our first adopted newborn? We would really love to adopt 2 , two years after we adopt our first.
What are your thoughts on our ages and adoption?
2007-06-16 12:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Tilly123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HELL no !!! Peeps are having babies when they're older !!! Some peeps STILL have babies after 35. Even 40 ! I heard of this lady who said that she was 57 & wanted to have a baby. The Dr. helped her w/ that. Turns out she was 67 !!!
2007-06-16 12:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 48 years old now. But my twin sister and I were adopted when we were about 1 year old by parents who were 45 and 48. I had the BEST childhood and their age did not make a difference. The only thing slightly different was that we were brought up by stricter standards and raised to have morals and empathy for others maybe moreso than our friends. (plus our curfew at night was a little earlier). I think parents who have children at an older age are FAR more ready to raise kids the right way. Congratulations! I say go for it! I am so happy that two little babies out there will have the chance at a happy life with the two of you! You will be blessed with so many happy memories of your life and so will they!
2007-06-16 17:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My niece and her husband are both around the same age as you two and have 4 sons, they are adopting and 8 year old daughter. There are lots of children that need homes. If you both want to do it and can give a child a loving home, why not. I would suggest parenting classes and counseling to prepare for parenthood.
My only suggestion about your age is for you to consider how old you will be when the kids finally turn 18 and need money for college and you are wanting to retire etc...if you are alright with that, go for it.
2007-06-16 18:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your ages. As long as your both secure and have a solid relationship. There are alot of different options with adoptions and usually if you are in good health and have a solid foundation you should have no problems.
Another avenue with adoption is there alot of "special" needs children of all ages and it doesnt cost you anything except for maybe the paperwork for court that you file. Check with your local social services about adoptions in your area if your interested.
Alot of times the state has placed these children in foster care homes and always looking for loving parents to adopt them. good luck.
2007-06-16 12:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wonderful that your looking to adopt! My sister was adopted and I think it's a great thing for people to do. I don't think that your ages are an issue at all. It seems like many people are having children later in life. I would say go for it! You will be helping out the children that you bring into your lives as well as making yourselves happy. =) Good Luck to you both!
2007-06-16 12:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,my man and I are getting married at Christmas. He is 46 and I am 30, we are thinking about having a child together. He has 4 grown daughters . Hes a wonderful man and has been an exceptional father to his girls. I don't think its too late or that we are too old to love and raise a child. And so I don't think you and your husband are either. I wish you all the luck in the world. Loving a child doesn't have anything to do with age.
2007-06-16 13:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how exciting a toddler could be, yet a toddler is often high priced. If I have been you i might hear on your husband. If he feels which you 2 are no longer financially waiting for a toddler, then you definately ought to attend. unexpected economic issues can take a toll on a courting. yet this might take much greater of a toll on the courting whilst one social gathering has already voiced which you 2 are no longer financially good now. merely wait, in case you wait you will want so lots greater to offer your bouncing kit of exhilaration, plus, your loved ones merely isn't residing in a straing and you merely isn't going against your husband's desires with the aid of fact the previous asserting is going: sturdy issues come to those that wait.
2016-12-13 04:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by mento 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption is a beautiful thing..and no you're not too old silly..you will make great parents! This is actually a good age to be parents now that you all have experienced life..best of luck to you
2007-06-16 12:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Melissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if ur going to give this child or children a good life u should adopt as long as your not 60 or over,my dad had a kid at 39 and 41,and its going good as long as your not like too old to still do things i think its a very good thing to do!
2007-06-16 12:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey A 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HEy if you will love and cherish this baby I am all for it. ANd who cares what people thinks about adoption it's what you and your husband think that counts. SO go ahead and go for it. And your not too old to ahve a newborn or a couple of them 2 years apart. So congrats to you and your hubby.
2007-06-16 12:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I really don't think that's too old! and Congratulations!! That is so exciting!! God Bless you and your husband, for doing such a great thing to help children. I think adoption is just wonderful! It not only helps the children that need homes. It also helps the adults that want children. Congratulations again!!
God Bless
2007-06-16 12:34:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋