Marriage & Divorce - 9 May 2007

So I have asked alot of questions lately regarding a man I have been seeing who lives 90 min. away. Long story short, I think he is afraid of having a relationship and the last time we spent the weekend together, I referred to us as 'just screwing' or FWB and he seemed offended.

I am a single mother of 4 and he has no kids - our lives are very different. I was in his town last weekend and he called and we talked but he never came to see me. I just figured I would write him off but then he txt as soon as I was home trying to make sure I arrived ok. Had I seen him, I was prepared to tell him that I had lied when I told him that all he meant to me was sex ( was insecure and trying to protect myself so I didn't admit to having more feelings.) I txt him yesterday saying I had hoped I would see him so we could talk and asked him to give me a call.....I have heard nothing. Not sure if I freaked him out and he is avoiding it or what..our mutual friend says he is crazy about me but imature

2007-05-09 15:02:19 · 16 answers · asked by Clarissa 4

How do you know when your divorce is done with? I recieved stamped copies from the courthouse saying request to enter default everythings checked signed and dated but nothing else that is. It was dated as recieved on April 11th and then signed by a judge on may 2nd. Hmmmm?

2007-05-09 14:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by hos_man71 1

My wife and I have been married for a long time. We have 3 kids with the youngest being 14. She has been having an on again off again affair with a guy out of state. She keeps saying nothing is going on and then once or twice a year off she goes. She claims that nothing is going on, but I know better. Seems to be no end in sight. Do love her, even though she seems to be the best liar in the world, so she thinks.

2007-05-09 14:50:14 · 43 answers · asked by tvgilbert 2

I have been married for 27 years. My husband has hit the dreaded "mid-life" crisis. He is a mess. Confused about staying or going, his life in general, his choices, etc. Any guys out there know how long this goes on and the best way to help him through it?

2007-05-09 14:47:22 · 11 answers · asked by greysannatomyfan 2

I have been in a relationship with my married boss for 3 years. He has kids and claimes that his marriage is over, but he can't pull the trigger because of his kids. I resisted for a while then effed up and believed him. He claims that I'm the love of his life but that he can't leave. I am expecting nastiness and I can handle it. I never would have gotten involved if I didn't think he would leave. I didn't initiate the relationship, but I know that doesn't matter. What do you think?

2007-05-09 14:33:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and having an affair with a guy for three years. We are back and forth and I want to leave my husband for him but it will take time. In the meantime, he wants still to see me but in the meantime, I found out that he's put a profile on online dating sites. Does he really want to be with me in the future or am I just getting played?

2007-05-09 14:30:50 · 25 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

(this is while we were dating)

2007-05-09 14:16:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are married to a women and you love her very much why do you still want to look at half naked or naked porn why do you want to go to strip clubs and why must you tell your wife every time you see a hot chick. Is your wife not good enough for you. Please I want for real answers Thanks

2007-05-09 14:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by Cat 3

it has been almost a year since we've broken up. Why does it still hurt?

2007-05-09 13:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1

I'm doing a Science Fair Project in my Chemistry class and I want to do it on the Zodiac compatibility. Please answer the following questions...

1. What's your Zodiac sign?
2. What's your spouse's/partner's sign?
3. How old are you?
4. How old is your spouse/partner?
5. How long have you been married/in relationship?
6. Do you believe that horoscopes are accurate? (like compatibility of different signs)
7. Where do you live? (you don't have to be specific, general information is just fine.)

Thank you! And congratulations to all the happy couples out there. You're lucky to have found the person you want to spend your life with, and I wish you a long and happy marraige! <(^_^)>

2007-05-09 13:45:40 · 17 answers · asked by jesusfreak_200513 2

Does anyone ever feel like they've fallen out of love? I know everyone has problems, but this is the first time in 4 years I have felt like I just don't want to see my husband, talk to him or spend any time alone with him. We've had our problems and I am a very passionate person, he isn't. Doesn't expect anything and doesn't really like responsibility. He tells me he loves me everyday, but is never romantic and never has meaningful conversations with me. Am I just bored? I'm scared that I am falling out of love with him.

2007-05-09 13:37:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I WANT TO ASK HER TO MARRY ME ON OUR 1ST YEAR ANNIVERSARY. WHAT DO YOU THINK. SHOULD I ?

2007-05-09 13:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by Steve E 2

I spent $24K on a divorce settlement in Virginia that my former husband ignores. How can I get help enforcing it except by going to an attorney?

2007-05-09 13:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by philoqueena 1

Growing old alone and dying alone sounds horrible and not giving parents grandchildren is unbearable for me.

2007-05-09 13:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I usually get a card, gift or something, but not this year. After staying together for 4 years of marriage (and 2 before that) I think that's pretty special, but I guess she doesn't. She said she just forgot and was too busy. She takes care of our 1 year old, and works like 2 nights a week part time as a waitress, and sometimes once or twice during the day doing plant care for her friends. I work 40 hours or more every week, and had the time to get her a card, present and planned a fun evening going out to dinner and the drive-in movie. Is she sick of me (although she tells me she loves me and misses me all the time, calls everyday, etc)? Is she seeing someone else? I thought the women were supposed to make a big deal out of the anniversary, and the men forget. WTF is wrong here? She's angry a lot too, and I feel like a got to kiss her *** all the time. Any advice, please. Is this a sign, or am I exaggerating?

2007-05-09 13:19:25 · 14 answers · asked by way_NE14a69? 1

2007-05-09 12:46:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jammie_♥ 4

The whole story:
My friend Lydia's parents are getting divorced, soon. She's been going to the school bathroom often, and I can hear her crying. Everyone has said, "tell her that 6 out of 10 couples get divorce, so that she knows she's not the only one who's going through this. But do you have some original ideas or stories that I might use to get her to calm down? This would mean so much to her, and to me.

2007-05-09 12:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by SoccerGirl 1

I have been dating this guy for 3 months and found out he was married. I really want to tell his wife, but I am unsure how to do it, or what his or her retaliation might be.

By the way, I am pregnant with twins, they are his.

2007-05-09 12:36:57 · 24 answers · asked by beccacyclonette 1

Ok so, About three months ago i broke up with my long term boyfriend because he was ignoring me, treating me like ****, and taking drugs so i left, we then hardly spoke for 2 months I found out he was sleeping (not in a relationship) with someone else and hitting the drugs really badly after i left. Now he wants to start again he has moved away from the drugs and says he needs me as a friend so i went over his new house for 4 days in that time we slept together told eachother how much we are in love he even cried when we made love for the first time again, so the thing is i love him so much but I'm not ready to go through all this again if he is just gonna crush me all over again do you guys out there think i should be doing this?

2007-05-09 12:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by Hayley C 1

2007-05-09 12:32:01 · 10 answers · asked by riley young 1

my wife and i had an arguement and she was so angry she went to the lawyer and filed for divorce. Now she has come back to her senses and wonder why she done that in the first place. The lawyer has sent the papers off to the court for approval of the court. We just want to know what the implication is and what impact will that be at the home office.

i been a party has not signed anything. i just want to know what the implication is. Does the court have to approve it for it to be effective. Pls help solve this appropriately and clearly if u can thanks

2007-05-09 12:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by discover 2

2007-05-09 12:02:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an ex and we have children together. He forces me to deal with her and she is rude, condensending and tries to undermine me as their mother. But she calls me inconsiderate, selfish and manipulative because I refuse to deal with her. What do I do about it?

2007-05-09 11:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

You men out there, who have been married for 5+ AND are still happy with your companion. I have a question for you.

What qualities/personality traits in her keeps you happily loving her, even years and years later, despite the occasional dis-agreement or argument? I'm so curious to know.

2007-05-09 11:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father's Will states that all his estate goes to his children. He was married for 4 years. The house was paid for 3 years ago. The wife did not work. What rights does she have as far as the house goes? Can she stay there or can she be forced out?

2007-05-09 11:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by holly1wood2004 1

I married my husband because he's genuine, kind, funny,laid back, etc... and he's great w/ kids. Latley, he's been grouchy and distant and just kind assholey all around. I haven't changed a bit, but I'm about to. I told him that if he didn't stop being an asshole, he could go be one somewhere else. I know that having 2 children under 5, more bills and more work probably has something to do w/ it. But I don't believe he's the cheating kind, I think he's just in a rut. What should I do? I love him, but his behavior is unacceptable and will not tolerate it.

2007-05-09 11:23:28 · 9 answers · asked by Robin S 1

i am very sensual person and i do not want to cheat on him is this normal? i even got into Adult chats to keep me satified, i know that may be cheating too, i do not know what to do.

2007-05-09 11:20:21 · 34 answers · asked by Soledad 1

I was put in an awful situation before (twice) by husband,(I have spoken on here about it before, and had some really great support from everyone,but havent had courage to leave.) Ive spoken to him about it and he said that he was wrong! but he wont promise he wont put me in the same situation again! He does think that I should have forgotten about it, as he admitted he shouldnt have done it.(he cant cope with being wrong!!!)
We have a memorial service to go to this week for hubbys ex boss that Ive known for nearly 40 yrs,but the female collegue will be there. I wanted to go until I thought that she will be there & probably be all cosey with hubby. She will probably do it deliberately,she has before,she knows Im getting over total breakdown. I told husband I didnt know if I could go, he just said, "oh well thats upto you". When I said that I was worried I would be put in bad situ again he just looked at me! He thinks Im the one in the wrong! Any ideas on how to go & stay strong

2007-05-09 11:18:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-09 10:58:06 · 6 answers · asked by michael j 1

2007-05-09 10:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous