Marriage & Divorce - 24 April 2007

2007-04-24 09:02:53 · 21 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

my husband had a female friend. that would text him all the time & call him 20+ times a day. i had a problem with it, but he said it was just a friendship. well my mother ended up in hte hospital on life support and every time we would have to go the hospital she would call & tell him good morning & she would call while we were at the hospital. to make a long story short. i had to take her off the ventalator. that was a thursday night that saturday i walked down to talk to my husband where we have our dogs & could not find him so i walked around the garage & found him talking to this lady & i freeked out on her & him. the following tuesday was her funeral. & after the services & the lunchen we were all standing outside & this lady just just lives down the block from the church. she called my hubdand & i found out by looking towrds her house & made a complete *** out of myself infront of my family & now my husband has told her to leave him alone, but she wont stop any suggestions

2007-04-24 09:02:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-24 09:01:17 · 30 answers · asked by Ashers 1

Does it ever work out for the long run when you get married at like 19 - 20 - 21?

I'm not asking for myself.... I want to read happy love stories! :)

No negative answers please!

2007-04-24 09:00:20 · 34 answers · asked by ♥Ashley 5

I mean you hear of people cheating for whatever reason, how can you really besure that your spouse will not cheat.

2007-04-24 08:55:25 · 23 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

have sex in a marriage? What is the average number per week?

2007-04-24 08:50:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been married since i was 16 years old and now im 19 years old and still married.
my husband is making my life a living hell.he refuse to let me work.one day i told him i was about to go look for a job and he told me if i did that then he would have the locks change when i come back and i would be unable to get in.so i changed my mind about looking for a job because i have no other home but my marital home and i dont want to be living on the street or in the subway.right now im on school trying to get my G.E.D. my husband is very mean and sometimes if i do something he dont like then he will take stuff from me like the modem to our pc so that i cant access the internet.and right now he is planning on cutting up my shoes because he dont like them.i have no money no bank account nothing to my name i have no money.i have no family.i have no friends and noone to help me out.should i just find a guy to live with and pay him rent by giving him sex?
im hopeless and dont have any options!

2007-04-24 08:50:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll appreciate any kind of response just to keep my mind and fingers busy, so i don't get overwhelmed by the hurt and do something stupid.. i have a 3 yr old son to think of..
I found out bout his affair bout 1 and half years ago so he confessed right there that their relationship was over and we both decided 2 try 2 make our marriage work again after seeing a counsolor. We both tried, I prayed and forgave him, and it was so hard 2 trust again. He tried 2 b accountable everywhere he went, but recently he stopped calling and smsing his whereabouts. Instead he's been coming home later and later, and he is very defensive and evasive. I stumble across porn vids (recently bought), reciepts to movies I've never seen etc. Tonight I found out his ex-gf been sending love letters, thanking him 4 being there 2 support her, waiting for him 2 join her. If I talk 2 him he might get violent, I wan 2 leave but will the court grant me custody if i leave the marital home 1st? Can our marriage b saved?

2007-04-24 08:47:26 · 28 answers · asked by Psalmycat 1

home from work,

2007-04-24 08:45:53 · 17 answers · asked by Tony T 4

My husband has horrible breath. I have tried subtle hints all the way down to flat out telling him SEVERAL times. But apparently he DOES NOT care. He tells me I am being rude and hurting his feelings, but damn...I can't stand to be in the car with him without the window being down. How can I get through to him???

2007-04-24 08:41:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone know the cheapest way to go about getting test done. My huband knows that he may not be the father but this is really disturbing me and i want to even though my husband says he doesn't care that its his child no matter what and loves him.

2007-04-24 08:38:46 · 37 answers · asked by Tina C 2

ok my best friend is wit a married man and his gettin dirvoced and all but, my bestfriend is pregnant by him, she wants to know if they can get married wit his dirvoce not bein finallized, in any state?

2007-04-24 08:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by aj j 1

He's in his late 20's, met a woman three weeks ago, they've seen each other every day since and now she's moving in. What can I say to him to convince him this is a bad idea?

He's had his heart broken so many times already! I have a feeling she's only moving in because she had nowhere else to go.

2007-04-24 08:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been 7 years. No kids. Life with him is kinda non eventful. I feel like its time. Sometimes i feel like i just wanna keep it the way it is. I am little skeptical, but I feel like I don't wanna go out there again and play the field again. Am I the only one?

2007-04-24 08:24:03 · 12 answers · asked by asianbeauty 1

This is an email my hubby wrote to a girl that he was friends with when he was little . he also carried her pic arround til just this year . i read it and got at him ... am i over reactin?


Hey, how's it going? Great I hope! Were doing great! I am now working 60-70 hours/week because Jenn can't work... so it's going to be rough... It's hard to believe we both have kids now... and you have 3 and soon I will have 2..!! Seems just like yesterday we were on your back deck and just sitting around talking... or when I liked you when we were little and I wrote you a love letter and gave you a piece of gum w/ it and your parents saying your diabetic so you couldn't accept it...lol!! Things have changed so much! Or how about the time... me, you & Jimmy walked to Wilco for something for a church... or midnight bowling... I miss those times! You never really think about it while its happening.... but later on you wish you could just re-live some of your childhood memories... Well, I gtg...tt

2007-04-24 08:14:58 · 29 answers · asked by MADDYSMOMMY 2

2007-04-24 07:53:53 · 18 answers · asked by Jay 4

Or long term partner. It's been 2 and a half months for me. I'm "flippin' out," he seems fine with it. When would you start getting angry/frustrated?

2007-04-24 07:45:19 · 36 answers · asked by gail s 1

2007-04-24 07:35:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out that she has a secret myspace page, and only one she seems to communicate with is her ex-boyfriend. I also recently found some pictures of another guys penis in her cell phone. She has much game, pretending like nothing's going on by deliberately talking to each other on the phone in my presence. We have all been friends for years. That is the biggest trick if you ask me. Please help.

2007-04-24 07:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by floopy 1

Okay, so I was just in a chat room where a bunch of women proceeded to tell me how they are swingers, and that I have unrealistic views of marriage because my husband and I want to be faithful to each other.

We are both Christians and believe that lust is a form of adultery. So he strives to not even look at another woman lustfully. That doesn't mean we don't "notice" attractive people. But we don't lust over them, or think of them sexually.

We aren't perfect, but we sure do strive to please each other, and love each other faithfully. Not only for ourselves, but for God.

Anyway, romance to us is being committed and devoted to ONE. To not even look lustfully at others. Not even a guy or girl on a magazine.

The people I was talking to thought I was nuts and honestly, it was sad. I just wanna hear from some other men or women that think this way in their marriage and truly, deep down, don't want to think about or have sex with other people. That love is worth fighting for.

2007-04-24 06:56:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i go to bed i can hear him. when i sneak into the room he stops. i also hear him to her about sex and other things.

i am very upset and would like to know why he would this. i have confronted him but he got very offenseive when i mentioned it.

2007-04-24 06:52:38 · 3 answers · asked by sugar 1

A couple years ago I found out my wife was cheating. She hadn't had sex with the guy but had been considering it and we almost split up. Since then we've moved on and I thought it was behind us. I haven't completely trusted her though and have occasionally checked her email. Last week I found that she had slept with a guy at a conference and is now in email contact with him to continue this. I feel bad that I violated her privacy by checking her email but I also am upset that she is doing this and not sure what to do about it. How should I confront her and what should I do? I love her and I can't imagine not being with her, but I'm also very hurt by this and if she's done it a couple times I'm not sure I could trust her to not do it again in the future.

2007-04-24 06:51:46 · 39 answers · asked by hocky_player2005 1

I started seeing my boyfriend shortly after he'd come out of a year and a half relationship. He and his ex didn't have much contact and that seemed fine with everyone. Its now 6 months into it and she's started contact. Alot. She'll email him a few times a week, they recently met up to give each other old stuff back and ended up going for a drink and catch up. She's since been intouch and mentioned atleast three times how great it was to see him and when can they meet up again?

I would love to have been friends with my ex who meant a lot to me, so half of me understands why they might want to keep in contact...i can rationalise all i want, but bottom line is it bothers me!

If I bring it up he gets annoyed and defensive and makes me feel like i'm being jealous and unreasonable. Maybe I am, I just want him to be abit sensitive and understand that I might feel weird about it, as im sure he would if the tables were turned.

Am I wrong to be annoyed by this??

2007-04-24 06:50:31 · 11 answers · asked by anon 1

I planted a hidden camera and was able to see what he does while he is at home babysitting the children while I work. He put the kids to sleep and him and her were in my bed and she was wearing my lingerie and they both went down on each other. I will kick him out but what about my sister? One more thing she is pregnant I wonder who is the father?

2007-04-24 06:49:52 · 8 answers · asked by tjohnson1 1

I have been seeing this guy for about 6 months. We said in the beginning that we would just be meeting each other's need because we were not in a relationship. The thing is I don't want to read too much into it and I am not, but based on the opinions of my gf's. When I recently told him I deleted him from my yahoo address book, he was like Oh! I didn't know I was not in it anymore. My gf said it should not matter. He sent me a few IM's a month ago that I did not get & he called me in a panic because he thought I was ignoring him. My gf said it should not matter. The last time we were together he rubbing my hair from front to back as though he was admiring me so I am wondering if any of this means anything. I am asking because this guy is the "only" guy I am with sexually, but I am dating because I want a relationship, and my gf is saying why don't I look at what's in front of me. I told her I never have because of the ground rules of only meeting needs. Do u think he thinking more

2007-04-24 06:47:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has issues with me watching porn. She says she doesn't like the fact that i have not ever watched one with her and she feels like i prefer the porn over her. Am i wrong or should she lay off and let me watch what want. its not that i don't want her to watch it its just i think she would get all but hurt!!! about it and think that i don't like her!!!!im asking this becouse i had some and she found them and some old mags. anbd she reacted like i was cheating on her!!!! what do you think about all this? would you girls get mad if your husband or boyfriend had porn or found his stash how would you feel and how would you react???? let me know guys and girls

2007-04-24 06:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just found out my boyfriends band is going to open for famous bands now, when he goes on tour he will be gone for weeks and months. I am rasing two kids (not his) and I will feel left behind. How can I remain happy and supportive when I am scared to death?

2007-04-24 06:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by 2shay 5

to the people here asking about a vow that they took before God ( or before a judge)? How old are these people?

2007-04-24 06:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by jazz41 2

why is it that he thinks that his job is the outside and the inside is mine. the inside is where we live not the outside. we fight so much because i ask to help me inside, then i can help him outside. i just feel that the inside is more important. why wont he help me?

2007-04-24 05:52:16 · 41 answers · asked by llm 2

me and my wife got married 6 months back from today. today we r celebrating the day, but i was wondering, would it be rite to call it a 1/2 year anniversarry. or it has any other word. for 6 months celebration?

2007-04-24 05:51:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous