2007-05-09 04:26:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not to deal with them at all, they never change and your life will be miserable while she is alive.
2007-05-09 04:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There really is no way to deal with them. There going to be a mama's boy until she is no longer with us. The best thing to do is take care of him the best way you can and if that's not good enough then move on.
2007-05-09 11:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. I say that sincerely. That's the best way to deal with a mamas boy.
Note the word "boy" in mamas boy. If you're not married to him, run. If you're married to him, unfortunately, you chose to marry a boy who may not ever grow up to be a man or reach manhood. You can become manipulative and do this and do that, but while he's growing up, you're going through his childhood with him. I don't think you really want to do that. You want a "man", not a boy. Good luck.
2007-05-09 12:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Worker Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Understand that he has and always will be treated as the best thing to ever happen to this world by his MOM. That's what he has grown to expect from any woman in his life. He always needs to be the most important person in a woman's world. He loves him Mom (as he should) and hopefully he will continue to put her first in every aspect of his life as she has done with him. There is no changing a TRUE Mama's boy. . . give it up.
2007-05-09 12:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Drew's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become his Mama's Girl!!
Can you forget and cut your relationship with yor parents fully - if not you got no right to call a Boy Mama's Boy!!
You expect the Boy to cut off his relationship with his folks but you would not ie basically want the boy to join your family and be your and your folk's doormats
2007-05-10 10:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's a mama's boy and tell him that infront of everyone else. Compare him to someone you know who is not a mama's boy and let him see the difference between one and one who's not. Tell him an adult man who is not attached to his mama's apron string does not need to refer to his mama for each and everything he does in his life........now that he is an adult.
2007-05-09 12:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you learn to manipulate Mama.
You can catch more flays with honey, so be sweet to Mama and be her Girl too.
Or just leave the Mama's boy, see a good lawyer.
2007-05-09 11:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, leave him with his Mama and find someone who is a man not a boy.
2007-05-09 11:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by m2little 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't even want to get involved with one. I did and it was terrible. How a grown man can be so up his Mother is pitiful. It will cause you nothing but heartache as long as you love him. I was always number 2 in his life and she knew it, she held the purse strings and he jumped when she said jump. Men who can't leave Mother behind are still boys, they haven't even started to grow up yet, so if you choose to be with one you better be prepared for all the crap that comes along with it.
2007-05-09 11:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! You'll never be good enough for her son anyway and the mammas are the ones making his decisions, you might think they all come from him but they don't, the're her ideas and decisions... and seriously will he ever take the true responsiblities of life on himself and deal with them or will she keep fixing everything like she always has?!
2007-05-09 11:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't...I have been married to a mama's boy for 91/2 years...It will get better with time!!!
2007-05-09 11:45:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋