My wife has issues with me watching porn. She says she doesn't like the fact that i have not ever watched one with her and she feels like i prefer the porn over her. Am i wrong or should she lay off and let me watch what want. its not that i don't want her to watch it its just i think she would get all but hurt!!! about it and think that i don't like her!!!!im asking this becouse i had some and she found them and some old mags. anbd she reacted like i was cheating on her!!!! what do you think about all this? would you girls get mad if your husband or boyfriend had porn or found his stash how would you feel and how would you react???? let me know guys and girls
2007-04-24 06:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What gives you woman the right to even judge us men. Entitled to it no but it is a right of free speak in the constituion. Lets leave the first amendment out of this it is the right of any grown adult .So why don't you woman take the catus outta of your asses and relaxe a little.
2007-04-29 04:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by robrodman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to my EX husband, he had an obsession with porn and that is why he is single today after 8 yrs of marriage. Porn will destroy your life, not just your marriage, but everything in it. When someone watches porn he is lusting and when someone lusts it is adultry in the heart and it does make you feel as your spouse is with another woman. Think about it------ would it bother you if other men made your wife hot and get off???? You need to get on the right path so you dont destroy your life and marriage.
2007-04-28 18:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Namoosa~ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're hiding something about yourself from your wife, and that's what's hurting her. It's really simple, just ask her to look at the magazines and to watch porn with you; don't exclude her. You can use this as an opportunity to discuss sex--positions, techniques, or fantasies you would like to perform with/on each other.
The fact that she's offended because you haven't asked her should tell you that she wants to watch it too. You're assuming that if she watches it, she'll get all but hurt, that may not necessarily be true. Sex is about bodies. Your wife has either seen it, has it, or had it, right ?
2007-04-27 21:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex acted jealous all the time even though I had only been kissed by one to her man at that time who had been my first husband.
So it was very devastating for me to find that he had made a home made porn tape with what looked like a professional and was watching it while I was away at my sisters funeral.
I guess for you to kind of get what it feels like would be to imagine if you were not able to get and erection as you did when you were young and your wife watched porn with men in it with the nice erections and you saw the joy on her face as she watched. How would you feel about her stash?
2007-04-29 05:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Arene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think porn is appropriate in a marriage...It would make any woman feel insecure and uncomfortable...I think she wants you to be more into her than porn....
It may make her feel like you are not attracted to her or that is what you have to watch to get yourself excited about sex with her....Porn opens up the door for distrust and emotional issues in your marriage...I would lay off the porn and focus more on the wifey and maybe she will do some of those porn star moves and feel more comfortable and open about sex with you...
2007-04-28 23:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by PRETTY N PINK 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men and women think and act differently.
We live in a society where good looks and money are of vital importance. And if your wife sees you watch porn she'll feel like something is wrong with her and she will feel sad and angry, too. (People who appear in porn videos are usually young and good-looking, and women tend to compare themselves to those actresses.)
I don't like porn and I would not feel comfortable if my man watched it. Some people don't care; I do. Just my opinion.
2007-04-28 21:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nena S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is sort of like cheating. you are getting off watching other women instead of the one you're with. it's going to hurt her either way, but you should let her watch it with you...whatever it takes to make her feel secure. maybe let her know some things you like and see if she'd be willing to experiment with you. otherwise, she will always be insecure, have a problem trusting you, will get bitter, and eventually leave.
2007-04-29 13:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Elle M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn will destroy you. What is it that gives men the right to think they are entitled to porn?
If you want porn, make out with her. Start making her the subject of your fantasies.
2007-04-24 17:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Christmas Light Guy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why don't you pay more attention to your wife instead of watchin porn. its annoying to find out your boyfriend or husband would rather look at porn than you and it hurts. grow up and pay attention to your wife.Porn is for pimply high school boys who can't get any
2007-04-29 10:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by lsp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling I found his stash and showed him mine and we laughed a lot - why wont you bring her some mags of her own of nice guys and also some movies and offer her the same its not like she will cheat on you right?
2007-04-28 23:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by thinker bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋