My husband's job may be sending him out of the country...for good. He was offered a job in Mexico. He was born there so he kind of has an idea of what to expect. I have only visited for vacation, so I can only imagine. I hate to think about leaving everything behind, it scares me to think I will have to start over in a new country and with complete strangers. I don't know if I can follow him, but if I do could it be that maybe it's my destiny. That maybe something better is waiting for me over there? What would you do? Follow or separate?
2007-06-22 09:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by Scorpio Chika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u love your husband, I would follow...if u do not love your husband then stay behind
2007-06-22 09:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it always scary when it comes on moving to a strange place, but like what you said,your husband if from there. Now don't you think that it will be the right move if you try to see what will be waiting for you out there?? If this job is not paying good, I don't think your husband will take it. If you really love your husband,it will not matter where, how,or what you will be beside him. Also if you decide to go to Mexico, just imagine the things that you can do back there, our money is more in Mexico, people use pesos back there, and we use dollars. So just think about it.....for your husband sake!!
2007-06-22 16:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did go with my husband over sea and that was the biggest mistake i made.I quit my good paying job to sit all day at home till he gets off work..not that i did not look for a job but i had no luck , on top off that my husband got really controlling and he changed..so after 10 month in hell i am back in the US but he is not a happy camper so he is making me suffer like crazy...don't wanna send me my car or anything cause he wants me back over there so i can be miserable...i am looking for a job but without a car is a little hard.. think about it he from there what if he changes been around his people... u never know...always have a plan B just in case it don't work out:) good luck Chic...
2007-06-22 20:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by monpetit_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything does happen for a reason. Leaving your husband should not even be an option. I can't believe you would just give up your marriage because you have to move. Think about military wives and children who have to move from army base to army base every year or so. Think of your husband first and please don't be so selfish.
2007-06-22 16:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow or separate? It might be scary to you but thats your husband. Does he know your considering divorce? He should leave you here and find a better partner in life......
2007-06-22 16:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband and have committed yourself to the rest of your life with him, then you need to go with him.
If there are other issues in your marriage that might prevent this marriage from working out, then you need to do some soul searching for the answer.
2007-06-22 16:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance and go with him. It is natural to fear the new and unexpected, are you prepared to leave your husband and get divorced. It may not be as bad as you are thinking it will be. Have faith and open your heart and self to new adventures. Best of Luck.
2007-06-22 16:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im in a similar situation we live in ny my mom inlaw lives in alabama and she recently had breast cancer and had her breast amputated, my husband wants to move ther next spring to be closer to her to help her , and i dont want to moveat all, but because i love my husband dearly, ill follow him anywhere,im not happy about the move, but as a wife, i have to do what i have to do, which is support my husband and go to alabama with him, and i plan on making the best out of this situation, i know its not mexico, but he is your husband and you should follow him and support him as best you can, leaving him is not the answer.
2007-06-22 17:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by amy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything is going well for you and your husband and the relationship is strong, I would go with him. If it is not, I would reevalute everything before I moved out of the country. Good Luck to you!
2007-06-22 16:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give it a try - you'll never know unless you do. Besides, if you find that it's not working, you guys can always come back. No job is ever permanent so really, you have nothing to lose!
2007-06-22 16:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by jazzviolin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋