I planted a hidden camera and was able to see what he does while he is at home babysitting the children while I work. He put the kids to sleep and him and her were in my bed and she was wearing my lingerie and they both went down on each other. I will kick him out but what about my sister? One more thing she is pregnant I wonder who is the father?
2007-04-24 06:49:52 · 8 answers · asked by tjohnson1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sick.
2007-04-24 06:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised you haven't done anything yet. I think I would have been so angry that I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from being destructive in some way, kicking him and all his stuff out or something. At this point I think I would confront him alone and see how it goes. Do you want out of the marriage? I would be very angry with your sister. I think if you want to salvage your relationship with her, I think you and she should go into counseling together immediately and confront her there. Good luck and I'm glad I'm not you.
2007-04-24 14:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by kattsmeow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, make sure you have a family get together and show your husband the tape and you sister at the same time you may want your parents in there or another sibling just to have your back when they get mad and start getting rude with you....
Good luck
2007-04-24 13:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by kc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first.Can you forgive your husband for what he has done to you?Can you forgive your sister and continue to live with her?If "Yes" to both then you can ask your husband to take your sister as his second wife.If you can't do even one of the above then leave your husband along with your children for good.Hope you can support yourself honourably.
2007-04-24 14:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Prof.Kadher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, I have seen this before. It's time for a divorce and tell your sister good-by as well.
2007-04-24 13:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out of that situation and get a divorce.....as of your sister take her out of your life....she doesnt care nor respects you or your children and neither does your husband theres no need for you to lend her a hand.
2007-04-24 14:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam NOTthe father...ok? i dont need a 14 year old wife
2007-04-24 13:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your really stupid if you do not know what to do...
2007-04-24 14:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋