Why do husbands???

Question

If you are married to a women and you love her very much why do you still want to look at half naked or naked porn why do you want to go to strip clubs and why must you tell your wife every time you see a hot chick. Is your wife not good enough for you. Please I want for real answers Thanks

Answer 1

This is how your husband is, many husbands are not this way.

He needs a wake up call. Make him realize what he has and all that other stuff could never replace the person that you are.

He may have friends that are bad influences, he needs to stay away from them.

He's married now he needs to re-proiritize his life and become a man.

Answer 2

It's how we're programmed. We're visual creatures. 150,000 years of evolution has created it. Of COURSE we like looking at beautiful women. Men can separate sex (or a sexual response) from emotion; women have a much harder time doing that.

But that's not an excuse for the type of behavior you describe.

It sounds like your guy is partaking in those activities INSTEAD of doing things with you (sexual or otherwise). If he, like most men, enjoys an occasional peek at a topless woman or hits a strip club once a year, there is absolutely nothing wrong, and the issue is with you my dear. Heck, many WOMEN enjoy this type of thing, too. Lighten up... your sex life and emotional intimacy can only benefit. And these occasional (and healthy) things are NEVER a threat to a good relationship...in fact, sometimes they can help.

But if you're being replaced by unrealistic fantasies, then get this issue cornered quickly... you both could be in serious trouble. Sounds like this guy has some issues with commitment.

Answer 3

hmmmm
well i am a man and i watch porno at times but telling your wife that u saw a hot woman and goto strip clubs ?, let keep it real going to a strip club lets say once in a couple of years is not a problem or if he takes u with him is not that bad but if he goes every week then it's a problem also u did not say his age that too is a factor if he is in his 20s then it explain alot, another thing is that is trying to get a reaction from u. and lets say i would go to a strip club and i only go once in a couple of years i would not menthion it because its isolated.

Answer 4

Being 100percent man and being 100percent
husband ; I could not relate to your asking as I
love my wife very much , and I do not look at
half or total naked women, and I do not go to strip
clubs, why becasue I have grown out of that and
my wife pleases me more than any pictures or
strip joints. Married over 20yrs and she is the only
one for me, and no-one can replace her.

Answer 5

there's nothing wrong with looking at a good looking person, but if his eyes wander to half naked, fake looking, bimbos (and most of them I don't necessarily consider good looking), then there's a problem. He's got an eye for skanks.

Answer 6

It is just the excitement of seeing someone else. It isn't cheating to look.

I tell my husband everytime I see a good looking man. I never sneak to see them, I am very open with it.

Why can't WOMEN see that it is normal to appreciate looking as long as you don't touch.

Answer 7

Haha!I think its cause thier not sasifide (cant spell)..

Haha.. they dont see what they truley have..

Some women cant be as beauty as they want to be but yeh

Answer 8

Just because your on a diet doesnt mean you cant look at the menu.

Answer 9

men are visual. if you see a nice vase on a counter, you want to look at it right? they see a nice looking girl, and they want to look at her

Answer 10

he is with you......god women take this too seriously