Marriage & Divorce - 24 April 2007

My husband erases his internet history every time he's on the computer. I've asked him why and he says that someone told him that's how people hack into our computer and get our personal information. We don't keep any personal information, such as banking, etc., on our computer. Is this really true or is he probably just looking at porn or searching things that I wouldn't be pleased with him searching.

2007-04-24 10:13:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf have been together in a stable relationship for 2 yrs now
i am 21.5 , he is 23
we are still going to college together
we see each other all the time, spend most of time together
never had serious fight or argument
our lifestlye is similar and super simple, no drama, no party

what will be a right age to get married?

2007-04-24 10:09:43 · 20 answers · asked by nini piggy 1

2007-04-24 10:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Kathy 1

I have recently got in touch with my ex-husband after 20 years. We both just ended long term marriages and we have been seeing each other for a few months and I am falling head over heels in love with him. My parents do not like him a whole lot; I might have let that influence the break-up in the beginning. I have a child from my 2nd marriage (he has none) and there are so many other obstacles but I can't seem to stop myself. I feel like I have been led back to him. Like it is fate. It never really felt "over." We just did not have what it took to make marriage work back then. We both have changed in so many ways- we seemed to both work on problems that destroyed things in the beginning and it just feels right. We have so much in common and sometimes we talk and it feels like we have one mind. No one knows that I am seeing him again; I'm ready to tell even though it is going to cause a huge uproar. I'm beyond caring- I just want to be with him. Is this so unbelievably selfish of me?

2007-04-24 10:06:19 · 8 answers · asked by Life is Crazy, so am I 3

Don't you guys think that the people in this forum who are over 30 think they know EVERYTHING? Maybe they have been married for 10+ years, or have had a dozen kids or the same career for years and years. SO WHAT?! Does that make them more qualified than us? My mom was married for 17 years and apparently she didn't know everything about marriage cause she got divorced!

I'm just sayin.


What do you guys think?

2007-04-24 10:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by BamBam 3

My ex-boyfriend and I used to live together, he lost his job and found one 3 months later, I moved out before that time, too much debt by that time, simply I felt he gave up on us ?

2007-04-24 10:02:24 · 11 answers · asked by sandra 2

2007-04-24 10:02:20 · 18 answers · asked by Knuckledragger 4

our relationship was getting pretty rocky and we both agreed to the seperation i have not spoken to him at all in the past 5 weeks but its still there with me i think of him every single day there wasnt much attention or communication and i got tired of it i also heard hes depressed too from a friend of ours but heres the thing i have a pfa on him he has a hott temper and he cant call me but i feel him thinking of me all the time what should i do please help ty so much jewels

2007-04-24 10:02:00 · 10 answers · asked by jewels 2

a guy you have been with with 3 months, he's leaving for iraq in november and you feel like this is it! No one else has ever made you feel this way, and you want to marry him before he goes, in case he doesnt come back, then you could say i married the man i loved more than anything?

2007-04-24 10:01:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is having difficulty climaxing, and her doctor says the zoloft she's been taking for about a year could be to blame. There didn't used to be a problem until recently. It could be that she switched to a higher dosage. It's very frustrating for her, and the frustration she has only compounds the problem.

Sometimes she uses toys to help her along, but even with those it can be a challenge. Every now and then things will go well, but most of the time sex ends badly for her. Does anyone have any experience with a spouse or partner who has the same issue? Is there something we could do different?

2007-04-24 10:00:33 · 6 answers · asked by Jeff 3

I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and a half and we lived together for about a year of that. We had a short term break up in January for about 3 weeks. During that time I started talking to my ex again. I feel like my ex is who I am suppose to be with. But for some reason this new girl still has my heart and I just can't let her go. What should I do? My ex has been in love with me since we broke up 2 years ago. Am I just feeling this way because I was having trouble in my current relationship or should I go back to my ex after all of this time? Please help.

2007-04-24 09:57:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it seem that the young newlyweds or those that have been married only a couple of years seem to know all the answers to relationship problems on Yahoo answers?They have not even gone through any of the really rough times yet.It seems that they think if you make it to the 5 yr. mark you have it made.I can't wait to read some of their answers after they have been married for 20 or more years.Does anyone else agree?

2007-04-24 09:53:37 · 60 answers · asked by Teresa 5

i guess ia sked him to leave out of anger because i found out he was talking to another girl he claims is just friend but i told him to leave like three days later I asked him to come back home he said no that he was tired of the drama..i found out that he is already looking for an apartment...am confused as to what i should do let him go and get over him or keep tring to get him to come home... we have been together for four years and we have two kids am really confused please help

2007-04-24 09:51:04 · 19 answers · asked by Chyka 2

He was such a special and loving man. I am going to visit my children and my husbands grave the end of this month. It will of been year ago the 28th of April. What can I do with my adult children and grandchildren to keep his remembreance alive.

2007-04-24 09:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by stormey_84074 3

2007-04-24 09:46:57 · 9 answers · asked by ☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻ 1

Why is it that when a man has an affair, the wife blames the other woman? I have seen so many of these "talk shows" when the wife really has a go at the other woman, but surely, her aggression should be directed towards her husband, he was the one that made the promise to be with her etc. Yes, the other woman could say No, but at the end of the day, the man should take responsibility for his own actions.....what do you thing?.....

2007-04-24 09:44:34 · 41 answers · asked by MrandMrs 2

Well this girl he was cheating on me with started e-mailing me on myspace a few weeks ago. I want to be a ***** yet, do it in a sophisticated, witty manner that will make her hurt more than this ever hurt me. The problem being I have not Idea what to say, or how to go about saying it. I do not want to make any treats, that is just not me. I am 20, husband 21 she is 23. I have one 15 mo. old son, she has three kids twin boys and a girl. She is a bar slut, trashiest thing I have ever laid my eyes on, I am not. I was raised in a good home with strong roots. Why he turned to her I do not know, but I need some help telling her off. I must have wasted all my time and energy telling him off.

2007-04-24 09:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

to avoid arguments for his special day? the last time we crossed is wasnt very pretty.

2007-04-24 09:38:54 · 19 answers · asked by thresa_moats 1

does your marriage still have romance?

2007-04-24 09:36:57 · 17 answers · asked by HereIam 1

I have been married to my hubby 5 yrs we were college sweet hearts but have been having lots of problems.Hubby has issues at work we started of working for the same company just different branches making the same amount but over time i started getting promotions started making more money and my hubby stayed pretty much at the same level he started at.This is when hubbys irrational mood swings started causing fights.I was transfered 3 months ago to hubbys department as hubbys bosses boss.Things have been really silent around our home and hubby does not understand me or my goals.I have plans to quit my job at the end of this year and go into entrepreneur work for more flexiable work day.Problem is my new business partner is an ex.bf from highschool i am still very much attracted to and vice-versa.We think a lot a like have a strange understanding and i am afraid this could be dangerous since my marriage is on rocks?

2007-04-24 09:32:53 · 15 answers · asked by Jenny B 1

My husband & I have been together for 5 years, but married for about a year & a half. We have a 2 year old son & 1 on the way. We are both 23, but there is no "spark" there anymore. We don't get alone time very often, but when our son is in bed, my husband goes downstairs & I go to bed. We have sex maybe once every couple weeks...I love him to death, but there isn't that "newlywed" thing that we should have, and no romance. How do I get that spark back?

2007-04-24 09:30:33 · 25 answers · asked by adamsmom 2

my husband and i have our ups and downs. we have and probably will always hurt each other throughout our lives. we're people.

but we have a romance and love that goes so far beyond the pain and trials and keeps us alive and committed.

sometimes we lie in bed wondering if anyone has a marriage like us...

and i wonder...

how many other people lie in bed wondering the very same thing?

2007-04-24 09:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by HereIam 1

there is a whole lot more to the story but they only allow a you a thousand characters to work with.i dont choose to live this way but i know that if i had a way out the situation i would definitly leave my husband.my husbands do a lot of things and he is very insecure.he got up in the middle of the night like 3 something in the morning to see what i was doing in the bathroom and why i was taking long in there.mind you he was sound asleep so he really dont know how long i was in there.and he would make a argument about me taking long in the bathroom.there are numerous things that i have to go through day to day with him and being though im in no position in no way shape or form to just move and find my own place because i have no money no family and no friends no bank accounts and nothing to my name.sometimes i just bust out crying and asking myself how long do i have to live like this.i ask one person what i should do and they said since i have nothing then i have no choice but 2stay

2007-04-24 09:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the deal. My soon to be ex husband works at a hospital and it turns out half of the hospital likes to gossip about what I am doing (which I found out from a friend at the hospital). My soon to be ex has continued and started the gossip about me. I am now looking for a job and several people have told me to apply at the hospital for a position I would be perfect for me. If I apply and actually get the job, then I would not be working in the same area as him. I know how to leave my home life at home and my work life at work. HE takes home life to work. I have been told by several people that they do not exactly like him, but he thinks everyone loves him. If I do get the job, then I would hardly see him since it is in a totally seperate area. If I don't apply for the job and attempt to get it, then I won't be able to see the kids as much (totally other story, he's getting custody).

So my ? is, should I apply for the job or respect his wishes and not apply?

2007-04-24 09:27:17 · 6 answers · asked by KJ97Y100 2

I have been married for 8 years and have 2 wonderful children with this man. But I have not felt in love with him in a long time Yes I love him and care for him but he really isn't that man that makes me go OOHH LALA. But on the other hand I cannot stop thinking about my first true love that I haven't been with in almost 10 years. I dream about him and I being together all the time and think about him when I am not dreaming. I still have so much love for him. We had a real rocky relationship but we were young and dumb. We were together for 4 years since I was 16 till 19 years old. Then we had a break up and I met my husband at work. My husband proposed to me with in 3 months of our relationship and I accepted. I really think I have made a BIG mistake. Should I go try to get my first love back and end my marriage I need some advise. HELP

2007-04-24 09:26:57 · 15 answers · asked by winnie78 2

paint off of old houses for a painting company. Shouldn't I be the one with an extra job?

2007-04-24 09:17:16 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

thanks for mail i have seeing it but the answer still coming in i want to you peopl still have me mind.and plaese can you people send me phone me because i will like to talk to people on phone.and give the trusth just once i will check in three days time and sorry to ask again but i think when we are saying of work i think the is kind of job i am look fore

2007-04-24 09:15:07 · 2 answers · asked by lohzing b 1

2007-04-24 09:13:04 · 22 answers · asked by Ashers 1

It has been 25-30 years ago dad had custody in Tx. Mom moved taking kids to Pa. She got custody there. Now wants back child support. The kids are grown.

2007-04-24 09:09:18 · 9 answers · asked by Debbie H 1

My parents want me to have an arranged marriage with a girl i dont know but i want to marry my girlfreind and my mum n dad say if i do that they will basically dis own me. i really want to marry my girlfriend but not sure what affect it will have on my family and myselfs relationship what do i do please help

2007-04-24 09:08:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous