how do you get her to stop?

Question

my husband had a female friend. that would text him all the time & call him 20+ times a day. i had a problem with it, but he said it was just a friendship. well my mother ended up in hte hospital on life support and every time we would have to go the hospital she would call & tell him good morning & she would call while we were at the hospital. to make a long story short. i had to take her off the ventalator. that was a thursday night that saturday i walked down to talk to my husband where we have our dogs & could not find him so i walked around the garage & found him talking to this lady & i freeked out on her & him. the following tuesday was her funeral. & after the services & the lunchen we were all standing outside & this lady just just lives down the block from the church. she called my hubdand & i found out by looking towrds her house & made a complete *** out of myself infront of my family & now my husband has told her to leave him alone, but she wont stop any suggestions

she has went as far as telling me she is going to call the cops on me for harassment and that she is going to beat me up. i have 3 kids that dont need to see or hear all of theis crap and the flipping me off every time she drives by. i have been a nervious reck for weeks now. she talks crap about me to all the people in the small town we live in. i neeed it to stop. any ideas would be great. ty

we would just have the number changed, but my husband uses his phone for work and would have to try and tell everyone that he has changed his number and it would be a hassel for him at work.

Answer 1

Part of the problem is your husband, he's not letting her know he doesn't want to talk or see her. The other part is you need to call the police each time she calls or even goes by your home. If she threatens you have her arrested. Now if the husband is not a 100 percent with you on this, it will not work. Either she thinks he and her are an item and he hasn't made that clear enough or she is crazy. My suggestion go to the police talk with them and call everytime she does anything to you at all. Be careful with people like her because they can and sometimes do anything to get back at you. It seems that at first the husband liked the attention and now he doesn't, he needs to talk with her in front of you on the phone of course and make it clear that if she bothers him or you again he will press charges. I am sorry about your Mother and this has to be a very stressful time and hopefully you can put a stop to this mad lady.

Answer 2

This woman is your husband's problem that effects you and the kids. Thing is, he's been having an emotional affair with her at the very least and he LIKES it. He loves her attention, he's putting her first, damaging his marriage and he doesn't care.

Your husband needs to be the one to file a restraining order against her. And he needs to make things right with you by going to counseling and figuring out why he would risk his family for this 'friend'.

If you want a really weird idea, email me through my profile and remind me of your story.