in a timewarp - not now under current circumstances- going back in time: would you marry your ex again? Change things that went wrong? or stay clear? (you are allowed to keep the children regardless of your choice, if you had any)
2007-06-22 10:51:48 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is simple. No way. How could you trust the other person again? You know what they are capable of and how evil they can be now.
2007-06-22 10:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by John S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. That would be like pulling a carton of milk out of the fridge, taking a drink and finding out it is sour and then putting it back in the fridge thinking it will be better tomorrow. You can't answer that question because you wouldn't know what was going to happen to the marriage. It would just be the same as the first time you married. If I knew what was going to happen to the marriage, then yes I would because I wouldn't be who I am today if it wasn't for that experience. On the other hand, if you knew, than you may try and change things because you would know what went wrong and you still be married to them and you wouldn't end up being the person you are today. You wouldn't be with the person you are with now. I am starting to get a headache just thinking about all this. Not only that, but now I am thinking about my ex and I have worked so hard over the years to keep him in the past.
Thanks a lot! lol Don't worry I'll get over it and I needed the laugh. This was a really good question.
2007-06-22 11:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by CARM 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think I would have made the same mistake twice. At least I would hope so. I would teach myself to make wiser decissions and look for the warning signs that he was going to be a worthless jerk!!!
But being it as a timewarp and I dont know what I know now. I might have married him again!!!
Who Knows!
2007-06-22 10:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I DID marry him. So if I found myself in the same circumstances, with the same mindset, not knowing anything I know now - how could I not? At the time, marrying him was the best thing I could have done. So yes, I would marry him again.
P.S. Just to be clear, I would not marry him again now.
2007-06-22 11:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not in this or any other lifetime. He will always be what he was when me married him. The only good thing me got outta that was 2 beautiful children. He is useless and did everything in his power to distroy me self-esteem, and actually succeeded. Me let him. Me would run for the hills and not stop till me was so far gone all he would be seein is the dust from me sneakers
2007-06-22 10:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by newfieswoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex cheated on me over and over again but we had children and family meant more to me than ANYTHING. The last two yrs of our marriage he started seeing someone regularly and I finally kicked him out. When we married I took my marriage vows seriously . But I couldn't come in second to a woman who was so evil that she didn't care about helping to break up our family. But the fact of the matter is I married him because I loved him and inspite of what he did to me I can't turn my feelings off like a light switch so yes I would probably take him back sad but true
2007-06-22 11:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by jusayg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fun question:
I have been married 3 times, engaged 6 times.
First one-no, I wouldn't even date him. (He cheated on me. I thought he was "funny-looking.")
Second one-I would still be married to, if he hadn't left me. I fell madly in love with him at first sight and we got married in 2 weeks. He is very quiet, shy, awkward, and a famous wealthy artist-NOW,he wasn't back then.
Third one-I would run in the opposite direction. I would have him arrested for stalking. He was a liar and a cheat-even a socio-path. He scared me and scarred my children.
I want to marry the man I am with now, and can't because I would lose so much money.
My advice: Don't ever get married. Live together and keep your career. Save money. YOu never know.
2007-06-22 11:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think if some thing have changed we could have still been together. i know the question is would i marry him again and the answer would be yes because i would have saw the same in him that i did when he first ask me a long time ago.
2007-06-22 10:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Adina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was young and married and he was young and stupid at the time and we both learnt from it and there was still feelings i would get engaged or date him again but if i felt relived that he was gone no way would i revisit hell house again some exs have got back together again and stronger for it i guess it is all about what you believe may happen Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton had this hard to break marriage they married and divorced a couple of times
2007-06-22 12:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I believe that all of my experiences have helped to shape the person I am now and I am happy with who I am. Even though my marriage ended badly, I learned a lot from that relationship and it has made me a stronger, smarter, more self-sufficient person. I do not believe in regret. Live, love, learn and continue to move forward.
2007-06-22 10:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by MJL613 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋