Does anyone know the cheapest way to go about getting test done. My huband knows that he may not be the father but this is really disturbing me and i want to even though my husband says he doesn't care that its his child no matter what and loves him.
2007-04-24 08:38:46 · 37 answers · asked by Tina C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good Lord........sigh
2007-04-24 08:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's no cheap way. I'd ask your doctor how to get a simple DNA paternity test. I think it costs about $300-500. If your husband doesn't care, that is a blessing. I'd leave it alone. If you find out he's the father, you will be relieved, but if you find out he's not...then you will have to tell the child at some point. That's embarrassing and very upsetting to the child.
2007-04-24 08:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your married to the man who is willing to take care of this child.Forget dna tests unless your willing to divorce your present husband and marry the child's father.Or if you are wanting to make a bad life for your kid dragging him back and forth between fathers and the child learns to pick the parent who lets him do what he wants and pits you 3 against one another.You have a good husband, forget the dna tests and forget that he may be another man's kid and you both raise him as if he were you' child together.This isnt something that is beneficial in any way at this point.Unless you are wanting to marry the other guy.I hope this teaches you to keep your panties on.
2007-04-24 08:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to go to a lawyer and subpoena the other guy to surrender to a test...then if it is found that the other man is biological father you may have to have request that he sign over parental rights so your husband can adopted your child. You'd better hope that IF the other guy is the father he does so...but then if he doesn't you can file for child support from him.
2007-04-24 16:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why do you even want to know? DNA Testing are very espensive and what is the point os not any trouble in your relationship and things happen for a reason. Maybe it's better for your son to grow up knowing that his father and not having any doubts.
2007-04-24 08:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your doctor. But under the circumstances a paternity test showing that your husband is NOT your baby's father is pretty useless. Be glad your husband loves the baby as his own. The only reason for testing would be for any medical issues, but again, that would only be useful if you know who IS the baby's biological father.
2007-04-24 08:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to in straight forward terms bypass away his sorry *** on my own. He ain't doing u or your toddlers no good! do no longer ignore, u have a sprint one on your abdomen, i'm helpful he's feeling each thing your dealing with. this is only too lots stress! U calling ur husband would not make him % to bypass back to you. you ought to break up. I understand why your loved ones isn't as supportive... they actually are, they do only no longer % to take a seat around and watch you enable him to continuously harm you and the toddlers. His relatives is actual supportive because of the fact its HIS relatives. They understand how lots of a sorry *** he's! They pity you! and that i think undesirable for you too. a guy could on no account positioned a girl by way of those style of themes. yet he could no longer replace no time quickly. do no longer waist a while calling or texting. Straighten up! carry your head up! Be good! you apart from could have a girl offspring there with you... positioned all your concentration on her. Make a plan for your self that would not comprise him, yet will make it easier to get throughout the time of here couple of months. Its gonna be annoying. yet you're able to do it!
2016-10-03 12:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would listen to your husband and leave this one alone. Your husband has already said it doesnt matter, so why do the test? A father is the man who raises you, teaches you right from wrong, patches your knee, makes you laugh when nobody else can. You want to know who donated the sperm?? Who cares?
2007-04-24 08:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Christine R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cheapest way, but not all that reliable is to compare blood types. A child has either their mother or fathers type blood. If the child doesn't have your blood type then you can check to see if it is the same as your husbands or the other man.
2007-04-24 08:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by poofheadvt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know if you can get a court order to have it done then that would be a cheap way. Other then going to a testing place and talking to them yourself. It might be better and the easiest way unless you're going to go after the father of the child.
2007-04-24 08:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maury. <3
2007-04-26 13:24:15 · answer #11 · answered by Your Musical Muse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋