Are you secure in your marriage? Do you know for certain your partner will not cheat?

Question

I mean you hear of people cheating for whatever reason, how can you really besure that your spouse will not cheat.

Answer 1

Oddly, as I thought about your questions, I realized that two things were true:

1. I am secure in my marriage; and
2. I do not know for certain my wife won't cheat.

I think it is highly unlikely that she would cheat. However, she is human, as are we all, and sometimes temptations can be devastatingly strong. However, even if she did, I don't think it would spell the end of our marriage, which is why #1 is true.

Answer 2

Yes I feel secure in my marriage...

I am reasonably certain my husband won't cheat... But nothing is ever fool proof..

I would hope my husband would continue communicating openly with me as we have for the past 10.5 years...

I would never want him to cheat on me or me on him, I also would never want to hold him in a relationship he doesn't want to be in.. From the beginning of our marriage we have always agreed that if things don't work out or if either of us is unhappy we will talk about it and try to work for a solution together if at all possibly otherwise amicably seperate...

Neither of us has ever felt trapped in our marriage and therefore have never felt the urge to rattle the cage...

Answer 3

Is there a guarantee with anything. I know a couple and he cheated while she was pregnant. I would have never thought he would ever cheat so that opened my eyes. The only thing with my husband while we dated we went through lots of stuff and that just showed us what we needed to know. Where some couples have no problems till after they are married then look out! You Never Know! Good Luck!

Answer 4

You can never be totally sure someone wont cheat. The key to any good relationship is trust. I would hope my husband wouldnt cheat but I refuse to act like some crazy wife following him around all day worrying that he may cheat. If he does, thats his choice.

Answer 5

You cant. You hope that they love you enough to not cheat, but you can never be for certain that the temptation wont over come them. You know what they say shi% happens, so does cheating, even in the most loving of marriages. Things happen but all you can do is try to prevent it.

Answer 6

We've been married 26 years. We don't have time to cheat. We both work and come home and collapse. I know everyone she works with and she knows everyone i work with. I'm just very secure in my marriage and don't believe she would cheat on me. #1 she can't even lie to me...she's tried and she stutters and won't look me in the eye, so forth. If she were going to cheat on me it would have been long ago when we both were younger and cuter. LOL

Answer 7

Am I secure in my marriage? Oh definitely. Am I afraid that he will cheat on me? Absolutely not. How? He doesn't believe in it, his friends are all men and he never talks to a woman unless he really and truly has to. When he goes to his friends's houses he's always in a separate room from their wives and daughters (it's his habit). He tells me over and over and over again how lucky he is to be married to me and I tell him the same. His family always tells me that I am for him and he is for me. When he walks in the door ( he works out of town) every other day I treat him like royalty. I take care of all of his needs (if you get my drift). Let me see, he completes me and I complete him. The most important reason he will not cheat is because he can have more than one wife. In that case I'd rather he opted for another wife; something he won't do, cause he's always telling me one wife is enough, so that he can make decent women out of both of us. Over here in Saudi Arabia it's legal to have more than one wife. I just found out earlier this year; something of which I had no idea, that he fell head over heels in love with me when he first saw me. Well, that was 23 years ago in a hotel in Amman Jordan. Hey to let the cat out of the bag I felt the same way the first time I layed eyes on him. So after a period of six months, no dating, no phone calls, no letters we were married in a courthouse in Amman Jordan. Now would it surprise you if I told you I'm from Wisconsin born of Prussian-German descent. Now in addition to all of that he does a lot of traveling and told me he had his way he'd take me where ever he goes. (a friend and he are building a business together and at times they travel together (I've never met or seen this friend) So now I rest my case and have no more to say.

Answer 8

I am 99.9 percent sure. My man is one of a kind and I know his values, morals and love for me.
That being said, in the right (or wrong) situation, it's possible for anyone to cheat. The key is staying out of those situations!

Answer 9

My man will never cheat because there's no reason for him to look to anyone but me for his needs & that is physical as well as emtoinal. People stray when they are not in a relationship that gives them back what they give & need.

Answer 10

I am sure because he hasn't done it before and the fact that he loves me. He is really spiritual and doesn't even believes in divorce. Then again, he is a man, and he might, but as of right now, I trust him.