My wife crys every time I see her and when I ask her whats wrong she just says its me.
We got married about 6 years ago. My routine every day is: Get up at 5am and go to work, catch a bite to eat after work then go out with the guys, home by 1 am and ready for the next day.
At weekends I get up early still (about 6am) and get my fishing gear together and go fishing until about midnight I get home on Sundays.
When I get home my wife is always crying??!!
What on earth is wrong with her? She just says its me, but how can it be me? I'm hardly ever there so it cant be my fault?
What do you think is wrong with her?
2007-05-18 14:01:22 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL you are getting what you want a rise out of people just like the first question you asked i think it is funny
2007-05-18 15:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! I hope that you read this and take it to heart. My ex-husband had the same routine as you. Worked all week. Went out with the guys and then fished all weekend. Your wife feels alone. It is hard to love someone so much and them look right over you. You probable didn't mean for this to happen, but it has and you better open up to her and really listen, or I can promise you that she will leave. And if she has been trying to fix this problem for along time and you have ignored her, it may already be too late. This is what happened to me and I never want anyone to go through a divorce. Try to remember why you married her and then remind her why you married her. Women want to feel special!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-05-18 14:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by babybasil06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We got married about 6 years ago. My routine every day is: Get up at 5am and go to work, catch a bite to eat after work then go out with the guys, home by 1 am and ready for the next day.
At weekends I get up early still (about 6am) and get my fishing gear together and go fishing until about midnight I get home on Sundays.
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Yes, it's clearly you. You don't spend time with her. Adjust your routine so you would at least spend time with her. She's your wife GOSH!
2007-05-18 14:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by princess12wannab 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think u "just shot yourself in the foot". what do you mean, what's wrong with her? what's wrong with you? a part of being married means spending time with each other (a wife and her husband). she probably misses you, feels insecure, like you don't love her anymore. you're treating your household like it's some hotel where you can come and go as you please. if that is how you want to live you should've stayed single. whatever is going on between you and your wife it's not going to get better by you playing coward by avoiding the situation. it's okay to have friends and spend time with them, but when it comes at the expense of your marriage, something is wrong. wake up and listen, take a few clues from your wife. listen to her, ask her questions, find out WHY you're the reason for her tears. you two may need counseling. but you definitely need to decide what you want out of this marriage. because acting like nothing is wrong is not going to solve the problem.
2007-05-18 14:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elle M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This lady is your wife. Not only are you in a serious relationship, but you are married. Commitment is a large part of being in a relationship and being married. It sounds like you need to spend more time with your wife. That is the reason she is upset, because you arn't spending enough time with the woman that you love. What is the point in being in a relationship if you don't have time for one? Good luck. I hope eveything works out for both of you. : )
2007-05-18 14:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont start putting some effort and time into this marriage, your wife is going to cry herself straight to the divorce lawyer. Why did you get married if you still wanted to act like your single. Trust me, you keep this up and you'll come home one night and she will be gone and you'll be crying.
2007-05-18 14:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try spending some of that time that your spending with your buddies out drinking or out on the lake with your wife?
She probably didn't realize that you would treat her like that when you guys got married. I would burn my man's fishing gear if he tried to do that to me.
Its okay to go out with your friends SOMETIMES!!!!!! But not everyday. Try taking it down to like once a week.
You might also want to consider why you married your wife. It sounds like you want to be single still.
2007-05-18 14:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem might be the fact you are married and going out till 1 am, then the weekends you get up go do your thing... where does your wife fit in all this? and you two should be out doing things your not single but yet you lead a lifestyle that looks like you are....time to grow up and get your priorities straight.....
2007-05-18 14:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur to you that a woman needs a man around, someone she can talk to, share her thoughts with, someone to be that person who will sit with her, walk with her, laugh with her and cry with her. Your wife probably feels she is in this marriage alone. Spending all your time away from her is only making her feel more isolated and alone. Crying is her relief from probably wondering if you even love her. Tell her you love her and make time for her, otherwise you will not only lose her faith in you, you may lose her love.
2007-05-18 15:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Cinder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even be married?? You clearly don't wanna be home EVER with your wife. Don't be surprised when she hands you the divorce papers. Think about if you flipped this story around and she was the one going out with the girls and never coming home...how would you feel about it?
2007-05-18 14:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by mnmommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋