hes married and been attempting to cheat w/ me. i woudlnt go that far but did talk to him on the phone a lot. i've finally come to the realiziatoin he just wants to use me on the side and go home to his wife - so ive decided to be done with him. hes such a jerk i want the best way to hurt him when i dump him . a few options come to mind but if you think of your own let me know:
1) just stop talking to him, no explanation
2) tell him off
i want the one that will make him feel the shittiest about himsefl thanks
2007-06-16 12:09:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I vote for 1. it will drive him huts
2007-06-16 12:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to do the more mature thing, which is option #1 just stop talking to him, no explanation. Why waste your breath on a guy who's just going to use you? don't waste your time anymore than you already have. As much as it will feel good to tell him off, your better off just acting your age.
2007-06-16 12:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him out to a really fancy restaurant and offer to pay then when dinner is almost over excuse yourself and leave him with the tab, he'll get the message plus some.
2007-06-20 10:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by panndora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he calls just hang up the phone and every time he calls just hang up the phone, if he comes to your home and knocks at your door just turn the music up real loud , don't talk he'll get the message, if calls at work ask him who he wants to talk to and if he says you, tell him, I don't want to talk to you and if you call one more time I'm going to call your wife and tell her to please have you leave me alone, if he doesn't stop call her and tell her I'm going to file on your husband for harassment. because he keeps bothering me and I want nothing to do with a man that lies about being married.
I had one married do me that way and it only took two times to tell him look buddy get lost I Don't date a married man, he called again and i just slammed the phone down, he stopped.
2007-06-16 12:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the Paul Simon song...50 ways to leave your lover.
2007-06-16 12:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I'd do if I were you- Change the locks on your doors and change your phone number. Wright a letter to his wife and then send it to her. If you have to money get out of town for a couple of weeks.
2007-06-16 12:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rochelle N 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when i was in my early 20s i went out with a married man he told me he was seperated he lied to me and yes i fell deeply inlove with him he used me big time so i called up his wife and told her she deserved to know and she said to me what goes on with you and '''''' is between you lol must of been an open relationship gl
2007-06-16 13:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't matter what you do or say. he isn't gonna feel shitty at all. he doesn't care. once you're done with him, he'll find another.he's that self centered. best thing is to not let him know how hurt or ticked you are. tell him you just not into him.
2007-06-16 12:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi freinds F,
Just stop talking to him, no explanation. Telling him off is stooping to his level.
2007-06-16 12:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by MLeinart7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, the best thing i could tell you is; when you talk to him; be as unattached and unemotional as you can; tell him i'm looking for a real man; not unfaithful little boy's like you. hang up and ignore him.
2007-06-16 12:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Robert H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋