We are both single, I left him I was not happy, we are still friends, he is coming to install a faucet
2007-06-22 10:47:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you divorced, he may very well be over you and have moved on.He may not trust you to get into another relationship.All you can do is try, but you need to resolve the issues.If you weren't happy with him before you may be LESS happy with him 2nd time around.Get some counseling.
2007-06-22 10:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't greet him in lingerie but I might suggest to him to go out for coffee and have a talk about how you feel.
By the way,If you weren't happy before what makes you think you'll be happy now?
2007-06-22 10:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by cristelle R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
couldnt you just talk to him about how you feel instead of putting yourself out there. Think about why you left in the first place those reasons have not just dissapeared, maybe your lonely or life is not quite as you had hoped and you are thinking about a comfort zone you know and understand, if that is so keep it as a friendship and give yourself some more time, find something to occupy your time like a hobby its much less messy. good luck
2007-06-22 11:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We've been divorced since 2005 and I pulled out the lingerie Sunday after the kids went to bed after their "Father's Day" visit..... he is sleeping with someone else and so am I but I couldn't resist.
2007-06-22 10:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Queen Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why not. I mean, if you are still friends, why not. But, remember why you got divorced. You might want him back just because that's your comfort zone and over looking the real reason you two split in the first place.
2007-06-22 10:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to wear lingerie for him. Marriage will be if it was meant to be. Let him go. The more a woman chases a man the faster he will run(It"s the man game). He will come around to you, if he is interested if not let go.
2007-06-22 10:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you just need a booty call. Hire a professional plumber and greet him at the door in lingerie.
2007-06-22 11:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you got hit with the "grass is not always greener on otherside of the fence". If you do it he might not be interested because as you stated "you left him" he might not want to be hurt again. So be prepared if he runs away upon seeing you. Its not that he does/didnt love you but if you broke the marriage it might be to scary to try and rekindle things. Might want to try and keep the friendship you have rather then risk chasing him away because of hurt feelings that might exist.
2007-06-22 10:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by QCCP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can only do your 1/2. He would have to pick up the ball and run.
But I say GO FOR IT will all your might, girl. You get that man and keep him. This time you know that when you get "Board" it is not HIM.
2007-06-22 10:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by jordan_smith@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that mean that you no are over of him... you think he still interesting on you? I hope you no embarrassed you self... if you know that he still interest.. go for it... but remember you and him are divorce maybe if something happen.. he can think that is casual... that maybe is in the moment.. so.. no get to much expectation on this... let the door a litter open for disappointment...
good luck...
2007-06-22 10:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋