Marriage & Divorce - 18 May 2007

I've pizzed the wifey off enough to the point where she has hit me. Didn't hurt but still....its the principle of the thing.

So why do women call men that hit chicks creeps, but then they don't have any second thoughts about hitting a dude.

Are you chicks psycho or what?

2007-05-18 14:54:09 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fully admit I was very idealistic and partly niave when I got married 13 years ago. We have grown over the years and have gotten closer in a lot of ways not just "that way".

In 2001-2004 was the toughest time in our marriage I was dissastified with always having to work hard at that time I made more of the money we went through finaicial probelms.

I made a HUGE mistake e-mailing my husbands mom on how he was always being demanding and always wanting *ex and I was mad that marraige was not the party I expected and many times I was mean to my husband in front of others and in private.

What are godly speical ways to aplogize to my husband and NEVER make those awful choices again?

When you got mad at your spouse what were constrictive mature ways to handle the upsetment you felt ? How gave you come to a place of maturity and grace in your marraige?

2007-05-18 14:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

I am so loney that I feel lost. I have went to the doctor and it's not depression. I am married and my husband has no interest in me. I have tried everything that I have read might help, and nothing works to get his interest. I have tried joining clubs and church activities, and nothing fills the void inside of me. Does anyone have any suggestions ?

2007-05-18 14:44:20 · 15 answers · asked by Suzy-Q 3

2007-05-18 14:42:34 · 27 answers · asked by ms.redd 3

2007-05-18 14:39:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-18 14:36:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-05-18 14:35:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there ever too much???? i think i am into it way too much, like 4 times a day is good,, am i a freak

2007-05-18 14:31:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-18 14:22:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does your spouse?

2007-05-18 14:14:14 · 50 answers · asked by Chad S 2

My wife crys every time I see her and when I ask her whats wrong she just says its me.

We got married about 6 years ago. My routine every day is: Get up at 5am and go to work, catch a bite to eat after work then go out with the guys, home by 1 am and ready for the next day.

At weekends I get up early still (about 6am) and get my fishing gear together and go fishing until about midnight I get home on Sundays.

When I get home my wife is always crying??!!

What on earth is wrong with her? She just says its me, but how can it be me? I'm hardly ever there so it cant be my fault?

What do you think is wrong with her?

2007-05-18 14:01:22 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

SHE SAID IT WAS BECAUCE I FORGOT TO DO THINGS LIKE;HOLD HER HAND AND STUFF LIKE THAT. ALSO THAT SHE IS AFRAID TO OPEN HER HEART BECAUSE SHE DONT THINK I CAN CHANGE.WHAT CAN I DO TO WIN THE LOVE OF MY BEST FRIEND AND WIFE BACK SHE IS MY WORLD MY EVERTHING MY LOVE KNOW WHAT?

2007-05-18 13:59:12 · 21 answers · asked by skapunx_99 1

Okay, I need to know if I'm over exaggerating, my fiance and I are expecting, I'm only like 3 weeks pregnant; in fact, we found out today that it's a stable pregnancy, before we feared it might be a miscarriage. Today he went out to shool billiards with his friends and I didn't want him to go, but I let him go b/c I don't want to seem like the jealous possesive type. Most of his friends are married and w/ kids and he says he'll be home at 11pm... I can't trust him at all no matter how hard I try... He has never given me a reason for me not to trust him, but I just can't b/c I have a bad family history and relationship history, so it all feeds into it. I can't stand that he's out... How can I change that feeling... Or, do I have a right to be upset

2007-05-18 13:58:16 · 8 answers · asked by Karla Marx 3

I am married over 13 years and there are several that are engaged in our church.

My mom is a wonderful person however she did not really give me a good indication what marraige was really like and she never sat down with me and gave me a talk about what marriage would be really like,When I was 9 I approached her with the facts of life I heard from school.

Being engaged is a season in ones life and it is easy to see marraige through "rose colored glasses" meaning thinking marriage will be just like the courtship?

If I am asked what would be good practical and godly advice to tell these couples?

I don't think young couples in church really know what there going up against.

What would be good advice to say to couples or people that wish to marry?

2007-05-18 13:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

im the other guy and i told her husband last night when he called me. i know it was wrong of me for telling but she didnt tell me she was married.do you think a husband can fore give his wife of only 4 months for cheating since day 1 of there marriage?

2007-05-18 13:32:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-18 13:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by ENIGMA VS MYTH 5

I have been separated unofficially from my husband who is a marine (he left us for another woman and moved far) for about 3 yrs and he sent me divorce papers without custody written out so I dont want to sign it. How can I work out getting child support without him seeing my son?

2007-05-18 13:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Ms DeeAnn 5

he looks good and I could easy love him If I chose to. I am afraid he could go back to using and maybe even jail. When he is straight he is so nice ,kind, and considerate. He is the father of my only children. Should I give it a swirl.

2007-05-18 13:27:36 · 7 answers · asked by marym 1

I asked this question in three places (singles and dating, women's studies., and the marriage/divorce category) Why do suppose there was no interest to this question in the marriage/divorce domain and high interest in the other 2?

"Which sincere compliment do women like to hear most from men? State you age and then list the top 2-3 sincere compliments you prefer to hear. By the way, does age matter in what types of compliments are welcome?"

2007-05-18 13:26:29 · 18 answers · asked by Wisdom??? 5

I am deeply in love with my minister. I have been staying at his home. We are not married. No one knows this and I have been feeling tired of sneaking around. He is not married. I have been dating a few other guys. He will not marry me - he said so but I love him so much. What can I do?

2007-05-18 13:26:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-18 13:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by Perlina 2

my wife after 3 children is not at all interested in any approach made my me when it comes to sex it has been like this for a long time now. should i just stop thinking abouy myself and get over it or should i go? i have tried the dinners,flowers,romantic gestures everything what do i do ?

2007-05-18 13:21:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is having his mid life crisis. He decided he needed a Ford Mustang to feel happy. Our marriage has been going south for months and instead of going to counseling like I've repeatedly asked him to do with me, he choose the stupid route. He came home last friday with a brand new ford mustang. He had called me from the dealership and I expressed then my disapproval and I was crying, but he bought it anyway. The worst part is the deal he made. 84 months at 10.25% interest and he rolled 7000 of negative equity into the loan, this is the reason the interest rate is so high. I was livid to say the least. I still am livid. On saturday I made him take the car back and beg the dealership for something less expensive and he comes home with a V6 Mustang instead of a GT. the payment is $100 less than the GT he brought home, but still $125 more than we were paying. We cannot afford this. Plus it is still a 7 yr loan. I don't know what to do. This feels like the end for us.

2007-05-18 13:13:55 · 25 answers · asked by noellemt 3

1: said my belly is getting bigger (not in a very nice way, although at first he tried to pretend he was joking)
2: Said my thighs were bigger than last year.
3: KEEPS on saying I should go to the damn gym.
4: Told me I wasn't going to be happy when I put on a bathing suit.
Ok, a little about me, I'm no pansy, I pretty much told him I was going to beat his *** if he said one more thing about it. (this is after telling him he was hurting my feelings after each thing he said over a week period)
Him: He's basically a nice guy. Really! Not the stereotypical type you'd think of when you hear 'the man is calling his wife fat' bit.
I do webcam online karaoke, I think he's worried about guys looking at me. That's all I can think it might be. (insecurity, unconscious belittling to show I can't do better)
I'm 24, he's 33 (and not the most fit)
What do you think his deal could be?! Is he losing interest? Falling out of love? Any insight at all?

me:
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2007-05-18 13:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by jewelsinme 2

1.To pay bills 2.to get to the next pay check 3.for the weekend 4.to retire, why do we work so much

2007-05-18 13:07:21 · 5 answers · asked by 5XSBCHAMP 1

My friend is having a hard time with her husband and im really concernd about her. He leaves to work two hours early and gets to his house 2 hours late.
They always fight,. One day she told me that she got all glamoured up for when he got home and once he did he looked at her and asked if she was feeling alright because it was 12pm and she was dressed up. She also told me that one day he came home with sparkles on his face

she told me that he had cheated on her before so they moved from mexico to the u.s. to ignore it

she wants to know if anyone thinks he's cheating, because i think he is but since shes my friend i dont want to butt-in

2007-05-18 12:27:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-18 12:12:24 · 40 answers · asked by flipside 1

2007-05-18 11:49:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I"ve been married for 4 years and i have 3 kids which only the youngest is with my husband. My husband has repeatedly hurt me with lies and disseat over the years. A couple of years ago I found out he cheated while I was pregnant. I dont know if he has done it again but I do know he still lies and flirts with women. I have forgivin him for these kinds of actions over a dozen times. 3 weeks ago, I found out about the last lie he told about talking a woman on his cell, I broke up with him. We still live in the house but differnt rooms. I started talking to another guy then and now we are crazy about each other. But my husband is miserable and keeps begging me to be back with him. He doesnt really know about the other guy. However, the other guy wants me to leave my husband for good and be with him. He says he will take care of me and I wont have to worry. He has a very well paying job and two kids of his own the he takes care of. I love my husband and i love my boyfriend. What to do?

2007-05-18 11:44:37 · 38 answers · asked by mrskyesha 2

2007-05-18 11:40:48 · 24 answers · asked by Cynthia P 1