(this is while we were dating)
2007-05-09 14:16:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
after reading thru your other questions, i don't think you should marry anyone at all.
2007-05-09 14:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Made You Look 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry her and you slept with the sister?You did not love her when you were sleeping with her sister Instead of thinking of marriage,think about trust and the lie you have been living.You should tell her so she can stop wasting her time on you and find someone that will really love and respect her.You should take the time to find out what real love is all about before you try to marry anyone.
2007-05-09 16:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by junior1108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't you will carry this secret forever and it will eat at you. Your fiance deserves the right to know what you did so she can make a decision as to whether she wants to marry a a man who could do such a thing. I wouldn't personally. But if you don't tell her I would assume you would hide more things as you are married. Do you understand what a commitment is and the base that you don't screw your combined family interests. Not a really good start to a relationship. Tell her. She will probably lose you and should.
2007-05-09 14:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have each and every precise to be uncertain. The creep lied to you and you entered a marriage no longer understanding any of this rubbish had befell! it somewhat is sturdy that he informed you via fact he felt it grew to become into unfair to you, yet lady, in case you're doubting and not feeling precise, no person ought to hate you in case you do no longer desire to stay. in case you could;t discover it on your heart to settle for that, you do what's precise for you. He in basic terms have been given you via fact he saved a large secret from you. He slept together with her on a similar time as with you. You sound like a great lady, you deserve better.
2016-10-31 00:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by castronova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definitely tell her. It will one day come out in the future and it will be worse. If you truly love her explain to her that this is something from the past, that you only want her, that you are sorry, etc. Once she knows you don't ever have to worry about it coming back to haunt you.
2007-05-09 14:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by samcj2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things are left unsaid.
IF it happened once and it is over and both of you regret it and don't want anything to do with one another again.
Keep that secret to yourself. There is no need for your gf to have to deal with that pain of knowing that two people that she loved betrayed her.
2007-05-09 14:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you slept with her sister and now trying to marry you need to get a grip yeah tell her she needs to know about it that is wrong if your not the one to tell her and she finds out other ways she is going to be pissed
2007-05-09 14:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you tell her your more then likely going to lose her, but if you don't tell her and she finds out you might lose your then also. I would just tell her, and see what happens. The truth always comes out, better you tell her then someone else.
2007-05-09 14:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lovemykids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, unless you think her sister is going to blab about it. because if she finds out she will surely leave you, better to get left by a gf than to get divorced
2007-05-09 14:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to know if she slept with anyone while with her.the sister will end up telling her in years to come i promise your screwed twice!
2007-05-09 14:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by STALKER BLOCK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage should be open and honest, but I doubt her answer will be yes when you tell her. Shouldda kept it in your pants.
2007-05-09 14:49:38 · answer #11 · answered by Rav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋