Marriage & Divorce - 22 June 2007

People bother to read all the question or just answer on the shown bit to score points????

Also do many think that everything has to be taken seriously??

2007-06-22 10:10:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

go round and round about something that happed in the past? It's a long story but basically something happened before we got married, my mom has issues with him, and he has never been able to get past it. My mom has said sorry and has accepted him in the family and wants to move on, but it seems that nothing is good enough for him. What would you do to try and help the situation? It's a constent fight between us. I just want everyone to get along.

2007-06-22 09:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke up with my girl because i couldnt get her to devote some time to me, she was to focused on her career. Just because i am a guy i should be able to express my feelings about a relationship. I wanted to marry this girl but couldnt face being second fiddle to everything else in her life

2007-06-22 09:54:27 · 16 answers · asked by Jason M 3

my husband is a stepfather of my two older boys. we also have a third child together. In my effort to transition my children to respect my husband's authority as the man of the house, i requested my husband to give me his input on disciplnary issues. i want all of my children to follow all the rules in the house equally regardless of blood. my stepfather treated me like his own daughter at all times so i know it's possible.
the older boys asked to use outside chalk on the driveway. my husband said no due to the owner of the building possibly not being okay with it. i respected that. well, my oldest took it upon himself to ask the the owner and the owner's children to see if it was okay with them. they said yes. so my sons and the other children drew all over the carport. at the time i found out about the chalk, i made the oldest get them back and i put them away. my husband saw the writing last night and was pissed. (understandably). this morning, to be continued....

2007-06-22 09:50:15 · 22 answers · asked by Bella 5

Hubby and i always had a good relationship he was a freak in bed and so was i always up for anything ;we tried it all but after a time he started watching more more porn.He had always indulged in porn sometimes so i thought nothing of it plus my female friends and i liked to occassionally giggle watch porn movies too had since college.Well then he starting prefering porn to having sex with me which as hurtful i asked what was wrong he said nothing.I asked to watch with him and he said no telling me he needed his privacy.Well i started watching porn on my own and took to using a vibrator.He got angry when he tried to join in and i kicked him out saying i needed my privacy .He started trying more to improve our sex life/realationship on whole and i started watching porn less so did he but the minute our sex life became better and relationship(less fights) we even started trying for a baby .He went right back to porn a lot and neglecting our sex life.Now we are seperated on divorce road?

2007-06-22 09:43:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

celebrate your wedding anniversary even though that you and your spouse are trying to work things out..??...why??

2007-06-22 09:39:01 · 19 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5

I dont think it is healthy in a relationship & it makes me ill. Is it just, my problem or is it a real problem?

2007-06-22 09:35:17 · 42 answers · asked by Leggs 2

I am getting emails, with my husbands (" Mark, we saw you were at our site. *** see us play" types) name in them in an account we share. He does not know where they came from. Our computer is about 6 mths new, Do these emails mean he has been visiting these sites?? How do these sites get our email address AND his first name?? I dont want to jump to conclusions...
SOMEONE STRAIGHTEN THIS OUT FOR ME!!!

2007-06-22 09:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by SpecialKel 1

My husband's job may be sending him out of the country...for good. He was offered a job in Mexico. He was born there so he kind of has an idea of what to expect. I have only visited for vacation, so I can only imagine. I hate to think about leaving everything behind, it scares me to think I will have to start over in a new country and with complete strangers. I don't know if I can follow him, but if I do could it be that maybe it's my destiny. That maybe something better is waiting for me over there? What would you do? Follow or separate?

2007-06-22 09:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by Scorpio Chika 2

This happened before we were married. I should've asked her to stop telling me about her sexual past way back then. We obviously have many, many other marital problems but I cannot get over this issue. My wife is gorgeous...I mean supermodel Heidi Klum fine...and I had never even TALKED, much less dated, such a hottie. She is also one of the very best people I know. I trust her immesely. Still, we have a marriage on the rocks. No, I'm not a horse down there but not a toad either. Yes, I have just begun therapy.

2007-06-22 09:18:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my mom cheated on my dad about 9 or 10 years ago...& ive lived wit my dad 4 bout 7 to 8 years...shes never sent a dime 2 me she doesnt even care...she says she loves me & i say i hate her[not 2 her face]she says she cares but never calls on hollidays or my b-day...shes missed out on everything

2007-06-22 09:17:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I kinda kissed his (married) brother. I love my husband very much. I do not know how I let it happen. He repects his brother very much. Everything is as it it never happened. I do not want to ruin the relationship they have. I know. I am a bad person. What should I do????

2007-06-22 09:17:22 · 45 answers · asked by ♥ Nance ♥ 2

like typical "wife next door" women? I'm 20 but I've felt this way for a long time.

2007-06-22 09:15:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have a home office. He has his own desk and I have mine. He is constantly trowing my papers and other things away that he "thinks" is trash. I am in a constant battle with him about the fact that it is MY desk and not his. MY desk is MY responsibility and HIS is HIS responsibility. He says when he sees what he thinks is trash that he will throw it away off my desk. He has thrown away keepsakes , mail and other things he deems is trash. I don't think he has any respect for my only bit of personal space in my house. What do you all out there think?

A.) Should he leave my stuff on my desk alone reguardless of what he thinks it is?

B.) Should I be leaniant?

What would you do in my situation?

2007-06-22 09:15:28 · 35 answers · asked by Rachael T 3

I have been married to my wonderful husband for one year, and he is the only person I have ever had sex with...great sex...we are really happy in our marriage and neither of us would ever cheat on each other but every now and then I have urges to have sex with other men, like my ex or my manager at work, anybody. I don't, of course, and could never see myself doing a thing like that, but I just want to. I guess I wanna be bad and get away with things, be sneaky...I don't know why...is this normal? I don't know why I have these urges.

2007-06-22 09:13:19 · 16 answers · asked by Loola 3

I have been seperated now for over 4 years and I have no idea where my husband lives or works. Someone advised me you can get an automatic divorce after 5 years, anyone know if this is true.

2007-06-22 09:11:46 · 20 answers · asked by Bev P 2

I think its normal and healthy to want to be with the opposite sex. I've heard that women don't need men and can make it on there own. Does this mean that women really don't desire men? I can honestly say that the majority of the male population desires women.

2007-06-22 09:06:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

3 years ago I was infertile. My husband agreed to hire a surrogate. We had a child, 1/2 his and the other 1/2 the surrogate's. He did not really want a child, but did it for me because I was heartbroken at the thought of never being a mother. He (claims) he became jealous of my attention towards our new baby. I found out a year ago he was having an affair with his employee. She was married and had 2 kids, limited education and bland looks. I was irate and told him I was leaving. Her love note to him that I found made my blood boil! He said that I would have to leave our daughter too. I stayed. I have zero legal rights to her. I am still very angry at him and I really just want to get my own place and be at peace. He has stressed that no other man will be allowed around his daughter...ever. Dispite all that has transpired, we are very civil towards one another (we have been together for 12 years) My trust in him is zero and I sit here wallowing in the fact that I am sooo screwed.

2007-06-22 09:05:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men didn't expect such weirdness from their wives.

2007-06-22 09:05:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sex drive is completely gone. It has been about two months since the last time we had sex. It's not his fault; it's mine. I love him and I am in love with him, but as far as I am concerned, I could never have sex again and be FINE with that. I probably should go to a doctor to make sure there isn't something really wrong with me; I know that. However, I have a man doctor, and I feel really uncomfortable talking to him about this.

I feel really bad about how I keep rejecting sex, and sometimes I even let him "do his thing" with no return effort, and this really probably hurts him more. I know if I keep rejecting it, he will probably turn somewhere else, and I don't want this to happen. Like I said, I love him. I wanna grow old with him. Please help!

2007-06-22 09:00:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

After being married for awhile, and the newness wears off, what does your husband do that makes you want to have sex with him? Is it flowers?, a night out ? etc.

2007-06-22 09:00:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is staying with his Mother ,Im stay with my niece in a different city trying to get our life together, His mother is not talking to me ,My husband called me a liar! Now we are not talking ,All Iwant is for him to believe in me , In us.

2007-06-22 08:57:50 · 7 answers · asked by pixie 1

I have been married for 14 months now and I truly love my husband. Currently his job has him working out of town and he comes home twice out of the week...on days that I have to work. Instead of using at least one of those to take me to lunch he wants to have them both to do whatever he wants since they are his off days. I won't lie, he makes sure the nights are for us and is always home. When he is away is the problem. He works from mid afternoon until early the next morning and so we only talk about 15 minutes when he is headed to work. He always promises to call me the next morning when he gets off which is also when I'm getting up and getting ready for work, but he never does. He says he is so exhausted he falls straight to sleep. I know he works hard and I do believe he is genuinely tired but he does have to ride back to his work provided quarters so why can't he call me then to at least say hello? This is everyday that he's away at work and I've tried to be supportive.

2007-06-22 08:56:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

What happened?Well, a family situation took place that sorta caused my husband to clam up and not want to talk about things.Then all of a sudden after 4 years of me working night shift he decides he wants me to quit and stay at home.I made as much as him and didn't want to give up my job.So for a couple of months we couldn't agree on anything. We talked with a counselor and she suggested a trial separation along with my best friend(or what I thougt was my best friend)After 3 days of separtion.Husband comes and ask if I want a Divorce - H no is what I said, but he said he felt it best we get one.I was hard headed and told him to knock his self out.He did. My grandma calls Dec 2002 and tells me it's final she read it in the paper.Since then we are both involved with other people. My husband however is my true love, and I believe I may be his.The past year he has tried avoiding me at all cost, but our children keep telling me he's not happy as well as his friends. help!

2007-06-22 08:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we didnt go on Jerry Springer, we went on Dr. Keith Ablow Show, and, we have tried counseling, my husband thinks that it is for people with problems and he doesnt think we have probelms. Also, he always threatens to leave me, but never does. Another thing, I dont think I can make it on my own, finanicially it would be hard. I dont know what to do, I am super confused.

2007-06-22 08:36:09 · 18 answers · asked by sexyburnette99 1

Tuesday is my 25th anniversary. Ok first of all, he is a hardworker, very conciencious about paying bills on time. Very caring to me when I am sick or when I had surgery. Have no reason to believe he has every cheated. And Im sure he thinks he loves me but... He can be mean and controlling. Has many times referred to me as white trash, liar, he says he is the only one that plays by the rules. All 3 children still live at home, one handicapped, 2 work full time & full time students. No one can really afford to move out, and I don't feel they should have to untill at least they finish college. He doesn't like when I go anywhere when he is not home. I don't have any friends, I had one best friend, her husband is my husbands best friend. But she died 3 mths ago, so I have no one left to talk to. He seems to think that the kids and I are constantly out to get him. We are just using him for a paycheck, Everyone of us works fulltime. He is convinced his stress comes from

2007-06-22 08:32:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true that a drunk man never lies? If you want the truth - get him drunk? My husband isn't really open with his emotions. I mean he tells me he loves me and shows it sometimes but for the most part is too stressed about work to be preoccupied with me. I really take it personally, I am a very sensitive person. But when he is drinking, he is so loving and caring. Sometimes even cries when he talks about how much he loves me. Even though he doesnt show it that much, am I right to assume that the way he is when he is drinking, is the way he really feels about me?

2007-06-22 08:31:21 · 21 answers · asked by melissac723 2

2007-06-22 08:28:39 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just can not convince my husband to turn his dirty socks right side out. He removes his socks by pulling them over his heel, then leaves the rolled up stinky things for me-usually hidden under the coffee table. I tried not doing the laundry but ended up with a whole load of socks!(he will go and buy more) Is this a guy thing????

2007-06-22 07:55:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you choose?

2007-06-22 07:46:32 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous