't know until AFTER we were married and already pregnant) He has a history of drugs(tried selling me to a drug dealer for a debt), domestic violence(split my oldest sons head open with a glass, requiring 7 staples at age 11), assaulted police officers(4 times), burglary, prowling, malicious destruction of property, strong armed robbery, etc.. many others! we have went before our support worker and FOC, and they recommended Supervised, My ex said ok, except he wanted HIS witnesses there, so they referred us before a Magistrat, SHe turned ALL his rights down, said there was too much evidence against him and that it would be more harmful then good for our daughter to be around him... Now, he has set a court date before a Judge... He waited til the last day of the petition to file it. He also claims to have found God, (which he has done 5 other times, every time he has been released from jail) he has an ankle bracelet on, and I'm afraid once that thing is off he will go back to crack, as he always has..... What are the chances the judge will give him anything, or will they agree with the magistrats findings????? We live in Michigan.. THanks!

2007-06-22 11:28:23 · 15 answers · asked by jen e 2

maybe its me..........but the majority of men that i have been with cheat.............why????

2007-06-22 11:19:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just threw my husband of 4 years out once again, I found him cheating for the third time. I found a cell phone that he and his lfriend were using. I spoke to the friend and she did not know that we were living together. I have caught him in so many lies.....when do you give up? and how do you give up?

2007-06-22 11:12:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I seperated not to long ago. She suffers from extreme jealousy. Should i make her jealous to make her want to come back home? If so how?

2007-06-22 11:10:25 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its been 3wks now that me and my ex ended an 8yr. relationship and he now has moved on and has a new girlfriend and now my question is if its too soon for him to take my kids for the wkd and spend time with them and his new girlfriend? My kids know that daddy has a girlfriend but I do not know how will react to see daddy with someone who isnt their mommy...

2007-06-22 10:59:17 · 21 answers · asked by viviana g 1

what should i do, this lady is still married, we have been talking for 4 months now, but i had no idea she liked me in that way, any guys out there i need your help.

2007-06-22 10:56:58 · 12 answers · asked by birddog 2

in a timewarp - not now under current circumstances- going back in time: would you marry your ex again? Change things that went wrong? or stay clear? (you are allowed to keep the children regardless of your choice, if you had any)

2007-06-22 10:51:48 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been working for the same company now for about 3 years now and i get on really well with my male boss.

over the last 12 months we have had a laugh and joke throughout the day and pinching one anothers bottoms and making inuendoes to one another as laugh.

The problem i have is that things have progressed futher than we both expected them to and we are now both at the point where we want to make love.

Whats wrong with that? i hear you say..... well..... he has a partner of 26 years and has two teenage children, i have a partner of 12 years and no children, we both love our existing partners but this chemistry between us is coming to boiling point and i really want to make love to him and i know he feels the same way.

Can any one give me thier honest and sensible opnion cause my head is all over the place at the moment

2007-06-22 10:51:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious. Ok, I am having a moment. It will pass, but, it is still a moment none the less.

2007-06-22 10:49:42 · 11 answers · asked by topsecretwrappers 4

translation- an independent woman who knows what she wants and would never allow a man to step all over her

2007-06-22 10:49:19 · 15 answers · asked by . 3

We are both single, I left him I was not happy, we are still friends, he is coming to install a faucet

2007-06-22 10:47:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

with their wives/husbands after they left the marriage cos they lost their love and trust for each and have no intention for reconciliation? In my case, I know that he wants to use me for something but, I'm not letting on to him that I know this. I'm interested to know of any other reasons for this to happen. Thanks.

2007-06-22 10:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by BFCP 3

the black guy was also a skilled lover and after the experience, she couldnt stand to look at her hubby again. she found him disgusting and became obsessed with the black guy and was begging the black guy to marry her. anyway cut long story short, she killed her husband to be with the black guy. THIS IS A TRUE STORY. I JUST SAW IT NOW ON A TV SHOW ON THE OXYGEN CHANNEL CALLED SNAPPED. so the question is are people who swing putting their relationship on the line if one of the partners experience a better lover?

2007-06-22 10:41:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

However, we are both separated and have lived together. His wife won't give him a divorce unless it is on the grounds of adultery. Is there no other way?

2007-06-22 10:39:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married and we have no real problems at all. I just have been talking to another lady for the last couple of year (becuase we work together) and through those conversations I've noticed a void in my feelings for my own wife. It confuses me since we never have any overt issues and when i do try and discuss my needs with my wife she just doesn't seem to get. I have not had any thing physically happen with anyone else and would never let it come to that, but i almost feel like that my wife has become more like my sister??? Not Sure what to do with all this...

2007-06-22 10:33:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What ever works for you.
One month
Three months
Six months
One year
two years

2007-06-22 10:21:19 · 32 answers · asked by Jazzy Faye 2

Girl at the coffee shop I go to every morning has been seriously eyeing me, flirting lightly and going out of her way to find out and say my name now. She really beautiful and I like her, but she has a wedding ring on. I know sometimes beautiful, single women in public jobs do this to keep guys off of them.

So, what's a respectful, friendly way to ask about her "marriage status" without things being awkward?

(*note: our conversations are always brief and never deep)

2007-06-22 10:11:24 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

All my male friends seem skeptical about my boyfriends proposal. They say its because he either feels guilty about something, or he wants to test my level of commitment. These friends of mine have not met my boyfriend, nor have they ever talked to him so its not like they have inside info.

Why are they so skeptical?

2007-06-22 10:10:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous