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Marriage & Divorce - 9 May 2007

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Last night after I got off work I went home and told my husband I didnt feel the same way about him as he did me. Sunday we talked about trying one more time and this time he was really going to try. But I can barely kiss him and touch him, or let him touch me. I told him I wasnt happy and that I couldnt be with him anymore. He spent $500 last month on speakers for his car that he wants to get rid of and then I found a condom in the washer and he swears on our son that he didnt cheat on me. But today he calls me crying that he doesnt want us to get a divorce. I didnt want to hurt him but I had to get out. Now I feel like theres been a wait lifted off my shoulders but I also feel horible for what I did.

2007-05-09 06:58:35 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4

I love my husband, my best friend. Sometimes I feel like we are just that...friends. I have suspected in the past that he has been unfaithful, but I have no proof. Last year I had one of those women's intuition moments and I had to ask him, because in my gut I knew already. He got a bit angry and denied everything of course. He's a bit emotionally & physically neglectful of me, so now I'm more worried about my fidelity than his. I have a friend online with whom I have grown to love. He is sweet, family oriented, and seems understanding. He wants to move to my city soon and I'm scared. I have no intention on physically cheating, although I have already done that emotionally. But I am afraid that I will be unable to deny our connection. He claims to love me, and my intuition tells me he does. But I also believe he will never give fully until I am free. I know he has told another woman he loves her too(online) He doesn't know that I know. Whatever his intentions I owe myself some clarity

2007-05-09 06:53:02 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband had become very cold and is always on the computer. He always clears the history after he has been on it.
I think that he is cheating on me. Is there a way I can find out where he has been on the computer? Any advice would be really appreciated!:)

2007-05-09 06:36:13 · 60 answers · asked by tina c 1

2007-05-09 06:24:06 · 41 answers · asked by Whiskey Tango Foxtrot 4

My byf & I are 7 mo strong now. We have had an up & down time, but we are very good & want to plan a future. The downs have been greater then the ups lately & decisions that have been made are not regreted but not turning out the way we would have hoped either. I do not feel as though the decisions were made in favor of our relationship & since it all started, it's been one thing after another causing my byf & I have alot less time with one another. Tonight, he's coming for dinner - something we miss doing together. It's a gorgeous day - so I want to take a walk afterwards & I know he'll like that too, but should I use this time to talk about our choices and things ongoing or do I set it aside and try and just enjoy our time together & let issues build & distance grow?

2007-05-09 06:21:09 · 31 answers · asked by martiek7 3

He gets his and then its overwith and it only lasts usually about 2 minutes. i don't know how to talk to him about this and I don't wanna cheat, but there is this at work I'm attracted to who is having relationship problems and we vibe, I just don't want either one of us to get caught in a volitle situation.

2007-05-09 05:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by mlilmonica53 1

Does anyone have any general knowledge or statistics on this? I'm wondering just how strong a committed relationship or marriage can be going forward when they began as an extramarital affair. It would seem to me that whether one or both has been deceitful with their own spouses during the affair, they can't very well trust one another afterward. Also, does not the lingering guilt make the new relationship have a strike against it from the start. I can't imagine being very happy knowing I'd taken someone away from their family for my own selfish needs. But maybe that's just me.

2007-05-09 05:51:23 · 6 answers · asked by joe friday's grrl 2

i was snooping which i shouldnt have been doing and i found an envelope with 5 letters from some girl named sondra they said stuff like meet me here at blah blah time and dont tell your wife and i hope ur wife didnt find out about our date and ill be the one in the sexy dress with no underware ill signed sexy sondra and other bad things what should i do dont want to get in trouble for cheating and i dont even know if he is but i dont want to let him get away with it if he is he doesnt seem like that kinda person but thats kinda cold hard eveidence

2007-05-09 05:47:24 · 35 answers · asked by lill a 1

I will tell you why i should be. I had a one night stand about a year ago and just found out I fathered a child from this. My first reaction was there was no way I was the father because I had a vasectomy about 2 years ago, but we had a DNA test done and yep it is mine. Now you would think I would be happy cause now I can sue the doctor for malpractice. Easy payday right??? Wrong!!! I can't sue because that would mean I would have to tell my wife I was unfaithful. Talk about if it wasn't for back luck I'd have no luck at all

2007-05-09 05:40:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that my husband was opening profiles for sex dating sites in our area. He looks at porn abiut 20 times a day. The porn part is fine..i guess...but the fact hat he opened up a personal profile & put info about him and what he wanted in a woman for sex. Said married for a year & looking for a one time sex fling in my area. include your phone #.....it got in detail personally about him self. I want to leave him because of what hes done but hes leaving for a iraq fora year and i dont want to upset him while hes there because of the dangerous mission hes on. What should i do??

2007-05-09 05:37:21 · 83 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

One night while sleeping. (I had a cold and took some meds) my husband had sex with me while I was sleeping. I have not been able to get over this. We are currently seperated and I am thinking of divorce. I am in counseling and on depression med. There are other things in the relationship that are problematic. IE: bills, trust. I know in my heart I should move on. This is marriage #2. Any advice? Thoughts?

2007-05-09 05:21:26 · 31 answers · asked by sadgirl 1

Ok i have been married for going on a year. I am wanting to plan a romantic event for me and my wife because i feel as if she deserves it. The only problem is, we arent made of money. I am a soldier in the US Army, which equals poverty...LOL Well my question is, what can i do that doesnt cost an arm and a leg...like what resturants are beautiful but not expensive, or any other ideas like romantic parks or stuff around Georgia. Thanks

2007-05-09 05:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Rick R 2

Im tired of the sex with my husband, it's always the same. i have the best sex with my lover(we dont' love each other). but can i find another love that i won't be tired of having sex with? Or is every marriage like this? i've been married for 5 years and Im so bored and depressed.....

2007-05-09 05:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by Top Contributor 2

I don't want to be rude but I have at least one of my ex's family members call me and ask how our son is and if I can work things out with my ex. They always say he is really sorry and he will be better next time, but I know he won't. They must think that if they ask enough then I will give in. How should I deal with them it has been months of this. his parents are older and I don't want to be rude.

2007-05-09 05:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

i have given up everything i was going to school had to quite he was causing to many prolbems i had to quite my job and look for another one. i have a lawyer but i still feel like i Losing to him and I tired of giving in to him. He comes and goes as he pleases and yet I feel like I am a prisioner in my parents home any advice?

2007-05-09 04:49:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been together for going on 2 years now and I work alot while she is a stay at home mom for our two kids. My question is with me working so much sometimes i forget to mention to her how good she looks or how the house looks when I come home. This really upsets her to the point we fight about it. Could this be the signs of a problem or am I in the wrong for forgetting?

2007-05-09 04:34:04 · 22 answers · asked by McAnik 1

2007-05-09 04:26:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I were having a few drinks last night, our neighbour popped in and started drinking with us. All was good, the kiddies were playing and the night was great until the neighbour tried to hit on me...I told my guy straight away so he confronted the neighbour...he (of course) denied it and called his wife out to hear my (outrageous) accusation. She said he's never done this before....earlier on in the evening he made some rude comment about a woman passing by...he was also touching my arm alot and trying to sing a love song to me...ugh! This morning I am soo embarrassed by the whole episode....now I want to hide but, we all live in the same building....I even help his wife with their newborn son....how can I get over the whole embarrassing event and why do I feel so awful for it? He should be the one in hiding, not me.

Have any other women (or men) ever had this happen and how did you deal with it? It's very uncomfortable for me. I want to move but we can't.

2007-05-09 04:25:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-09 04:23:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has been calling and talking to phone sex operators. Everytime I catch him we fight about it and he promises he won't do it again. Last time it happened I packed up my things to leave, he got upset and told me it wouldn't happen again. I swore to him if he did it again I would leave for good, no maybe about it. Yesterday I found out that while I was at the doctor last week and he was home with our kids he called again. Last night I told him that we were getting a divorce and he said no. He refuses to talk about the situation. He swears that it has nothing to do with me. I ask him if he isn't attracted to me and he says thats not true. I am devestated by this and I don't know whether I am over-reacting and should just let it go or whether I should take it serious. Please be respectful in your responses, this problem has put me into a state of depression and I am tired of letting it ruin my life. Please help. Any advice would be much appreciated.

2007-05-09 04:23:07 · 33 answers · asked by Jennifer E 2

I am sorry to say that our engagement has been broken. We have established that we are just not compatible, and it's best to move on.

I told her I would like the ring back and she complied. It is pretty expensive, appraised at $4500 and I paid a little over $2000 for it.

Where is a place I can get the most money for it? I think a pawn shop would rip me off pretty good, I have no idea where to sell expensive jewelry.

2007-05-09 04:19:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean seriously, we're not talking personality here, most of you know what I'm referring to. Is it something thats done, or more visual, what is it that has you thinking about us night and day and pretty much putty in our hands as opposed to just another girl?

2007-05-09 04:18:31 · 10 answers · asked by Angie 1

were you hurt by your serpartion or divorce?

2007-05-09 04:12:27 · 3 answers · asked by ALLOVER 1

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