What ever works for you.
One month
Three months
Six months
One year
two years
2007-06-22 10:21:19 · 32 answers · asked by Jazzy Faye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know, I've heard that for every year that you've been with a person, you need two years to get over them, and find yourself again, I'm not sure if this holds any truth because I've never followed it, but it does seem to be true, when I look back. I have a tendency to jump into relationships very quickly, after breaking up and divorcing,and they never work.
2007-06-22 10:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by savagegrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a time period that you can count in months or years.
It IS a personal growth issue.
When you divorce you create a list of goals, a dream of a future you, and you hope to strive for these things.
If you find yourself entering a new marriage before you accomplish a few key personal goals, then you are putting yourself on a back burner, and that's the bad call.
If you accomplish some of those personal goals, then you are far more confident and ready to make a life decision.
2007-06-22 10:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Missouri you have to wait at least 30 days after a divorce is final before remarrying. You should remarry when you are ready. Different for everyone.
2007-06-22 10:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that, if just coming out of a divorce, the last thing in the world you would want would be to get remarried. What kind of question is this?????
2007-06-22 10:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 years
2007-06-22 10:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One year before you even begin dating because divorce is like a death and it takes that long to get past the grieving. Then one more year to date someone, otherwise you won't really know them ... so two years
2007-06-22 10:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been divorced a year this month and i will be getting married this december. The first marriage my husband left me so it wasnt me.. I dont think it matters as long as u love each other
2007-06-22 10:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looking for a respectful answer, 6 months for the divorce papers to be finalized. It's two years. One year if you can't wait. Good Luck and Be Happy!!
2007-06-22 10:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes at least 2 years to heal from a serious relationship..including marriage of course. If you have children, you need to think of their well being and healing first before you look for "Mr. Next" to fill that slot.
Take time to heal yourself so that you don't bring the same crap that broke up your marriage into the next one.
2007-06-22 10:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Patio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until I'm dead. Because I don't want to remarry. Why do you ASSume that everyone who is divorced wants to remarry?
2007-06-22 12:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋