Yes, it is very RISKY for a man to be involved with a woman that cheated on him once. But if she cheated on him twice.....then it is a SLAM-DUNK!
You will save yourself a lot of pain by ending this NOW...today! Just say you can't get over this and it would be best if she got a fresh start with someone else.
With typical chick psychology, they expect to be punished if they get caught cheating. If you don't break up with them, then they lose respect for you at a VERY deep level. To excuse a second infidelity, means she has very little respect for you. Respect yourself and end this now.... You will save yourself a lot of pain later on... And she will respect you for being man enough to dump her. But I fear this advice will be wasted on you because if you are CONSIDERING marrying a woman that has been unfaithful twice to you...then you got problems. Be a man, take control of your life, and end this...
2007-05-18 12:46:57
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answered by Felix 5
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I think that if your girlfriend didnt feel bad for being unfaithful the first time and did it again, she doesnt love you the way you should have someone love you. people get blinded by love and sometimes dont know what the right thing to do is. its so hard to say I love you, but this isnt right. Im not saying to dump her and never speak to her again, if you think she is changed and wont do it again, I would still take some time and see how things go before tieing the knot. you have to be sure that this is the one for you to spend the rest of your life with and to make sure she has this whole cheating thing out of her system. its so hard to trust someone that has done that to you, but like I said love blinds us all as corny as it sounds. think about it hard and make sure she is all about you, if she did it twice...do you in your heart feel like she'll do it while your married?? if you have to think about it than its not the right time for marriage.
2007-05-18 12:20:07
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answered by luvleebabygurl22 2
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What The Hell Do You Think!
Only a FOOL would consider to marry his girlfriend who
has been unfaithful to him twice!
2007-05-19 00:20:42
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answered by Anonymous
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If what you mean by unfaithful is being emotionally or sexually involved with anyone else while you thought the two of you were a couple, then yes, you'd be a fool.
2007-05-18 13:20:28
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answered by SageMother 1
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Not necessarily a fool, just a guy with an unfaithful wife.
2007-05-18 13:22:04
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answered by Gr8estluv 3
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not trying to hurt your feelings.but yes you are a fool to marry a girl who had been unfaithful to you twice. and if you do marry her, than you will never ever be happy anymore. cause you're all worry about is she faithful to you and all that. you just need to married someone else.
2007-05-18 12:16:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Next time has a fling, tell her you want to watch! lol Ask her to bring home a girlfriend for you! You might as well get what you can before you think of marriage. Sorry...honestly, she has not got it out of her system...and maybe you haven't either! Do not marry her at this time! But have some fun!!!
2007-05-18 12:35:11
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answered by not for now 2
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Love forgives everything including unfaithfulness. But she should be ready to make the turn. If she loves you and ready to fix her ways, you could still give her a chance.
2007-05-18 12:31:21
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answered by Bantree 4
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You really should read your question before you post it. I think if you had a brain you could answer it yourself. You won't though. You are going to marry her and then have kids. Then the stupid b*itch is going to leave you for someone else. However, now she is going to take all your money as well. The judge will giver her way more money than it takes to raise a child. You will look back and say, wow I am a fu(king dumb a*ss. You will think of yourself the way I think of you now. Chalk up another life regret my friend. Don't say I didn't warn you. A TIGER DOESN'T CHANGE IT'S STRIPES!!
2007-05-18 12:19:18
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answered by Anonymous
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You would be a fool Only if you think that marriage is going to make the behaviors stop.
You marry her, marry her the way she is. And hon, that's the way she is.
2007-05-18 12:53:52
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answered by Puresnow 6
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