Is it POSSIBLE?
For a married man to be your soulmate..and when the time is right..he will come to you? see, b4 he got married we were friends..and we lost touch and in the mean time he got married. Then we saw eachother and talked about what was going on. But the weird thing is..before we saw eachother again after almost a yr I kept thinking about him and dreaming about him for like a month really HARD..then one day it was SOOO strong..i had thought about him so hard..and i told my friend..i just want to see him and see how he is doing..i just want to hug him and talk to him..well that was on a Sunday..then taht night i dreamed about him. WELL, The NEXT MORNING..We ran into eachother!!!!!!!! that is soo creepy! after a yr of not seeing him and talking to him..to thinking about him really hard and then seeing him the next day..what could that mean? I dont want to wreck his marriage..thats not what its about..I just want to know if we are meant to be soulmates..what do you think? I DO NOT want to pursue him while he is MARRIED! I just want to know if me and him were meant to be...
2007-05-21 13:42:19 · 19 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you not married anymore??? Why is it an issue that he is.... neither one of you are available. Cut the ties. You are both (or at least he is) otherwise committed. You took vows and so did he....you both should honor those vows. If you two are meant to be and you both up being single again, well Fate could bring you together again. Right now, you should do the right thing and make him do the same.
2007-05-21 13:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by pcchocoholic 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin replaced into raised in Pakistan - and that they are raised to think of of marrying the guy which will a great deal boost the families financial place (i.e. her fathers) and for her the least difficult way is to marry you. Pakistan and India have the optimal quotes of cousin marriage in the international. You have been raised in Australia and you will probable have faith so you may be financially good first and that a relationship must be at a undeniable point to even think of roughly getting married and definately to no longer a relative. you're coming from 2 distinctive angles.
2016-11-25 23:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just think he is your soulmate because you have a mad crush or are in love with him. This ones taken. Its selfish of you to wish him to leave her or divorce her just to be with you. And remember what comes around goes around . If you move in the wrong direction it will come back to haunt you. Move on and fall in love with the man God has for you. You have no buisness dreaming about this, its just torturous for you. You will find love, its just a matter of time. Dont be desperate and make a hasty choice when a man comes along that does interest you though. Its hard to accept maybe, but we dont always find the truth easy to accept in life. This could ruin any good memories of your frienship or your or his present life if you pursue it. This is very desperate.Find a hobby or something to do with yourself besides wasting your good vibe energy.Save that for good people and good times.
2007-05-21 14:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by nspiredmind 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just coincidence.
If you have a former boyfriend or girlfriend, and you live in the same town, sooner or later you're going to run into them.
Think about them long enough, and the two things -- the thought, and the meeting -- will eventually coincide. They're not really connected, they just APPEAR that way, because you're in love with the other person.
You said you don't want to wreck this man's marriage, but you will be a contributing factor in wrecking it if you continue to be in contact with him. You don't want that on your conscience, do you?
2007-05-21 17:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as soul mates. There are many people on earth whom you could be really happy and in love with. If there were only one you might never meet him 'cause he could be in China! This guy may have been a good match for you, but now he is Married. That means, he is not the one for you now. Go find another guy who is also good and right for you.
2007-05-21 14:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you've described....it's very similar to how my second wife and I became as one. We lost touch with one another as well. I moved out west later on.....I never could have foreseen us coming together!
It took 18 years to happen.....along the way were the attempted suicides of her ex, plus my ex's physical violence and her "coming out".
If it's meant to be, there's really no stopping it. So be his true friend. Look out for his interests and watch his back.
Think of what is good for him, good for his future and his present.
Try not to show how you feel about him because that might backfire, especially since he's already with someone.
But try to be a true friend to him, ok? It might take 18 years or more, but if you're meant to be together, there is no stopping it.
2007-05-21 14:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was nature giving you closure you wanted to see him so bad that a force more powerful than us let it happen.
This happen to me once I wanted to see a friend that moved away really BAD and I dreamed about it I even dreamed where he was going to be standing and how he was going to be standing it was creepy like you said and then a few days later I seen him exactly like my dream. I took a year but I seen him.
I was really hurt that he moved away and I really missed him and everything in my mind and body wanted to see him, he was around for a while then he was gone again.
Thank God because he turned out really bad man.
No his not your soul mate just give it closure.
2007-05-21 14:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a soulmate, but I think that there are more that one soulmate for each person. Since he is married and you feel so strongly, you should stay away from him.
Go out and find single soulmate!
2007-05-21 13:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
On a planet of 6 billion people, the odds that there is only ONE person who is compatible with you, and that he will somehow manage to be in your neighborhood or school, as opposed to any other section on this entire earth, are so low they're laughable.
He's not the only guy. If he was "destined" to be yours, he wouldn't have gotten married.
2007-05-21 14:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by Joreth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. Only we pursued each other and ended up having an affair for a year. He finally told his wife and is trying to work it out with her. Says he never loved her, can't tell her he doesn't still love me, but won't leave her to be with me. My advice? Let sleeping dogs lie. If it's meant to be, he will end up apart from her and you will get your chance. I know it's difficult, but hold onto your feelings for him... from afar... until his situation changes or you move on.
2007-05-21 14:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋