it has been almost a year since we've broken up. Why does it still hurt?
2007-05-09 13:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's normal to feel sad for a while after a loss, especially one with deep emotional ties. Time heals. Acknowledge your feelings as they are and let them pass.
Personal story: Sometimes I feel sad about my ex and we broke up a few years ago. It needed to happen, but it's a loss regardless. It took a good year to not feel so deeply sad, everyday became less and less. The only thing I could to was give it time.
2007-05-09 14:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by mrs. lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't something u just get over. I mean TRUE LOVE. So yea it may take some time to get over that person. But try ur best to not think of him. So, yea I know it still hurts, and it may take years to get over him or u probbably won't. But u have to make urself want to get over him if not then the longer u take to heal the more ur heart weeps.
2007-05-09 21:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by ღStarzzღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's VERY normal. You and your ex- spent a lot of good times together, and about this time you've forgotten all the mess the two of you made of your relationship, so you think of all of the good things
So be patient, and try and keep things in perspective.
2007-05-09 20:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. How long were you together? It's helpful to get a little angry at why you had to leave, and by now, you ought to be out there trying to find a nice new guy.
2007-05-09 21:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal if you weren't the one that wanted the break up.....you have to take charge of your life with your head and your heart will follow.....get busy, make a bunch of new friends....go live your life to the fullest! It will get easier if you allow it to and choose to move on with your life and be happy.
2007-05-09 20:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he break up with you??? If so, then you might not of wanted to break up and that's why it still hurts because you were hoping to be with this guy...and can't
2007-05-09 20:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋