Marriage & Divorce - 16 June 2007

our first adopted newborn? We would really love to adopt 2 , two years after we adopt our first.
What are your thoughts on our ages and adoption?

2007-06-16 12:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Tilly123 1

my husband and i did end on bad terms first i heard he wasnt doen good and now last night a friend of his said he hates me i was really upset to hear this i dont want anyone hating me so whats your input ty so much jewels

2007-06-16 12:16:05 · 6 answers · asked by jewels 2

hes married and been attempting to cheat w/ me. i woudlnt go that far but did talk to him on the phone a lot. i've finally come to the realiziatoin he just wants to use me on the side and go home to his wife - so ive decided to be done with him. hes such a jerk i want the best way to hurt him when i dump him . a few options come to mind but if you think of your own let me know:
1) just stop talking to him, no explanation
2) tell him off
i want the one that will make him feel the shittiest about himsefl thanks

2007-06-16 12:09:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend that broke up with her fiance' recently and after getting back together with him he confessed to her about sleeping with an ex girlfriend. He apologized and asked her for forgiveness and swore to cherish her the rest of his life and never hurt her again. Now she has something she wants to tell him but don't know if she should. Seven months ago they broke up and she had sex with her ex. She never told him because she figured he cheated on her with his ex also. Now she feels like she should tell him but don't know. He is incarcerated now for seven months. Please answer with whether she should tell him or never tell him and go ahead and get married when he gets out of prison. She feels like for them to unite as one everything needs to be out in the open.

2007-06-16 11:54:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is bi-polar. At this time, she will not sleep in my bed, much less have any kind of sexual relatios with me, reason being, she is also re-living her incest details with her therpist.

Okay...she is trying to meet up with some guy from her my space page. It sounds like she just met him. They have been writing back and forth for a couple months, inviting each other for lunch, drinks, or dinner. My wife has lied about who she is, and says that she is a case worker working with abused kids. (she does not work, period) She has no idea I know of the conversation, so I cannot confront her until she says she has actually met.

The question is....If you were this guy, what are you looking for??? And, in your opinion. will she ever meet up with him?

2007-06-16 11:53:17 · 16 answers · asked by not for now 2

My sister in law in trying to file for dioverce has little money and 2 kids her husband does not want to give the divorce need help..

2007-06-16 11:45:57 · 4 answers · asked by Jacynda K 1

?...then can you marry in the Catholic Church if you were Catholic?,...(but your husband was not?)

2007-06-16 11:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4

What do you make of this? Do you think it has something to do with religion or can you think of a reason for a man to say to a Woman the following? What does it matter what I feel, we can't get married, you can't have my kids.

2007-06-16 11:19:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-16 11:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by zOe 1

Is your marriage fulfilling? Is marriage for everybody? Did your spouse turn out to be the person you thought they were before you got married? What do to make it more exciting, fulfilling- Can you MAKE it fulfilling or once its one of those things that once it goes wrong you cant fix- ever?

2007-06-16 10:58:26 · 22 answers · asked by Venus 2

To just friends, As I dont love her as much as she loves me. YES I know that sounds selfish and rotten of me, But why marry someone just to find out at a later date it was not the right thing to do. If more people thought before getting married then the divorce rate would not be so sky high. WHAT SHOULD I DO Thanks?

2007-06-16 10:56:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

How did you move on? Survive? Would you ever get married again?

2007-06-16 10:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by cats 7

should i date now that i know my cheating on me because i need female in my life i cant stand to be touched or spoke to by her

2007-06-16 10:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by babyface69 1

I have been in love for almost 4 yrs. Unfortunately, I have also been going thru divorce for 4 yrs .My boyfriend and I found each other when I 'left' my husband almost 4 yrs ago. Financially, I couldn't leave and he wouldn't. My husband wanted out as much as I, but we couldn't afford it. Then our oldest daughter became mentally ill for about 2 yrs, making it difficult for me to return to work after being home with the children our entire marriage. After she got better, she developed a terrible infection which led to a series of infections and long term disability. Throughout all of these problems, my bf has continued to stand by my side, 'in secret.' He is always there for me and for my children. He is thought to be a great 'family friend,' making it easy to spend time with him. My two oldest daughters have discovered our relationship and they understand that I have no desire to hurt their father. We would all be happier if we could live separately. My problem is, how do I tell him?

2007-06-16 10:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by K J 1

I think not, but that's just my opinion.

2007-06-16 10:06:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I knew a lady who was married for third-teen years to her loving husband. Until oneday he told her he wasn't in love with her any more, and he wanted a divorce. They both signed a prenuptial agreement ( prenup),so he left with nothing, and he told her to get out.

HOW MEAN AND EVIL IS THAT??

Should she kill him??

2007-06-16 10:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-16 09:57:41 · 10 answers · asked by Ariadne on TAURUS 2

I don't think I love my husband anymore. In fact, I'm starting to think I never did love him. I moved in with him when I was 19 because of a bad situation at home and I think I let the relationship go too far. I'm 26 now and wished I waited for the right man. I just didn't have the confidence to think I would ever find anyone else who would want to marry me. If I didn't marry him I could have been 10 times the woman I am today, I just didn't see that 7 years ago. I would have had a college education and living a much better life. The only good thing in my marriage is my 10 month old daughter. My husband is lazy, boring, and we have no love life. We have about $2.00 in the bank and live in a crappy little house. Now I know why his mother divorced his father. I hate my life.

How do I undo the past 7 years of my life?

And NO, I am not some lazy, whinny housewife. I work, take care of our home, daughter, etc. so don't even use "that card." What would you do if you felt like I do?

2007-06-16 09:27:28 · 44 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5

At any time during your wedding planning and engagement, did you ever almost break up? Did you argue alot more because of the stress? Did you feel like you were drifting apart instead of growing closer?

2007-06-16 09:26:44 · 11 answers · asked by mommyjessp 2

I can't stand him anymore. I have been with him for 5 years, i only tolorate him couse of the kids. but having this last child made me realize, how stupid i have been all this time! I cater to all his needs day and night cook, clean, loundry, everything possible, he could never complain. But I feel i am the last one on his list. I feel unapreciated, used and abused by my kindness. I want out. I am tired of feeling alone, of always have to be chasing for an I love you or a kiss even a hug. I am only 28, i feel like I am 60. tired and over worked. at least every night i cry my self to sleep i wake up staring at the walls of my room. i never was like this i let him mess me up seriosly. i want to leave i don't know how. any comments and advise i really apreciate. thanx lex. N.J

2007-06-16 09:17:25 · 22 answers · asked by Leslie R. 1

has anyone filed for allimony without filing for divorce and are there guildlines if you qualify for it

2007-06-16 09:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by lily 2

my husband and i have been married 2 years he has been raising the kids and they both love each other. our marriage was everything i ever wanted, he was a great dad to my kids(They call him daddy) a good husband and we had a caring affectionate marriage. but he had a affair and moved out he promised the kids he would always be here for them and was until a few weeks ago when the other woman said she didn't trust him seeing me so he couldn't see them anymore. he can't tell them because its too hard and they cry and ask to see him all the time. she won't let him come see them because she found out that we were still being intimate when she was with him. i have since ended that but will he realize that he is hurting the kids and i see he is misable too so why does she want a married cheating, lying man and why won't he stand up for his kids?

2007-06-16 09:09:52 · 10 answers · asked by lily 2

2007-06-16 09:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting hard ons when I'm treating attractive black girls. I do not get hard ons with white girls. I'm a married OB/GYN. I have been practicing for 13 yrs and my practice is in an afluent white neighbor. So I only have 4 black patients. I have always treated white women only for 12 yrs, because 99.99% of the residents there are white. In the last year i have my first 4 black patients. I get turned on when i look at them. I'm 41 yrs. I want to refer them to other doctors because it's the right thing to do as their doctor but i fear that i may be labelled as a racist. I can not tell them the real reasons why i do not want to treat them any more...

Doctors are supposed to stop treating and refer to other doctors patients that they are attracted to. How you think i will be labelled a racist for referring them to other doctors?

2007-06-16 08:51:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

When someone tries to give what has been a pretty turbulent relationship another chance for the sake of their young child, does it more than often work out or not? If there is some sort of affection between the mother and father but the basis of the reunion is for the well being of the kid, can the relationship last in the long term?

2007-06-16 08:43:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I happened to drop by my sisters yesterday. She had an issue with a maitnence problem and wanted some company while waiting for the contractor to arrive. Well..shortly after he does show. Seemed like a nice guy. A lil old for me though. My sister is in her late 30's and is married. Not soon after he arrived somehow he& my sister struck up a conversation. In fact one of his first questions was if she was married. She says "yeh" but then goes on with "unhappily." I was taken back, because although it is true, this guy just met her. He went on to tell her that he is divorced w/ kids and at times dates. He even told her she was "A good lookin' woman." I dont want my sister to get hurt, she has been through alot. Next thing I hear is he is wondering if she would have a "friend" on the side and proceeded to give her his #. She is my sister and best friend. I am afraid he is wanting one thing only and she is at least hoping he sees more than that. How can I help her understand?

2007-06-16 08:34:52 · 12 answers · asked by italianprincess 1

I have found that in the last year I ve been having sexual fantasizing about ONLY white guys. In my life i had never found them sexually attractive. DO you think there is something wrong with me? Do I need to see a doctor? I seriously mean this. i'm not being funny at all.

The sexual fantasies are becoming stronger & stronger & more frequent. I'm married. I fear that I may act on them with the this hot white man I work with.

I spoke to my best friend about it & she think it's my curious about a white man. My friend says i should "just do it" with work mate(he's attracted to me) to satisfy my fantasies. This is crazy but i spoke to him(my co-worker).He said when i'm ready he will sleep with me to see if he lives up to my fantasies.

These fantasies are affecting my sexual life with my husband. Am I sick? I have not yet acted on them but I'm being consumed by them...Recently it has been my co-worker in my fantasies BUT before it was different white men I meet e.g my doctor

2007-06-16 08:05:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughters childern are being raised by my ex-son
in law he has remarried now we are having trouble trying to see them because of her

2007-06-16 07:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by eileen n 1

Does anyone have any idea on how to go about on getting a Prenuptial Agreement in the State Of Arizona?

2007-06-16 07:14:49 · 5 answers · asked by ♥KayKay♥ 1

I am 21 yrs old still in college and hubby is 25 yrs old works for insurance company only been married 3.7 months before he filed for divorce.Long story short we took 4 month break before marriage his idea(i am sure he was not innocent during the break) and i had a fling ex.bf and got married unaware i was pregnant w/ ex.bf child.Curently we are going through a nasty divorce since i told him the truth.Some of my close family are aware of the details but None of my friends or anyone else is.As of now i am already beeing snubbed or a pity case just because i am showing i am pregnant.My soon to be ex.hubby has said nothing but as of now most people are assuming its his?

2007-06-16 07:12:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous