2007-05-21 12:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by love2talk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lots of people have bi-curiosity. Talk to him about it. Most men wouldn't care if their wife or girlfriend had sex with another woman. If you had the urge to sleep with another man he probably wouldn't like that. BUT, it is still cheating if you do it without telling him!
2007-05-21 12:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should bring it up to him, maybe wait until he gets home though. You never know, he might be open to the idea and then you will be free to explore your sexuality, but if you don't tell him, that could lead to disaster. Just because you have feelings of attraction to someone else does NOT indicate that you are not ready for committment. If you act on that curiousity without his knowledge, though, that IS. BE careful and I am sure that you will do the right thing.
2007-05-21 16:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by civic9497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be with another woman on your own?? You aren't married yet, so you have no vows to abide by. But I would be honest with your fiance, chances are he'll be into it and want to experience it with you. Or you could keep in a secret, but the guilt may be more than you can bare.
Good Luck
2007-05-21 13:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by duchess77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if in his absence your husband felt like being with another man and followed up on that desire? How you answer this will tell you if you think it is OK or not.
No matter what you do, I think you should talk to him about it. Secrets like this can be might complicated in a marrieage.
2007-05-21 12:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For any free man there is always a woman around the corner(for a free woman there are several men!).If you untrust your man;that means you have proofs or doubts;if not;rest calm
Don't be too curious,...it's dangerous!
2007-05-21 12:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to think long and hard before you ever bring it up to him. If you seriously want to try being with a woman, you can't possibly be ready for a marriage commitment.
2007-05-21 12:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with someone else no matter if that person is male or female it's still considered cheating. You're obviously not ready to get married.
2007-05-21 12:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some issues that need to be addressed with you and your hubby. Remember cheating is cheating with either man or woman.
2007-05-21 12:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by *AntA mAriA* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sweetie , get it out of the way now and before you get married cause if you like it that much you wont get married and waste yours or his time so do it get it over with and go from there......can i watch...LMAO
2007-05-21 12:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by beecharmed_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay curious that way you won't be disappointed.
2007-05-21 12:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋