I knew a lady who was married for third-teen years to her loving husband. Until oneday he told her he wasn't in love with her any more, and he wanted a divorce. They both signed a prenuptial agreement ( prenup),so he left with nothing, and he told her to get out.
HOW MEAN AND EVIL IS THAT??
Should she kill him??
2007-06-16 10:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
salston74...sorry to hear that.
2007-06-16 10:14:11 · update #1
In this case, the girl has taken its risk . Men are always bad boys. So, we as girls should play better and more clever.
Men, never enough with one woman( in sexual needs), their testoteron is what they fraighten but has been fooling them at once. In this case, the behaviour mostly based on this testoteron problem. Dont love anymore means : i am not into you ( sexually). this is a basic instink to be a man. Get into a woman, sexually. may be this is too direct, but this what broke the life of many women in the world.
2007-06-16 10:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by tresyabedkowska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 10:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she should NOT kill him. Landing in jail (and possibly death row) is not going to fix the problem!
If they signed a prenup, then what she came with she leaves with; everything that was accumulated during the thirteen years of marriage is divided evenly. Prenups only protect entering assets (things you bring with you into the marriage).
It sounds like maybe after she gets over the shock of things she'll find she's better off without this sort of filth in her life. Be a good friend and try not to be too harsh on her OR him.
2007-06-16 10:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are various reasons why people fall out of love. Usually it is because either they or their spouse has changed or they were never truly in love to begin with. She's lucky she had him sign a pre-nup. She's better off without him if he doesnt love her. I know from experience because after 17 unhappy years of marriage to a man I didnt love I finally realized I was never going to love or respect him and I had a right to be happy too. Fortunately for us we had an amicable divorce and are bests friends now. Why would she want to kill him. Would she really rather him have stayed with her when he didnt love her? What kind of life would that be? She should be grateful he was honest with her instead of staying in the marriage and deceiving her.
2007-06-16 10:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she "kill" him?I am going though the same thing right now,My wife and i are married for 13 years and 2 weeks ago she told me that she has not loved me in a LONG time.She wants a divorce and the kids(3)So last Saturday i tried to kill myself because i don't want to be with out her or them.Needless to say i did not die but right now i am having a very difficult time.
2007-06-16 10:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's definately a jerk, no question about that, but killing him is going to the extreme don't ya think? I know that's the first thing ya wanna do in these cases, but why go to prison or death row for a jerk like that? At least she didn't catch him cheating on her first, or he didn't beat the living daylights out of her. She should just pick herself up, and start all over again. There's someone out there for her, and she will find them someday.
2007-06-16 10:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by che_rae_gra53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is mean and killing him is the first thing that comes up in mind but remember that the lady should try to think positive and say to herself now that im single i can do anything i couldnt do when i was married. Have fun i mean it feels great to be single! Party a bit lol!
2007-06-16 10:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by FigureSkater07(a.k.a Ryspigeons) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! People it's time to be honest> people do fall out of in love. If we loved someone forever we all could marry our first boyfriends or girlfriends..This is life..It is good he left than cheating on her or mistreating her while married. I think he did the right thing no matter what SOME IDIOTS here on yahoo answers will say..
I"m sick of some of these people here who only say what they think one wants to hear or what they think is right. Some people on yahoo answers tend to ignore Human nature(biological make up).
He did the right thing and I applaud your friend's husabnd for being a man and telling her the truth. he did not love her any more. Did you want him to pretend loving her.
2007-06-16 10:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't kill him but she should get revenge. It's not good enough to just let him walk away. Read up on the internet on some good dirty tricks. A really good book is George Hayduke's "Up Yours!" It is a gude to advance revenge techniques and is printed by Paladin Press in Boulder, CO.
2007-06-16 10:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my husband of seven years because I fell out of love with him. But no one has a right to judge. You don't ever really know what is happing behind closed doors. Trust me everything and I mean EVERYTHING is different. It was not right for me to keep us both there and no real feelings be involved. Sometimes people grow apart. It is sad and It hurts everybody involved but sometimes it is better for everyone.
2007-06-16 10:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by bjaymart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋