Well this girl he was cheating on me with started e-mailing me on myspace a few weeks ago. I want to be a ***** yet, do it in a sophisticated, witty manner that will make her hurt more than this ever hurt me. The problem being I have not Idea what to say, or how to go about saying it. I do not want to make any treats, that is just not me. I am 20, husband 21 she is 23. I have one 15 mo. old son, she has three kids twin boys and a girl. She is a bar slut, trashiest thing I have ever laid my eyes on, I am not. I was raised in a good home with strong roots. Why he turned to her I do not know, but I need some help telling her off. I must have wasted all my time and energy telling him off.
2007-04-24 09:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't honestly think that you can hurt her more than you are hurting. I'm very sorry for your pain. Maybe remind her that someday her home can be destroyed as she did to yours. Maybe ask her if she is intending for her daughter to also be a bar ****, a tramp and just the other woman or if she will be happy when her sons grow up to think of woman as trash and nothing more.??
2007-04-24 11:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by White Helix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Youth sometimes clouds judgement, and as women we sometimes choose to ignore the red flags thrown up by our loved ones' behaviors. I would tastefully remove myself from the relationship, and find a more dedicated man that is more focused on his wife and family, and not looking to go astray. To be honest, whether or not she knew about you isn't relavant. If you classy, you will let her be so she can repeat her own mistakes. You're better than that.
2007-04-24 22:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be the mature adult here and act like one. You should not have any contact with her what so ever. You and your husband need to go to marriage counseling and work on your marriage.
2007-04-24 22:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste anymore of you energy on that &)^$^&#. ignore it. if you try the revenge tactic, it could get out of hand. think of your little one even if she isn't thinking of hers. spend your energy on figuring out what you plan to do about your marraige.
2007-04-24 18:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋