How long you give a marriage were the woman started dating a other guy a week before she got married?

Question

im the other guy and i told her husband last night when he called me. i know it was wrong of me for telling but she didnt tell me she was married.do you think a husband can fore give his wife of only 4 months for cheating since day 1 of there marriage?

Answer 1

I married my wife ten days after we met. That was eight years ago.

Answer 2

It depends. One could say the marriage never started because she was ready to go out the week before her marriage.

However, one could also say that right before she was going to get married, she decided to have one last fling while it still "didn't count" (a warped way of looking at things, but some people do look at it that way) and she has absolutely no intention what-so-ever of leaving the guy. The marriage could indeed last "until death do them part".

One must really question your motives. What you did was just flat out wrong and I hope it doesn't lead to any serious consequences. You should not have done that, because you don't really know what the entire story is, the person having the affair never knows the whole story. It was very immature of you.

If you had wanted to do the RIGHT thing, you would have told the woman good-bye, that she needed to go back to her husband, and ended it.

Answer 3

Many times people are blinded by Love..Since that woman was willing to be untruthful to you about getting married, she will probably give her husband a big, long excuse about what happened between you two. He'll probably believe her. So, my advise to you is to Forget About that married woman--she is married!! If she actually cheated on her husband with you--then she's a no-good lowlife, and she'd cheat on you when the next hot, young thing comes walking by. Dont be fooled by her charm and beauty: Run As Fast as you Can, and dont become an "adulterer". Do Not Trust that woman.

Answer 4

I t depends on how much they love one one another . Some husband would just tell them not to do it again others tell them to get the fu*k out of my life. Why was her husband calling you? I think that's greats you told her husband . but why? is it because you were feeling bad about her husband or you were just jealous of her being with her husband . why? If she said she is going to leave boyfriend and was going to leave . Why did she married him ? she cheat on her boyfriend/husband you think she wont cheat on you. If he did throw her out of house , she might be mad at you, but she will try to get into your life. only for sex or a place to live. sorry man

Answer 5

well you'd think he'd break up with her but they may one of those marriages where they have a unconventional arrangement, usually it's the husband that cheats and the wife looks the other way in those arrangements but more and more with women gaining power it's the women and the husband has to look the other way. I wouldn't put up with it, but to each their own.

Answer 6

It will be hard to trust a person like that. You have to consider the fact that you may be the other guy now, but you might not be later when the relationship is serious. Take that into consideration when dealing with a person like her.

Answer 7

It wont last long at all, she violated her marriage, and she will probably be kicked to the curb...and as the other guy I wouldnt trust her, shes a cheat... no two ways about it...you dont need that drama.....

Answer 8

My brother got married in August - found out she was cheating before and during - um - they are divorced now and she is back in Germany...

Answer 9

I think you were on here earlier...you must be hurt. It was just a week give it up and stop thinking about her. You need to get over it.

Answer 10

You did the right thing. I wouldn't want to stay with her after being unfaithful, and if I were you I wouldn't want to be with her ever again. She is nothing but a hussy.