Marriage & Divorce - 21 May 2007

in my culture a i4 year old marrying a 30 year old is ok what do u think? im 14 my potential husband is 22 i got lucky compared to sum girls but im not being forced.

2007-05-21 16:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by maari 1

o.k. I have been married for almost 5 years. We have 2 beautiful boys. One is 3 and the other 2. I love my husband to death but I so wish he would be more affectionate and responsive.

He very rarely shows emotion except for the bedroom which doesn't happen too often lately. He tends to nit pick alot and never gives me compliments.
I have been running for about 6 months and I look good. I was in the buff tonight and asked him if I will look good in a bathing suit and he just said something along the lines as your not planning to wear a bathing suit anytime soon?? The comment broke my heart. I thought it was sooo rude. He can be honest to a fault. I am not 20 anymore, I am 35 with 2 kids and I really believe that I look good. He just hurt me and annoyed the heck out of me.
Marriage is really tough I tell y'a. I know I will be with him till the end but nights like this make me feel darn lonely. The only time he is expressive is in cards on special occasions.

2007-05-21 16:08:39 · 30 answers · asked by Laurience 2

2007-05-21 15:47:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm married but i feel terrible because i have a deeper love for someone else. we are no longer in a relationship but our hearts are still tied. i know it! some nites it burns me to be with out him but hey.... i am married and yes i love my husband but i ache for another man. what do i do???????? maybe i should just pray that it all goes away!
hey i could do like jessica on ONE LIFE TO LIVE...tell my husband and deal with what ever the consequences. NOT! help me out.
ANYBODY KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT????????

2007-05-21 15:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't have no more kids which i took care of that with my last kid. My husband is 26 and we don't have sex any more because i can't have any more kids. I don't understand this. Most men would love that. we have 3 together and he has one to his first wife. is there something wrong with me or is it him? Please don't say he getting it else where because i know for a fact he's not. and my weight ain't the problem either. any help?

2007-05-21 15:27:20 · 10 answers · asked by wishstar28 4

and which one is more healthy to a relationship?

2007-05-21 15:16:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam only the working parent i take care of all the bills she is now taking care of the divorse papers she still in our apartment she does what ever she does comes home late and tells its over i dont love u i love her and i have a little kid so i dont know if i should continue paying all her things

2007-05-21 15:10:28 · 61 answers · asked by gabe l 1

I have filed for divorce but I am not sure if I am ready to go forward.

Does anyone have any idea of WHY men are addicted to this type of behavior?

2007-05-21 15:02:33 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has become very close w/ a woman who used to work with him. She's also married. It started w/ them hanging out in groups (mostly going out to the bar)with the other people from work. Then, gradually it became JUST them..meeting for "happy hour" at like 2:30pm & returning at 2:30AM or once even 3:30AM! (12+hrs together at a time!)Meeting at least once or twice a week. The breaking point for me was when she bought concert tickets for just the two of them to see a concert a few months back. Not wanting to be controling, I didn't say he could not go..but I made it VERY clear that I was VERY UNCOMFORTABLE w/ it & I asked him to respect my feelings & pass it up. To my dismay he went to the concert. On his cell bill he had 1,300 texts to her in one month! They both swear theyre just best friends though he admitted to having some feelings for her. Finally given the ultimatum of "its her or me" he said he won't give her up because id be controling him. Any chance hes not cheating?

2007-05-21 15:00:31 · 62 answers · asked by melissadh123 1

I have been married before and divorced for reasons other than adultery. My fiance' divorced his wife because she committed adultery. The bible says in Matthew 19 that unless the reason for divorce is adultery, to remarry would be to commit adultery. I am saved and am getting ready to be baptized. It is my understanding through the Church of Christ that all my sins are washed away and it is as if I had never sinned. If that is what the bible teaches, then my past sins should not carry over into my new "reborn" life, right? If there is anyone out there who can help me to understand this before I remarry on May 27th I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-05-21 14:47:55 · 30 answers · asked by Sherry M 1

2007-05-21 14:36:58 · 28 answers · asked by kettly 1

Do you have to have an active my space account to receive request for people to be your friends? My husband has a account but it says it hasn't been logged on since 11-06, I was trying to find a site I was on days ago and came across a couple requests in his mail in the history log. I guess i'm wondering if he may have a different account that he uses now?

2007-05-21 14:32:14 · 11 answers · asked by browneyes80 1

like 2 or 3 times aday!!!!
How can I get him to want it more???

2007-05-21 14:27:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-21 14:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by Seralisoni T 1

wow! I'm married with 2 kids... been 18 months since anything physical has happened between us.... small town... we are "well-off" by any standard... whole town will "spin" .... how dare I expect passion in addition to nice house, camper, boat, etc... Thing is... I've fallen completely for someone else......... but he's "unavailable"

2007-05-21 14:16:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK first my parents split when i was little and my father and grandfather are very racist people. me myself i don't believe in racism. So when i was in a relationship me being white and my boyfriend being black it was hard to keep my mom from finding out. After a year of dating she did find out and made us break up for fear of my father and grandfather. she did not think i was old enough to make my decision. It was hard because at the time we were in school and had all the classes together. we eventually went our seperate ways which caused more heartache. then one day he walked into my job and i was old enough and things took off. here we are 2 1/2 years later and we have a house together and I love him and know i wanna be with him for the rest of my life and he says he fills the same. the fault is this after all this he has never asked the question: will you marry me? when i ask he always says im too young(19) or makes up some excuse. Is he ever going to ask or am i kidding myself?

2007-05-21 13:53:16 · 11 answers · asked by tweety 2

My friend went through a divorce a while back and his wife and kids brought home a dog that he never wanted. They promised they would take care of the dog. Now he and his daughter are the only ones at the house. The daughter spends the night out with friends, works full time, and goes to school full time. The dad works and is rarely home. He loves his daughter very much, but he's tired of being the one taking care of a dog he never wanted. The dog has ruined the carpets in every single room with poop and piss. When he tells his daughter the dog has to go, she gets VERY upset. He has given her many alternatives and warnings on what to do with the dog, to no avail. Has anyone else gone through this? What would you do? She has just graduated from high school.

2007-05-21 13:44:15 · 9 answers · asked by lady 5

Is it POSSIBLE?
For a married man to be your soulmate..and when the time is right..he will come to you? see, b4 he got married we were friends..and we lost touch and in the mean time he got married. Then we saw eachother and talked about what was going on. But the weird thing is..before we saw eachother again after almost a yr I kept thinking about him and dreaming about him for like a month really HARD..then one day it was SOOO strong..i had thought about him so hard..and i told my friend..i just want to see him and see how he is doing..i just want to hug him and talk to him..well that was on a Sunday..then taht night i dreamed about him. WELL, The NEXT MORNING..We ran into eachother!!!!!!!! that is soo creepy! after a yr of not seeing him and talking to him..to thinking about him really hard and then seeing him the next day..what could that mean? I dont want to wreck his marriage..thats not what its about..I just want to know if we are meant to be soulmates..what do you think? I DO NOT want to pursue him while he is MARRIED! I just want to know if me and him were meant to be...

2007-05-21 13:42:19 · 19 answers · asked by Shannon 1

In the state of california can a judge rule a divorce final even if one of the parties does not sign the papers?

2007-05-21 13:39:44 · 19 answers · asked by MIMKA 1

2007-05-21 13:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by mori b 1

I have a family member who is renewing their wedding vows, after 20 years of marriage. She is making this like it is their 1st marriage. She is wearing a wedding gown, getting a motel room the night before so her husband does not see her before the "wedding" . Which is not all as bad -as I think it is -for her to ask for gifts and including gift registry cards in all of the invitations.

2007-05-21 13:25:29 · 16 answers · asked by gandtiff 2

my spouse sent me a text on accident (intended for her sister) saying that she had a dream last night about having sex with a family freind. should i make a big deal about this?? i trust her, but this gives me doubts.

2007-05-21 13:24:02 · 20 answers · asked by luiggi77 1

Our son is graduating from 6th grade (only school he has ever attended to date) and will be attending middle school next Fall. We have 50/50 joint custody but cannot agree on which school district to send him.

Our son has expressed a very strong interest in staying enrolled in his current district and he is a good, smart kid.

But, one of the parents lives in the next town over and really wants to switch districts for the last 6 years of public school.

Where and how do we do to figure this dilema out? What happens if we don't ever agree? There is also a difference of how much/ whether or not to count our son's opinion.

Thank you for your advice!

2007-05-21 13:15:28 · 6 answers · asked by chancebeaube 3

My husband was injured 10 years ago and endured seven back surgeries because of it. He is on high doses of pain medication on a daily regemin and has no interest in sex or affection or anything romantic. We haven't touched intimately in three years and the lonliness gets overwelming sometimes. I don't want to leave him with his condition but I want a love life. Is it possibe to have a relationship outside of marriage under these circumstances?

2007-05-21 12:53:03 · 18 answers · asked by Ladi Rain 1

My sons girlfriend is owed back child support from her father about 20,000.00 when her mom was alive now her mother is dead and the father says he dosen't owe it anymore is this true?

2007-05-21 12:51:32 · 4 answers · asked by Candy F 1

I went to see my Mom who was in the hospital yesterday and gave my separated wife a call to let her know, after I said what was happening, she said "don't call me on the land line cause you're using up minutes...". It kinda irked me a little. I mean, if she were telling me about her Mom being in the hospital, I certainly wouldn't bring up that in the same conversation, I'd be telling her get me however you want.
She won't let me take the children for the weekend. She didn't want to give me a kiss after she asked me to do the lawn for her. I wanted one (my fee). I feel I'm nver going to get any real affection from her. She will always be the same. I made extreme sacrifices for her w/ no movement on when she would want to get back together. She's cold to me, she talks about me to the children, she purposely has in depth discussions w/ the kids in front of me w/o including me. It's like she's replaced me with my son as to who she talks to. I want someone to talk to.

2007-05-21 12:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6

2007-05-21 12:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by love2talk 1

2007-05-21 12:39:27 · 39 answers · asked by frclld 3

My wife found out that I had an affair. The lady & I only had sex once; this person is a good friend of mind.

My wife and I were having problems and it happened. We had agreed that I will not visit this woman’s house. My wife also asked asks that I not see this person any more and end our friendship. However, I convinced her that it was over and she forgave me. We then went into a business together at my request, this did not work. She tolerated this person for sometime but the person proved to be disingenuous among other things. So her forgiveness still stands but does not want me to associate with this person at all & forbid this person to enter our house or ask me to do favors.



I did a few favors for her recently and it caused a problem, we spoke about it and it was high tension, as she has no respect & tolerance for my friend. Last night she (my friend) asks me to stop by her house on my way home for steam muscles because she knows Jonathan (son) likes it. My wife went wild, screaming and asks if I am having a problem & dumped the food in the trash.



Don’t you think she’s being unreasonable & over reacting?

2007-05-21 12:39:11 · 17 answers · asked by bedi2today 1

after custody has been granted to the mother? Years have passed and alot has changed. He is married (to me) we have a house both with good jobs. The mother has no job, lives with her mother. But she has full custody, should we go back to court?

2007-05-21 12:33:16 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2